Guys don't love the fat girl  

kissnlik 40F
295 posts
4/11/2006 8:31 pm

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3/17/2007 9:51 pm

Guys don't love the fat girl


Okay guys, I got a question! Why in the world would you assume a girl is hot when you read her profile and see the words "Prefer not to say" next to the description "body type"? Let's think about this for a minute....hmmmm! This is a website where people go to meet other people who want to have sex, right? Okay, we have to put in a description of ourselves, right? Sure. Well, if I'm a smokin hot chick with a smokin hot body, why would I leave that one small piece of information out of my description? I'll tell you why. Chicks who leave out that information are FAT!!! Big, fat, stretched out bodies that hide behind a computer looking for the ultimate guy who can see beyond the blubber and accept you as a woman who loves sex and will enjoy doing it with you. Don't be so quick to assume that we are these thin, perfect bodied, women with huge tits. Honestly, do you think women like that need a website like this?? I'm so sick of guys wanting to talk and then the first question they ask is " ARE YOU HOT??" I know right then the conversation is over. Not many men want to do the fat girl, a lot of them don't even want to talk. We are still human beings and just a horny as the next girl. Most of us can work it just as good or even better than the next girl because we try harder to please. I'm pretty, and I'm fat! There's a reason I don't put in my body type on the profile. I'm looking for a personality behind that screen name, not a hard body with a head full of 50 cent cliches and 20 year old pick up lines!

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
4/11/2006 9:17 pm

You go girl! Tell them like it is. What is really funny is that most of these guys doing just this thing are not very hot themselves!


lexingtoncock 52M/50F

4/11/2006 9:18 pm

I am sorry, but I feel this site is for people that want to get laid not relationships, they have e harmony for that, YES! the men do want the fat chicks or thick women or fluffy or whatever you want to call it. Those women are more into giving their all, so girl put your measurements out there, there are guys who like a woman with junk in her trunk good luck!


buttnut1 45M
35 posts
4/11/2006 9:21 pm

Not so true its the personality


jamherwithmycock 43M/36F
68 posts
4/11/2006 9:30 pm

why dont you have a pic then?


handyrandy1963 53M

4/11/2006 9:34 pm

There is nothing wrong with girls that have a few extra pounds. I see hundreds of women on the street every day and the ones that I am attracted to are certainly not super models. You have to look at the whole package. I have never asked a woman that I wrote to if she was hot. I will admit a face pic is nice. I always send a face pic of myself when I write. I do think that there are alot of decent guys out here. I also thing that there are also alot of women that are just as superficial as a lot of men. It goes both ways. I really think the women on this site really have the upper hand. They probably get hundreds of E-mails a day and have lots of choices. I am lucky if I can even get a response, and I am decent looking and have a decent profile and lots to offer if I could get a chance.


alittlecrazy4you 52M

4/11/2006 10:55 pm

hr, Well said. I am attached to one is larger and I LOVE BIG TITS, we have greta sex, she has drive that will hurt you when she gets close to Org. The question is, are you happy?

Seems all to true the chics get to pick though.

As for me; not looking for a larger gal. I have met some more petite gals who moved their ass like the paint shaker at sherwin williams. i can't pass that up, plus you can toss em about and those I have encountered are a tad more flexible. But like you siad it is the whole package, there are some bigger broader gals that turn me on, so it it all about making it past the intro and what are you happy with...


kcilxes 59M/51F
18 posts
4/12/2006 5:33 pm

You are correct, personallity is important, whether it's for quick and dirty sex or something long term. I've seen some of the hottest women out there but the personallity was so screwed up I wouldn't be interested even if they were naked and offering me money. I have been with women from slim to bbw's and since I'm pretty damn hideous, I sure will never go by the outside, but rather who the person is inside. Guys really never know if they are going to get laid or not, we just step up and try to hit a home run. Women on the other hand will usually know within a half and hour if the guy she's with is going to be thrown on the bed and ridden until he's half dead, then do it again....

I am also a realist, that if I join here, I may not get alot of notice since I'm one of hundred of thousands of guys here and since I make quasimoto look good, my chances of getting anything aren't exactly in my favor But I'll step up and try to hit a home run and maybe, one day, I'll find a blind woman (j/k) who will enjoy my strange and perverted sense of humor and personallity.


HardasRock663 57M
2 posts
4/16/2006 9:30 am

OK Lets put the shoe on the other foot. Would you respond to a picture of a fat guy 60 years old with a small dick? This is a sex site, the best sex is about fantasies, I think 90% of good sex is in your head, not the one between your legs. Do you fantasize about fat old men?


kissnlik 40F

4/16/2006 5:50 pm

oKAY, SOMEONE ASKED ME TO PUT THE SHOE ON THE OTHER FOOT, SO HERE GOES. I AM ATTRACTED TO OLDER, MAYBE EVEN MORE THAN 10 YEARS OLDER DEPENDING ON HOW HE RESPONDS TO ME. I'M NOT OLD, NOT AT ALL UGLY, ONLY FAT! I GIVE EVERYONE A CHANCE, IF THEY HAVE A BRAIN IN THEIR SKULL. I'M IN NO WAY LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP AT ALL! I HAVE 2 GUYS ALREADY AND THAT'S ENOUGH FOR NOW, WHEN I DECIDE TO MOVE ON OR TRY SOMEONE NEW, I PREFER THEM TO HAVE SOME KIND OF PERSONALITY OTHERWISE I MIGHT AS WELL BE DOING THAT VIBRATING PIECE OF PLASTIC AT HOME BY MYSELF. I AM ATTRACTED TO ALL KINDS OF GUYS AND NEVER ASK FOR WEIGHT OR PENIS SIZE! AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT EITHER. I DO HOWEVER LIKE TO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH THOSE WHO WOULD LIKE TO REMAIN FRIENDS. I HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE AND WILL NOT TIP TOE THROUGH IT TO ARRIVE SAFELY AT MY GRAVE!


SirMounts 102M

4/22/2006 12:04 am

A very rare statement... very well done.
A warm welcome to the blogs, kissnlik. *smiling*


sweet_sthrnsatin 35F
14 posts
7/9/2006 9:36 am

kissnlik you are so awsome. You are the first big woman I have met who doesnt act like they are ashamed of themselves in some way. You flat out told them how it is. And you're right. It always kills me to see a big old fat guy put on his profile or where a shirt that says "No Fat Chicks". I mean,cum on dude. Who the fuk are ya kidding? Most of the guys that write that are assholes. And yeah this is a sex site, but if someone has an ugly personality or no personality, why the heck even bother going to meet them. Cuzz ya might as well stay home with a 12 pack of batteries and ur little plastic friend.lmao.


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