Jealousy  

kitz6 60F
1045 posts
5/1/2006 4:54 am

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5/5/2006 5:50 am

Jealousy

A dangerous cocktail of "if I can't have her then no one else will" , possesiveness, and twisted pride that is an expression of the ultimate in insecurity. But women play the game too. Esp when they slander another woman to get the man. In such situations, my response is - take him, he's yours.

All of this, having been learnt, can be unlearned by addressing the underlying insecurities and learning that you can trust the emotional bond between you two. This makes you far easier to live with as well even if you two aren't playing.

Let the feeling go. Welcome your mate with hugs, kisses, and smiles - not blows to the face. Ask her if she had a nice time. Then let her show you the newest trick she's learned. *EG*


digdug41 49M

5/1/2006 6:18 am

I dont know I cant call it I figure if the female I am intereted in doesn' trust me then its a dead issue same goes for men too I think you have to be centered before you can go an invite someone else in your life

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kitz6 replies on 5/1/2006 9:45 am:
Yes.

Phineas2005 48M
854 posts
5/1/2006 10:22 am

"Welcome your mate with hugs, kisses, and smiles - not blows to the face."

I have been trying to tell that to my wife for 15 years now...then again she is a latina...just a little hot blooded...


kitz6 replies on 5/1/2006 1:38 pm:
Ah! That explains it!

rm_in2myharley 46M

5/3/2006 12:41 pm

    Quoting Phineas2005:
    "Welcome your mate with hugs, kisses, and smiles - not blows to the face."

    I have been trying to tell that to my wife for 15 years now...then again she is a latina...just a little hot blooded...
reminds me of a joke...

What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?

Nothin, you already told her twice!


kitz6 replies on 5/3/2006 6:31 pm:
in2myharley, that kind of talk gets you PUNISHED!!!

_Safira 53F
11260 posts
5/5/2006 2:03 am

Jealousy as well as possessiveness are useless items. I can be concerned for someone I care about, insofar as it pertains to helping them obtain all that they desire ... and loyal in my caring. The first two? Nonexistent. Does this make me appear uncaring and/or unfeeling at times. Yes. I've lost relationships BECAUSE I am neither jealous or possessive. Is it any wonder I value my freedom so much?

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kitz6 replies on 5/5/2006 5:51 am:
Not at all, dear, and I quite agree!

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