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Friends With Benefits
Friends With Benefits
I have often wondered how many folks have found themselves in the same position I was in not too long ago when it came to a friend with benefits. I know I cannot possibly be the first nor the last that started to fall for their friend with benefits. I also wonder how many folks who have fallen for a friend with benefits in the past started a similar relationship with another person.
Personally, I would never pass up the relationship I had with this woman. Thinking back on it I still cannot figure out how it happened. She could have anyone she wanted and she ended up with me somehow. I think some of it was the fact that she was black and wanted to experience being with a white man. More of it had to do with me being in the right place at the right time. We were friends before we started having sex and on that blessed occasion where we consumated the relationship it had been well over a year since she had last been with a man so I suspect she was pretty horny and just looking to get laid as well.
It was definitely a calculated risk on both of our parts as we happened to work together at the time. What if I was not good enough for her? Or, what if I was not 'big enough' for her? Would she tell other women around the office about our escapades? If it wasn't good enough would it lead to awkward situations between us at the office? Luckily for me I did not have anything to worry about. I suspect it was due to the fact that I got her off and she went along for the ride because I got her off and she knew she would be able to come back for more.
In the end I ended having my heart broken. She said I deserved better than her yet everything between us was great. I could never figure out whay she kept coming back for more sex but did not want a regular relationship beyond that. In the end I suspect it may have been because she could not be completely faithful to me. Even though I had my heart broken I still would not have passed it up for anything. I got to be with an amazing woman who was not only amazing in the bedroom but out of the bedroom as well.