kaye574 58F  
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7/2/2013 9:45 pm

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sphxdiver 64M  
3146 posts

7/2/2013 10:20 pm

I also agree, kind of like time and space.
The site has almost done away with the flirting feature, now only Gold members or the few Silver members can do it, wouldn't bother me a bit if they did away with the feature altogether.

kaye574 replies on 7/6/2013 4:20 pm:
I appreciate your viewpoint. Thanks for dropping and by and reading my Blog.

eclecticskr 53M  
60 posts

7/2/2013 10:24 pm

Smiling, touching, teasing, winking, laughing, and more are all part of the art of the flirt. To be most effectively these things must happen in person. Oh, I suppose some of it can be accomplished in writing, on the phone, or even video conference, but these props only stand in the way of the real, true flirting. One's personality comes out in flirting.

I suppose you're correct, the true flirt is getting lost in all the digital winks, kisses, hugs, and who knows what else. The best we can do is put up with the cold digital flirts until we meet face-to-face. Once we step out of the digital ether and into the physical presence of another the real and true flirting can begin.


kaye574 replies on 7/6/2013 4:21 pm:
I appreciate giving your opinion on blog. I greatly valued your thoughts.

outtherelinda 48F  
18718 posts

7/2/2013 10:28 pm

I never bother with my flirt list or flirting with anyone on here. It really doesn't have the same appeal that real flirting does. Having a stranger hit a button to send a flirt is empty and doesn't even necessarily mean they like you.

Linda xxx

kaye574 replies on 7/6/2013 4:23 pm:
Thanks for responding. I appreciate your ideas and how you expressed them. I liked your sign board with the wording. Take care and thanks for dropping by.

backpocket13 37M
5569 posts

7/3/2013 1:01 am

Hey Darlin,
.....Everyone's in Such a Rush to "Get Down to Business" that they miss the Enjoyment and the Challenge of a Good Chase,.....Or Better Yet, A Good Conversation!......
Sinfully backpocket13
Sitting In Hell Laughing

kaye574 replies on 7/6/2013 4:24 pm:
Thanks for the joke and your perspective. It was quite refreshing. I appreciate you dropping by. Take care.

Perdition101 62M
364 posts

7/3/2013 1:16 am

A wonderful fact to reflect upon, that every human creature is constituted to be that profound secret and mystery to every other.”
― Charles Dickens, A Tale of Two Cities

I would agree...I would rather fail totally in front of someone than hidden in secret...


kaye574 replies on 7/6/2013 4:25 pm:
I liked the quote from Charles Dickens how appropriate. Thanks for dropping by and giving your perspective on it.

thinkingofyou12 58M
936 posts

7/3/2013 3:04 am

I too enjoy the fun of in person and hand written flirting. I do it whenever possible. Now in this electronic medium that is not always possible. As a standard I can not e-mail or send an electronic flirt but I can hotlist. I use this function to convey my interest. I do so in hope that the woman notices me and if she can, maybe she initiates the conversation. By the way I hotlisted you.

kaye574 replies on 7/6/2013 4:30 pm:
Thanks for your opinion and for hot listing me also that was very nice. You take care and we will see what happens from your Hot list.

ncgysfnslst 67M  
142 posts

12/30/2013 2:01 pm

I think the flirt button on here is for people without enough courage to really say it i person! Bill

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