why me?  

killa_wetness1 41F
15 posts
8/26/2005 5:26 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

why me?


I don't get it. I'm gorgeous, funny, people love my smile and my eyes. I haven't met a new guy in ages, or had a boyfriend in years. I wonder if my aggressive nature scares men off...bitches. Why was I cursed with being such a fu#$ing package>?? I haven't been touched in ages, and it's pissing me off...

dreammaster45 56M

8/26/2005 6:48 pm

YOu don't scare me I like smart women.


get2nou3 66M
1 post
8/26/2005 9:02 pm

You sound quite incredible, put it here and I'll kiss and kiss and kiss and lick it. Got a photo?


Plano69 54M

9/13/2005 11:13 pm

I think you've answered your own question...

Many guys are intimidated by gorgeous, smart, and confident women...

Most people just assume that people like that have more prospects than they can handle so they give up without even trying, thinking, "She's too busy, she's got a ton of guys, why bother..."

A psychological / socialogical study showed that some of the loneliest people in the world are the ones that are exceptionally attractive.
Add to that if your brusque or aggressive, it gives people an excuse to claim that's your flaw, you're a "bitch",(etc..) and feel justified in not approaching you.

Think about it...
The easiest strangers to talk to are people who you don't care really what they think of you, and you can be yourself... But when you find someone attractive and very desireable, suddenly you're so worried about saying the wrong thing, you end up not saying anything, or you say the wrong thing! LOL!

I guess my advice to you (since I don't know the whole story) is be easy going and more approachable.

Just cuz you let them approach doesn't mean you have to take everyone of them home...LOL!!


rm_Mike7of9 50M
1 post
10/9/2005 10:32 pm

No such thing as a cursed. My guess is that you spend too much time in the wrong places. Just imagine where your ideal man hang out at. Be there, get involved, and be yourself. Just a matter of time and you meet the right guy just as aggressive as yourself.


rm_23bh 58M
1 post
11/27/2005 2:45 am

Why don't ya post a foto.


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