Scared little rant for Wednesday  

kinkybutcute27 38F
68 posts
8/30/2006 8:57 am

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8/31/2006 1:59 pm

Scared little rant for Wednesday

Please be prepared: I am having a hellacious morning, and I have nowhere else to vent - read with caution.

Something I have noticed over the past couple years is how easily intimidated most men are - by women I mean. Not just any kind of women - strong, independent women.

Women who have their proverbial shit together. Women who think for themselves and like to be heard.
Women who don't take alot of unnecessary shit. Women who WON'T do absolutely anything to "keep their man."
Women who have enough backbone to be alone rather be single than in an unhappy relationship because they're scared to be alone.
Women who have jobs and make their own living and dont HAVE to depend on anyone for anything. Women who won't back down from an argument or can change a tire by themselves.

It's actually kind of amazing how quickly a man will shrink away from a woman when he realizes she doesn't "need" him to tell her what to do, how to do it, when to do it, and where to be. Don't get me wrong, I love to feel needed and wanted and loved. I try very very hard to make sure my partner feels the same way - but too many times, I have heard that compared to other guy's girls'/wives I don't act like I need him enough. Why? Because I don't need his direction on everything? Because it is possible for me to use my head and not call him 80 times a day to ask "what he thinks"? Because I actually went to college and have a professional job, and no illegitimate children? Should I be barefoot and pregnant all the time? Should I spend my days making up recipes and perfecting your favorite dinner? Should I call you when the oil light comes on in the car to see what it means? Should I quit my "hoity toity" job and go to work at Wal Mart so you'll be making more money and "feel like a man?" Should I cry at every romantic movie and want to hold your hand every single second we are within 20 feet of eachother?

For the love of God!!!

It pisses me off SO much when they act like this. I worked my ass off to get my Bachelor's degree. I work my ass off every day to get to where I am. I was smart and didn't have 3 kids by the time I was 22 and single. I did things the RIGHT way. Why am I now being critisized for it?

OK - OK - OK - OK - OK (lol - taking deep breaths) rant over - promise.

I'll be back later to post something happy - I have to go chain smoke right now Hope you're all having a good week so far!

penguinluvr 58M
1083 posts
8/30/2006 9:39 am

I like women who have their acts together


silverhawk762 51M/47F

8/30/2006 9:42 am

...And we would like to welcome Kinky to this weeks' meeting of "Chain Smokers Annonymous", and todays discussion is "Men: Are they always in need of a clue stick upside the head or do they actually grow into some form of intelligence?" We'll start with any questions about the topic, although we realize that the ladies in the group are already overly familiar with it....

willudomeharder 39F
85 posts
8/30/2006 11:58 am

ohhh now don't worry your pretty lil head over all this grown-up man stuff....just get back in the kitchen and make me a sammich!


I know your pain, babe. Want me to go kick the shit out of someone for ya? And quit smoking!!!!

dasher121 36M

8/31/2006 4:41 am

hell those kinds of guys are just a waste of time.

personally, I want NOTHING to do with a female who cant make her own decisions and is a "yes sir" to everything.

Raised by independant hard working females, so I cant see it any other way.

Course, Im strange and rare, so that may be the case.


kinkybutcute27 38F
23 posts
8/31/2006 9:53 am

Penguin - Amen, brotha

Thanks for the comments, guys.....whew...i feel better now

Silverhawk - i would LOVE to join your chain smoking long as the topic isn't ALWAYS hitting men with clue sticks..I'm tired of bitching about it

Willu - you're such a smartass!

And Dasher - THANK YOU....finally a man (who happens to be incredibly hot and intellectual) is showing signs of common sense! Miracles do happen!

mrgrimshade 44M

8/31/2006 10:28 am

I am soo tired of some women who need a man...need to be support them...I would love not to work 7 days a week and have some one make more money than me...and I can keep you and willya both in constant stock of bologna sandwiches...light of course!


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