kissnlik 40F
295 posts
7/10/2006 6:19 pm

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8/9/2006 4:02 pm


What the hell happened to me? When did I become the BITCH? I use to be such a nice person. I use to care about the feelings of others, but what happened? I've thought about this for a while and I've come up with some of the things that set me off. 1. My husband, his voice, the way he looks at me, the way he talks to me and the way he treats me pushes me right into bitch mode. He whines about the things he wants. He has a never ending list of demands for me, for example, I'll lay down after working for 10 hours and he'll lay on the bed next to me and start asking me to scratch his back, rub his head or massage his feet. He makes promises to do these things in return and half of the time he laughs and says "well I lied." He's not working right now except for being a stay at home dad. He gets mad at me if I do nothing around the house before I go to work, things like folding clothes, dishes, washing the truck, things that would make me to tired to go to work. He doesn't smile at me or even acknowledge when I've walked into the room. He always expects me to cook for him or go buy dinner but he won't do this stuff for me. He wants me to find him a job. He wants me to take care of his 93 year old grandfather who lives with us, and I do. I do the grocery shopping, drive my daughter to school every day, drive his grandfather to church every Sunday and take him wherever else he needs to go. He never has nothing nice to say to me. Even his jokes are rude. He'll try to be funny by saying stuff like get me my food BITCH, do it NOW! then he'll start laughing. I never do it though and I've told him his jokes aren't funny at all and if he wants to act like a ghetto bastard I'll make sure he ends up there. 2. Stupid requests from helpless people at my job! I don't know how many times I have to tell people the ice machine is 2 feet from where they're standing. I also can't stand when people what to check into a room with no form of payment or they want to use someone elses credit card without the person being here. I've had people come to the desk claiming to have lost a pet, Pets aren't allowed in this hotel! I've had people lie to my face about smoking in the room when I can see the smoke billowing in the air. This is a non smoking hotel! They lie about how many people are in their room, but have to walk through the lobby to ge them in! We have them on camera and they still stick with the lie! I'm so tired of stupidity. I think I've become the bitch over the last 5 years. I can't take the crap from other people anymore. I've lost my desire to go to work and I've lost my desire to stay at home. I love my kids dearly and I feel like soon it's just going to be me and them. I live with a very selfish, self centered person who will not give of himself for me. But to top it all off, if one of his friends were to call, he would be right there for them.WTF? Why don't I count? I've put up with his shit the longest of anyone he knows and still I get nothing in return. Whats up with that? UUUUgghhhhh...>=( Sorry it's so long, but I just had to vent.

KiltsBabelPlums 44M
1 post
7/10/2006 6:48 pm

im so sorry to hear all that stuff happening to you. made me cry alittle. i dont like to see people hurting, it bothers me. Good grief here we are on a sex site and im getting all sentimental and gooshy on you. Sorry. i do like sex but its not my main focus to be honest. I just wish I could find someone to do it with thats nice and has a mega sex drive like i do. anyway maybe sometime if youd like to hook up id love to meet you and take you out for dinner sometime

Djeeper1987 47M

7/10/2006 6:49 pm

Vent away!!! Let it out!!!

Carpe Diem

spacecadet561 60M

7/10/2006 8:25 pm

It sounds like it happened sometime after your husband became "Mr. Mom". Your workplace might benefit from someone who looks like Arnold's brother (Schwarzenegger, not the guy who ran the malt shop on Happy Days). Good luck.


MarcusAurelias 46M

7/10/2006 9:18 pm

After reading all that you had to say, I want to give our idiot of a husband a kick up and down LA to get some sense into his thick head. Here he is doing nothing all day, while you work you fingers to the bone, at work and at home. Doesn't he understand, that he is a very lucky man, to have you and the kids!! Here is a beautiful woman who is his partner in life and here he is being a complete and utter bastard...Not cool, so you fel free to vent and exsponge you anger and regrets here and we'll cheer you on..If you would like to be looked after by a proper gentleman, albeit a Scottish one then let me know..

rm_yikes322002 36M
1 post
7/14/2006 11:28 pm

Hey, I know you're venting but hey hit me up when ever you want for that back and foot rub!

freshlybaked14U 43M  
1 post
8/8/2006 5:18 pm

Wow. Your husband and my ex-wife would get along great! Of course nothing would ever get done and they would be on welfare

Sorry to hear you're going through that. You sound like a wonderful woman, and I'd kill to have someone in my life that would be as great.

Hope things get better for you soon!

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