kitz6 59F
1045 posts
11/14/2005 5:22 am

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It has become harder to come up with really stimulating fantasies any more. What used to be fantasies, have since become reality - been there, done that - twice over at least just to make sure. Ask me what my fantasies are, I have to say that I no longer have any. Since the physical acts and various combinations of personnel have been explored - what remains are the people involved - not people as bodies, but people as persons. This means finding hot buttons, tickle zones, and all of the ideas in your head that lead to your self image. All of which will take some time. This is why frantic car sex in the parking lot, surreptitious couplings in the back booth at some club, or other forms of 'alleyway' sex is not going to happen. I want you to be relaxed and comfortable while I spend time finding out your secrets. So plan on spending at least 4 hours with me in a slightly darkened room with a large bed with clean sheets.

RottenApple70 47M

11/14/2005 6:45 am


How about quiet fantasies. Say, limit communication to email or IM, set up a date/time to meet. And try to percieve the other person's personality using only facial expressions and body language. I'd be curious to see which more arousing, the stimulation of articulated language or the mysterious rousings of body language-expression without words. Something to ponder at the very least.

Also, wasn't sure if you had checked out the Fairfax Gangbangers lately. lowellgk, posted an article there called, "Travelling to Reston frequently for work." Where she is looking for men and females to join. I've spoke to some of my female friends about getting involved. Would you be interested?

kitz6 59F

11/14/2005 7:32 am

Possibly Can they embrace the rules? Every woman does every man and every man does every woman. Manners do matter after all.

RottenApple70 47M

11/14/2005 11:27 am

I think that can be arranged. Also I thanks again for posting your rules. I've passed them along to others that have had problems with groups and I think your rules serve as a proactive deterrent to those problems. So a big kudos for you.

Phineas2005 48M
854 posts
11/14/2005 10:51 pm

Are we getting jadded here? Fantasies are limited only by oneself. But it's true that you may taste many different flavors, you always come back to vanilla. Sometimes the most statisfying are the simple things.

CatandHarry42 58M/54F

11/15/2005 10:59 am

Ok.. you said reply on your blog. But I didn't see post about the upcomming DC party.
FYI, We have these dates avalible for weekends:
Nov. 25/27 maybe
Dec 9/11 open
Dec 23/25 open

Let us know, i'll be around the chat room. (as always)


kitz6 59F

11/16/2005 11:22 am

How about Thursday December 8th at noon for an afternoon of fun and frolic?

_Safira 53F
11260 posts
11/16/2005 12:11 pm

Dearest Kitz ~

I like RottenApple's ideas. I believe that they have merit. Of course, knowing you as well as I do I have no doubt that your mind is simply recharging, and that we can look forward to future fascinating fantasies. (Like the alliteration? )

And being a student of Quantum Physics (rather than Geometry) which is, after all, the study of infinite possibilities, I know they'll be quite enticing ones at that!

I breathlessly await your further posts!

A bientot, mon cher ami ...


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RottenApple70 47M

11/18/2005 1:53 pm

Thanks Safira. Here's another idea I've been toying around with two. TV related fantasies. Living out a fantasy based on a favorite moment from either TV or a movie. Imagine a quiet evening for two (or more), and sharing in the magic of that favorite moment...

Does this stir the imagination?

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