I don't want my friends to know where I blog  

keithcancook 60M
10710 posts
1/4/2006 4:43 pm
I don't want my friends to know where I blog

I don't want my family and friends to know where I blog. Most of them know I have a blog, they just never have been given the address. I have followed this policy from the beginning, figuring that it might change my writing if I was aware that people close to me here IRL were reading me.

What's up with that? It's not like I am hiding something forbidden, but I have jealously guarded it anyway. Perhaps I fear mild embarassment or even ridicule, but I do not think that is really it. Maybe it's because I like having something private, special only to me, where I can go say anything I want without real life repercussions. Or possibly I just keep it close to the vest because it is simpler that way.

Is this an issue with any of y'all? Do your "people" know where you blog?

slidein2meplz 61F
1994 posts
1/4/2006 6:15 pm

I can certainly understand that Keith, mine is private too, except to my youngest brother who has an AdultFriendFinder profile...LOL. I happened to see it on the new list or whatever those pics are on the home page and I thought....crap, is that..?? my....brot?? awwwww noooo... it is, LOL. So, I sent him a message....and said well, hell since your here...might as well check out my blog.

He hasn't though...I think he's afraid of what he'll see.

People do know I blog....but I don't tell them where...but I do tell them I have one of those yellow 360 thingy's...and an msn whatchamacallit...but my AdultFriendFinder blog...is totally private to the rest of the world. And that's how it'll stay.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

rm_Blue_Leopard 43F

1/4/2006 6:21 pm

My family doesn't know I have more than one blog... I have the LiveJournal for G/PG rated stuff, and I HAD a blog here under another name for the naughty things I needed an audience for.

frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
1/4/2006 6:53 pm


Happy New Year my friend.

Blogs are not very big in Australia yet so it's not really an issue for me although I am having trouble explaining where my dates are coming from...

Frangi xx

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
1/4/2006 7:15 pm

My friends do not know where I blog nor do they know my handle!!! I have another blog out on yahoo that they can read if they are so curious but this is my private time with those that are like me and understand where I am coming from.



rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
1/4/2006 7:37 pm

I'm more open and willing to share the info with the few people I know who would be both interested and able to handle it. However...

I do feel something of what you've described and that's why I don't necessarily tell people about it. We (all of us here) know what we've got, but how in the world do we explain it to others? That's what it is for me. No one else would understand.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
1/4/2006 7:38 pm

On a separate note...we're goofing around, casting a pretend movie of Blogville, and so far we have not cast you. Who should we get to play Keithcancook? And will he have a twisted twin?

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

barbiebunny 36F
5597 posts
1/4/2006 8:13 pm

Some do some dont. But to me this blog is very sacred to me where I can let it all rip sometimes more than the real world and for that its special.


Its good to be...ME

rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
1/4/2006 8:27 pm

Oh, Keith, I have about 14 blogs!!! lol....

Most of them through BLOGGER; one through YAHOO 360; been invited to MY SPACE, but feel I might be spreading myself thin. They are on various topics.

What keeps me returning to AdultFriendFinder every now and then is the community of friends we have built - albeit the neighborhood seems to be changing as some people drop from view and others pop in. All certainly keep life interesting and I enjoy reading the more prolific and humorous ones, as well as glimpse into others.

I do enjoy the freedom of being able to talk about most anything else, letting a side of me loose that I don't dare let loose on other sites - at least, not to the degree that I have done here on AdultFriendFinder.

Certainly look forward to continued reading of your blog.


mangomamiCT 42F

1/4/2006 10:34 pm

some do , some don't . Ran into my big brother recently that was a hoot . but thats why I don't put pics up don't wan't the drama .

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
1/4/2006 10:54 pm

i have told several people where i blog, some on request, some cos i wanted them to read ... however, um, mostly they don't bother. my husband checks in every now and again and one or two friends have peeked, but LOL! i think most of them are a little horrified, tho to my face the feign cool!

[blog freelove999]

womanoirish 54F

1/4/2006 11:22 pm

It's something about the freedom to express oneself without all the little masks we wear IRL to keep the social graces going. Not that I mind social graces, I'm all for social graces. We NEED social graces so that we can live in a peaceful society and I don't roger-ram-jet the next idiot who cuts me off because he's too fucking absorbed in his freakin' BORG-looking blue tooth phone conversation...uh, ahem, where was I?

Oh yeah, bloggerland. Yes. Freedom of expression. Gotta love it. And, no, my close ones IRL do not know that I blog on A F F.

MaggiesWishes 60F

1/5/2006 7:39 am

For me, this is my first experience in Bloging. My best friend sorta got me started. I've always kept a private journal, in long hand, about the events or people in my life, sometimes ~I still write in it.
I do like the freedom here to express or grow into another phase of writing. I appreciate being among "like-minded" folks without judgement. Now, if the RL friends could only figure that out???

I think my daughter would have a "conniption fit" if she read my thoughts here! She already thinks that "mom's friends need to show her ID's".

Happy New Year, Keith
welcome back!!!
warm wishes

rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
1/5/2006 8:30 am

I'm glad you opened the doorway to this topic. Like you, I keep it private. I have plenty of reasons for doing that including family, friends, and colleagues (not to mention bosses) who would not understand. I discussed this a bit a while back in: [post 82720].

On another topic... great to see you here in the new year, my friend.

♬ Welcome to 2006! ♬


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/5/2006 10:10 am

So this has become a family experience for you eh, slide? My sisters would probably enjoy a lot of the stuff in The Venting Blog, but I am going to keep it to myself for now.

The Venting Blog has pretty much maintained a "G" rating for most of its existence, Blue Leopard. Still, I occasionally post things on XXX topics. Those are mostly posted as comments in the blogs of others though...

Hi frangi! Happy New Year! It's good to see that you are still with us here in BlogLand. If you blog again, please do a post on some of those "explanations". I would be very interested to see what you have come up with!

My handle is kept close to the vest too, Purry. Jeeze, if ya have the handle, and if ya know how to google, well... that's all she wrote as far as blog security is concerned.

Well wahine, for me it's not so much trying to relate how I feel about blogging with all of y'all to someone IRL; I could express that pretty easily. I just fear that I would change the way I express myself or avoid certain topics due to concern over what my people here would think. In the end, it is all moot. The world is too small now to keep secrets. Eventually I will be "outed"....

A movie of BlogLand eh? Interesting idea. Thank you for asking for my input, wahine. I think that [blog dz2502] dz2502 would be an excellent choice for the part of keithcancook. He is an adept actor and has quite a long resume in the theatre-blog genre.

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
1/5/2006 12:15 pm

My family and real life friends don't know that I'm here and have a blog They only know about my other regular blog. Well I have to be discreet and that's why.

MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
1/5/2006 2:12 pm

the very funny thing is that my grandma wishes i didnt write so much and try to find some action...WTF!!! whats with that!!!

i have told several people and they say...well whatever works!! i have a cousin who was a bit worried but once i showed her just what i was writing she was ok!!! having a big family means from time to time i run into someone trying to be low key!! funnnny!

live more, laugh often, love much

expatbrit49 62M

1/5/2006 4:23 pm

Ah ol' pal I am like you, I like to keep this seperate from my other , more boaring life. In my blog I can say whatever I want, and while some of the stories from my blog are known by family and friends other are definatly not and I think I will keep it that way.

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

yagottalikit 49F
583 posts
1/5/2006 4:26 pm

I am able to share my blog with MOST people I know.....the downside of that became evident, however, when I received a phone call from one of My Most Memorable Men. Seems he recognized himself in my post. He was somewhat amused....but.....

I assured him I try to add humor to everything. Not sure if I'm forgiven, yet!

Yagotta get it soft and wet so we can kick/stick it

rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
1/5/2006 5:54 pm

Nope, as far as I know my family doesn't knowa thing about my blog. A couple friends of mine do though.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
1/5/2006 6:09 pm

LOl everyone knows where i blog...I'm a blurter LOL

actually, i guess i never thought twice about telling people..much like i never thought twice about using my face in my profile. i really didnt know any better & now that i do its kinna too late.

ignornorance can be bliss

jadedbabe78 105F

1/5/2006 8:15 pm

No family, friends, anyone in my life know about my blogs. I have one through m s n for my everyday life ramblings, extreme personal issues and the like and have my small following there, lol.

And then no one, even the fellow bloggers through the other blog, know where this blog is at. I've mentioned I have another blog on my 'PG geared' blog, they just don't know where.

People in my everyday life don't know I blog at all! It's not that I'm ashamed of my writing, it's just that I discuss things on my blogs that I prefer to keep out of everyone elses life. Plus, especially on the other one, it's where I go to bitch about them sometimes, LOL. Wouldn't do for them to see how much I go off in a tangent, they think I'm a good girl, haha....if they only knew.

silkysmoothlegs3 105F

1/5/2006 8:18 pm

no they dont I agree with you

My bloggs like my diary

private to my blogger friends


Valdrane78 38M

1/5/2006 8:52 pm

Hi Keith-
I don't come here as often as I should, but I do truly enjoy reading your blog. Anyways, I am the same way. I would never want my family to know that I blog here. Not only would they think I am more insane than they know by reading it, but I believe I would be slightly embarassed that they know I frequent a sex site.


I'd hate to think what my mom would say.

BANG! POW! BOOM! a study in useless knowledge and sick humor!
I want a damn soundtrack to my blog!

wife4stranger 57F

1/5/2006 9:23 pm

Nope, this place is just for me. My own little world that I can retreat to. My fantasy island, if you will. Where I can be me, and not have to worry about what others will think if they see the real me.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/5/2006 9:56 pm

OIC wahine. I visited your post and saw the format for your BlogLand Movie. Without question, the only actor qualified to play keithcancook is Homer Simpson. DOH!

There is no doubt about your ripping abilities Barbiebunzysweetiepiesugarplumhoneybunch. Lay it on us, sistah! We want more! Thank you for the New Year greeting. I hope it leads us to a meeting...

You fear that you might be spreading yourself thin, txrose? LOL, I think that you might be on to something there, girlfriend. Fourteen or so? No wonder you are unsure of the exact number.
I agree with you about content being a powerful lure to blog here.
It is very nice to see you in The Venting Blog once more. You will always hold a special place in the lore of this blog. After all, it was a response to one of your posts that launched the career of pigcancook!

Welcome to The Venting Blog, mangomami. Hmm, it seems that many families are along for the ride. Yours is the second response already with a sibling on this site. Perhaps I shall take up blog sociology one day, and do some research on familial blogging...

Well, it certainly hasn't seemed to affect the way you write FreeLove. You pretty much put it all out there it seems to me.

Welcome to The Venting Blog, womanoirish! I agree with what you say, and I love the way you said it. I hope you will come back and visit future posts. I like you already!
Hey! What's not to like? You're Irish for cryin out loud! (yummy)

I know just what you mean, my fair asianlady4love. I hope you will begin posting again soon. Your blog is pretty much a blank page now.

Blogging will be second nature to the next generation, waggypolly. My youngest daughter blogs, as do two of my nephews. Still, many will have secret blogs under anonymous handles. There will always be a need to express oneself without the threat of retribution or other hassles.

This is my first and only blog too, Maggie. I also have kept a journal in the past, but it has been almost 10 yrs. since I have written in it. Your point about "like-minded" folks is well taken.
LMAO on the ID comment. Good one, gf!
PS: You sure do have beautiful and intriguing eyes...

I followed your link and read the post, rocky. It is very well done, and I would urge any of my readers interested in reading further on this topic to check it out. Luckily for me, the presence of my blog here is not a threat to any of my loved ones.
I imagine that it is very difficult to blog on this site, all the while under threat of accidental exposure to folks who stand to be hurt if they discover it.

Thank you for the greeting, my friend. It is indeed the first post of the year for The Venting Blog!

frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
1/6/2006 3:26 am


Yes it appears I am back, have been posting everyday (what goes on?!!?)

Thats a great idea for a post, thank you!

Frangi xx

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/6/2006 7:55 am

If you have to be discreet, then the fewer who are aware of the blog, the better off you are security wise. That makes perfect sense to me, sassybelle.

Well, at least your grandma is supportive, LadySunrise. I would imagine that my people here would probably have similar reactions. I did tell a distant cousin about it once. I told him to google my screen name. He loved it and is now a member, but he doesn't blog.

Yeah, I know what you mean, expat, ol pal. I wouldn't want my family to know that I spent my spare time peeping in the neighbors window while she is showering. Not to mention those pix that you post...

I'm afraid that I would become too cautious with my material if I were to bring real life folks into my blog sphere, yagottalikit. Which is my main reason for keeping it close.

I suppose that includes me then, sexyfitwoman.

Hmm, I wonder if any of your people or my people have found the dang things, but haven't confronted us about it yet, Daph? Grrr, that would be something. Reading us but saying nothing...
(oh well, we are writing, but not telling. It must be some form of karma...)

Ignorance is usually bliss, sj. Nice to see you again, sweetie.

I understand completely, jadey. It seems that many of you have alternative blogs. It is hard enough to keep up with one blog as far as time goes...

silky, I am happy to be one of your blogger friends. It would be even better to be one of your real life friends. I wonder, would you break your rule and show me your blog if I was?

SweetDarlinAngel 39F
2996 posts
1/6/2006 12:03 pm


I have to say that like you, I have kept my blogging world to myself. Not because I am embarrassed or ashamed of what I am doing here, but because I have already caused so muh stress for my friends and family with my "uncontrolled" sex talk and thoughts. They didn't want to hear it anymore, paper diaries always seemed to be discovered, read and then lectured about. "Geez Angel, maybe you should get some counseling." so instead of subjecting them to it, I have instead found somewhere I can be free. Think outloud. Share completely without thought or concern to whether or not I was going to be judged or lectured yet again. I have found an outlet that is acceptable and doesn't seem to cause stress for those that are in my "real world", if only the "real world" could accept me as readily as all of you did. Wow, what a wonderful place that would be for me...



rm_hinkawaza 52M
371 posts
1/6/2006 2:32 pm

Nobody knows but Yagotta, and her sister, and I guess her best friend, oh and I imagine...allright, too may people know allready!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
1/6/2006 3:09 pm

my blog is my space for em away from real life,

in real life people judge easier than on here,who know what makes the differance between the two worlds,

and would out siders really understand the world we make for our selves on here

I'm a

i'm here to stay

(Princess Lips)

1/6/2006 10:02 pm

I am NOT a REAL Princess

I just play one on my blog


rm_1SweetBitch 55F
8575 posts
1/6/2006 10:35 pm

Many of my friends know I blog on this site...most do not use this site so I don't wonder if they will be reading my blogs. I understand what you are saying about you wanting a private place to just let it all hang out...nothing wrong with that.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

JudeL5 46M
1550 posts
1/6/2006 10:48 pm

No one I know knows (too many no's in one sentence). I think most people I know would flip about being on a "adult" site.... which is fine with me right now....

sircookalot 51M
110 posts
1/7/2006 5:35 am


I keep mine private unless there is something I write that I want to share with my family/friends then just send them a copy of what I wrote, don't leave it open for them to find the blog.

crazyname67 49M

1/7/2006 9:59 am

no... I don't tell anyone about my blog. My wife told me yesterday that Oprah had a show on this week about secrets. And how many people have hidden things in their life that no one else knows about. And I know that some of those things can be destructive, like hidden gambling habits, etc... but I don't find blogging to be that way at all. For me it's enabled me to have an outlet for all sorts of things that I don't have anyone else to talk to about and it's enabled me to meet some really cool people who I'm learning from and starting to build friendships with.

starlight_runner 39F

1/7/2006 3:17 pm

like everything up upfront about it.rofl

kisses Star

qyxx 60F
3267 posts
1/7/2006 9:10 pm

My friends and family do not know that I blog. I am a private kind of person and don't like a lot of folks in my business. This gives me the opportunity to let off steam and not have a lot of folks in my business.

Actually, only the folks on AdultFriendFinder know that I blog.


rm_EE407 41F
3903 posts
1/8/2006 6:09 am

Most peeps know I blog... and know it's here... I have nothing to hide

But for what it's worth, I'm sure my parents don't read my blog, which is kind of a relief... lol

happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
1/8/2006 7:57 pm

First of all, thanks for visiting my Blog.

Good sharing, Keith and all the rest. Like most of you, I won't let my family and friends know about my Blog. I even ask myself if I should really meet up anyone I meet over BlogLand. I will feel funny to meet someone who knows my privates tots. Will you?

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/8/2006 10:52 pm

Hi y'all! Logging in from sunny South Florida today, and it is fine here. Very fine indeed! Still, I miss you guys, so I came in to check in on y'all. The comments have been quite interesting in this post, and I thank all of y'all for stopping by.

You are welcome in The Venting Blog anytime, Valdrane. I am not worried as much about reaction to being on a sex site as I am to the more nuttier posts I have done. Still, being creative is a good thing, right?

Yes, I know just what you mean, wife4stranger. It is a sanctuary of sorts, isn't it?

Well, BlogLand has been much enriched by your presence here, honni. I like your "lighthearted escapades" and besides, it is better to leave a little mystery in that area, don't you think? It will serve to entice some more swains into your boudoir...

Hiya, frangi! I gave up on ya too soon. I will revist your blog since you are posting again you awesome Aussie, you!

LMAO, Jez! I would imagine that you are probably right. Too much information indeed!

See how it spreads, hink?

LOL, well papy, some of us are quite beyond understanding anymore. We are in fact, quite insane.

Aw sexyfit, thanx for stopping back by.

It is all much ado about nothing, and it is all in my head, SweetBitch. Like any of my friends would really take the time to read my blog on a regular basis. Who am I kidding? Most of em don't even know how to open a file in windows anyway.

I like arranging words like that as a matter of course, Jude. I know that no's can be confusing, but yours are as plain as my nose.

Hullo, sircookalot! Welcome to The Venting Blog! I also have sent copies of some of my posts to family. Mostly the ones in The Grandma Manuscripts, as those would have been interesting to them.

Well, I gotta skedaddle for now. I'll be back soon to check in on y'all again...

duststormdiva 51F
6854 posts
1/9/2006 12:59 am

One of my sisters knows that I have a profile here. I shared it with her shortly after I created it. I don't know if she knows that I blog here. My other siblings don't know I blog here. My children do, because they caught me. But they are cool with it. My girls don't know that I meet men from here. My son does.


_CoffeeNoCream_ 52F

1/9/2006 1:52 am

no one knows I blog....

liefs Coffee

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/9/2006 8:29 am

Hello, sweetneeds! Welcome to The Venting Blog! My daughter blogs too, but not on here. She's only 13. I tell her about some of my posts, mostly ones with Beatles themes. She is a Beatlemaniac.

WOW, Katey! Your comment is a post all in itself! You should indeed post it on your blog. Thank you so much for giving so much of yourself to The Venting Blog, and adding so much to it's success. One day I will open this thing up to my people here.

I do not think that blogging is dangerous in my case either, crazyname. It is an outlet for sure, though. And of course it has brought me many new friends.

No secrets for starlight runner? Then why are you always writing in invisible ink?

LMAO, mzhuny! Yes, it is too late for that now, my little wildflower. Blog on!

Welcome to The Venting Blog, gyxx. I do not like folks all in my business either, and that is also a factor in my keeping my blog close to the vest...

PailsDiverHonks 55F

1/9/2006 10:07 am

For obvious reasons I keep my blog a secret from family and friends. There is A LOT I don’t write on my AdultFriendFinder blog. I have an online journal that’s not open to the public. I like you guys but sometimes I just have to write what’s going through my head and keep it to myself. Kind of like therapy.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/9/2006 2:50 pm

I love you too, candysoveryverysweet... Blog On

Hello, double E. You are one of those in the minority here. Most of us seem to keep our blogs hidden. As for parents, well...

LMAO, nikki! Good one!
Being unable to post what you want for fear of repurcussion, is exactly what I am talking about here.

Actually, I was able to meet a fellow blogger recently, happylady. I did not feel "funny" about it. I suppose that if someone has read my stuff and still wants to meet me, then whatever I have written couldn't be all bad...

Hello, duststormdiva! It's nice to see you again. Perhaps I have made a minority out of y'all too soon, since you also are sharing your stuff with your "people". Blog on!

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
1/9/2006 8:38 pm

Just stopped by to say hi.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_affbreak 46M
287 posts
1/10/2006 12:22 am

> Do your "people" know where you blog?

No. They don't. For a reason.

As soon as you start to build up networks or get in contact with your own networks you behave different - you must take care the things you're doing or writing won't influence the relation between you and your contacts. Impossible task.

Thats one of the reasons why for example some chat rooms or blog entries are as boring as they are: The authors are in fear of other authors pointing on them, expelling them from their circle of 'friends', or the like.

P.S.: I wouldn't like mom or the gay clerk at my local credit institute to know i like shoving toys into my ass for fun .. lol

georgina666 36F

1/10/2006 12:42 am

i keep another blog elsewhere and no one knows that i am an AdultFriendFinder member. the contents of the other blog and this one i have here is as different as earth and sky...i guess it's all about writing according to the level of tolerance readers have.

happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
1/10/2006 1:53 am

[purple]Good Point, Keith. I'll remember that.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!

AlbertPrince 57M

1/10/2006 3:45 am

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TopFisher 63M

1/10/2006 4:37 pm


When I have something worth sharing with those inside my RL, I have other places they can fish for it!!

sexymermaid6956 63F
26393 posts
1/11/2006 6:28 pm

great post KCC...my fami;y does not know i blog here...i dont feel i could say as much as i do here...my boyfriend knows i do and sometimes i share with him some blogs...like the ones bella wrote or pussnboots poetry and i read him my responses as well..but it is not often that i do...just random..more like when he catches me in the act of writing a blog then i have him help select the pic for my blog...lol but frinds and family members no way....


Seduce my mind and my body

michael33252 42M
1 post
1/12/2006 9:00 am

l don, t people when l blog....

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/13/2006 7:12 am

It's safer that way, CnC. Blog on!

It is therapy indeed, greenie. I occasionally write down stuff too personal for publication as well...

Hi wahine! You are such a sweetie...

You have hit on the crux of it, affbreak. It does change the way you write and the subjects you choose if you become concerned with who is reading you.

Hi georgina, it's nice to see you here in The Venting Blog. Your comment is well stated, and is perfectly logical.

Yeah, it makes sense to me, happylady. Hopefully, it is part of the reason they wish to meet us...

Thank you for this public service advertisement, Prince. I will diddybop on over at the earliest convenience...

I think it is wise to keep them separate, TopFisher. Blog On!

Exactly, sexymermaid! I would feel limited too, as far as content is concerned. It is well that you are not hiding it from your boyfriend also. Truth and honesty strengthen any relationship...(in most cases)

I slipped away silently, candysoveryverysweet. Not by design, it just sorta snuck up on me and I packed at the last minute. (as always...)

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
1/13/2006 8:08 am

Oh HELL no!!!

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
1/13/2006 8:57 am

It's absolutely your right Keith...
It is YOUR blog. It is a great blog.
Just keep it up. I enjoy reading you...

even if I 'm perpetually late...lol...

rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
1/13/2006 7:30 pm

Really when I started blogging, I thought of it in terms of an online journal, I had no idea of this being something like a community, yet as my year of blogging continues I see that many of the people I met along the way have become a family, with a voice, and that they support eachother emotionaly and make real connections too. I remember a while ago there was a big falling out in blog land, it seemed to involve people that the people I knew knew, but none of those I knew directly. Now the drama is about getting PK reinstated. this is in my mind a critical issue. I am not so concerned about people on the outside knowing I blog, because I don't think many of them care one way or another (something like being too busy to really get to know anybody) but I am gravely concerned that the monitors feel it necessary to operate so heavy handed an operation on what is supposed to be a fairly liberal venue. anyway, just rambling.
glad to see your well.

bardicman 50M

1/14/2006 7:12 pm

Keith - No.. My room mate knows I write alot but he has no idea where or what. This is something I do and it between you all and me. I find more real people to share with here than I do IRL.

I am not dead yet

spinmedown 49M
3626 posts
1/14/2006 8:20 pm

Not really something I worry too much about, but I will probably keep it under control. My friends wouldn't care. My family wouldn't care. My coworkers wouldn't care. I just want to be able to get away from them while I'm here.

Most people are other people... FUCKING CHARACTER LIMIT!!! ~Oscar Wilde

EyeCandy33333 44F
761 posts
1/14/2006 9:07 pm

I am a "closet" blogger

eriedragon4 57M
1076 posts
1/15/2006 8:04 am

thanks for dropping by my blog ,I can't say that I would even care if my family knew where I blog but if they did I don't think they would be surprised, lol
any way thanks again, I've often found food to be erotic, this was the first time I, found the muse to write about it.
glad you enjoyed it.


_Safira 53F
11260 posts
1/15/2006 6:32 pm

Yes, my sons and my friends know where I blog ... and where and when I go to parties. They're my family, and truly practice what I preach ... unconditional love and total acceptance. I realize that I'm one of the fortunate few. I mean, my sons and friends even come up with blog suggestions and comments on occasion.

However, I believe that there is nothing wrong with you wishing to have something that is "just for you." I have journals that I keep in a safety deposit box ... and those are my "sole" property. *gentle hugs*

This is my blog - Comes With Warning Labels. There are many like it, but this one is mine.

RECOMMENDED READING: A F F ... The Only Site For Me?

starvingnow 48F

1/15/2006 7:38 pm

It's like keeping a diary...there is a risk involved that someone you know might read it...I'm willing to take that risk...If it comes out and someone I know feels offended...then "oh well". I'm not going to take the extra effort to tell everyone...some things just need to stay private (as long as possible anyway).

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/16/2006 7:29 am

Not just a plain ol "no", saint? You seem very emphatic about this!

It is difficult to be "late" to The Venting Blog, toothy. It only seems to update twice a month.

You're not rambling, sharks. I witnessed the early days of blogging, and a community has indeed formed. I am still gathering information on PK's situation, but it seems to me that both parties in that dispute should have been banned under the terms. Instead, I fear that we are not all on equal footing here in BlogLand. Some of us have the ability to launch pogroms without repercussions to themselves. That is dangerous, if true.

I know what you are saying here, bard. It must be because we reveal so much of ourselves in BlogLand, that the real world knows little or nothing of.

I hear ya, spinmedown. I doubt that my people here would care too much about my blog. Unless I write about them of course. That would get anyones attention!

LOL, that is a nice new term for some of us to describe ourselves, EyeCandy. I too, am a closet blogger.

Hello, eriedragon. Welcome to The Venting Blog! I did enjoy that post very much. You have a wonderful way with words, dude. Blog On!

I gotta admit that you are the most open of all the commenters in this post, Safira. Perhaps as time goes on, my family too will become more involved. Thank you for giving us your input on this topic.

Yes, starvingnow. For as long as possible. I fear that this time period will not be very long. The world is too connected, and google is easy to use.

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
1/16/2006 9:34 am

Keith, only took me a couple weeks to find this post. Ahhh well. Only two people know that I blog here on AdultFriendFinder....a good friend and my mate. I have not had a chance to see if my friend checks in to read my blog but I am OK knowing he might. As for my mate....I invited her in to read a bit of my blog a couple months ago. And recently I created a membership from where she could visit my blog at her leisure.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/18/2006 11:48 pm

So, it only took a couple of weeks to find the post eh, redswallow? That's about how long it takes me to write em!

Hmm, that is very interesting BigGirlzRSweet. I had not considered that. The ol "pot calling the kettle black" routine. Good one, and thanks!

i_fuck_dirty 33F

1/20/2006 4:10 pm

totally on board with you... it's quite simple, frankly. if i wanted my people IRL to know what i blogged about, i would not have a need to blog. the only person who knows about my blog if my FB who i met thru the site, but even so i don't think he reads it anymore.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/20/2006 9:27 pm

Hello i fuck dirty. Welcome to The Venting Blog! Thanks for visiting and giving us your input. I hope you like it here in BlogLand!

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/20/2006 9:31 pm

Well damn! I was wondering who would create such a raunchy screename so I went to see ya, I fuck dirty. Your profile is turned off already... Hmm

i_fuck_dirty 33F

1/20/2006 11:16 pm

well keith as it turns out, i got myself a marketing degree, and thought choosing my screen name was as good a time as any to start using it, so i figured that was what guys on here wanted... someone who... well... you know. but alas, i had to turn my profile off for security purposes. even if it was still up, it would say that i found what i was looking for a while ago so am only on AdultFriendFinder for the blog. and then i would say that i have been bloggin for a while, but had to take down quite a few down also for security purposes. but, if you really want to know who would create such a raunchy screen name i say read my old blogs that are still up, and the new ones too. i tend to be a little bit fun, a little bit feisty, a little bit horny too! see you around

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
1/24/2006 5:56 pm

Aww, I've always been fond of ya Katey!

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