Not a bi-fem, but....  

kinda_shy4 38M
15 posts
6/28/2006 8:56 am

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8/8/2006 9:47 pm

Not a bi-fem, but....

Okay, so I'm a guy. I'm on an adult site. I'm packin'. (see weiner blog) Does that mean I just have one thing in mind? You obviously don't know my mind. It's way to sporadic and silly to have one thing, regardless of topic/content. I originally came here to get help with the shyness. I've had some great people offer to help, but for one reason or another, never happened. So I'm here at the moment to chat, laugh, and meet people.
So like, I'm reading a profile and the person sounds interesting, to "talk to." Only, they're looking for women. I'm obviously NOT a woman, nor will I portray myself out to be one or part of a couple to meet one. Can't a guy chat with a "woman seeking woman" without wanting to "get sum?"
You're looking for a woman, I respect that. I am too. So that obviously means I'm not your type in the bedroom. Doesn't mean I can't be your type to chat with. Anyone that's chatted with me can tell you that I really do talk about silly things.
So is it, like, okay to respond to a profile with honest intentions? I know it's an "online site" and honest intentions can't be conveyed that easily. Is there an etiquette for it? I see the "NO MEN,DAMMIT!!!" Just shrug and move along. Not because I wanna "hook up to be the luvur 4 u" just to chat and be the "comic 4 u." I know there are guys that would say just about anything to get nookie, which doesn't go in my favor as a guy, but if I wanted nookie, I obviously wouldn't be talking to someone who wants a woman. That's like trying to get a brick wall to put out.
As always, I do have a point to my ramblings. Sometimes I even see the point as I'm writing. If I send you a message, don't think it's because I "want ur bod." I could "want to know your mind."

With that said, "let the silliness begin!"

TnWitchyWoman 56F
6852 posts
6/28/2006 9:52 am

I'm not your "type" according to all those little x's, but if you wanna talk and take a peek in my mind feel free.

SeriouslySexy06 39F

6/28/2006 9:54 am

I think you have a great sense of humor and I would love to get to know your mind...I find your blog very sexy....


6/28/2006 10:06 am

I understand you ramblings. It is nice to meet someone who is sincere for a change that does not mind having a decent conversation as apposed to wanting to always shove an image of cock in your mail box and use vulgar terms that they think will make you drop your drawers. I can dig silly. Let's chat.

Iwakura16Eyes 37F

6/28/2006 11:04 am

why can't you simply e-mail them and make it clear that you just think they'd be cool to chat with? (I can't believe that would a problem on a site where most of the women are all talk anyway.. )

kinda_shy4 38M

6/29/2006 2:05 pm

    Quoting Iwakura16Eyes:
    why can't you simply e-mail them and make it clear that you just think they'd be cool to chat with? (I can't believe that would a problem on a site where most of the women are all talk anyway.. )
I have, silly. No...response....(shrugs). Maybe I should hold up a lil sign, "will joke for food?" or "nice guy not lookin' to hump your leg." Bet they'd swat me with a rolled up newspaper anyway sternly saying, "no!" I don't know about anyone else here, but I'm not into newspaper swatting. I mean, hello! Paper cuts!!!

FunSeekerInTheSu 39M

7/18/2006 4:55 am

Hahaa! Yeah! Love that shit. Well spoken and eloquently put. I'm a guy searching for women too...definitely NOT men. Funny thing is, there appears to be a number of absolutely gorgeous women who are seeking OTHER women. Wow - that's great. But tell me - what's wrong with a guy just wanting to Chat. Share insights, thoughts, humour, laugh, share whats in the mind!!!!! Attempt to understand Each and everyone unique. I love Sex! - but...the mind too. And damn if Bi-women know exactly what I like in women too - hahaha. Maybe it's because our conditioning in society is that Men aren't supposed to think. It aint' sexxeiiiiii! Or that the ONLY thing a guy wants is to get his end wet. (Alright - I'll stop here. Nice Blog.)

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