Kissing... A Lost Art  

katrx 48F
15 posts
1/29/2006 1:31 pm

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Kissing... A Lost Art

I have often wished to revisit the days before I "lost it". The days when kissing went on forever. In my opinion, kissing, is greatly underrated and definitely doesn't receive the proper attention it deserves.

Kissing brings not only desire but also yearning. It deepens not only sexual intensity but also intimacy, in a way that sex can only dream to attain.

I remember a time when sex was "out of the question" because I was just not "that" kind of girl. The feel of his warm breath on my neck as he kissed his way up my neck, teasingly running the tip of his tongue to just the right spot and being surprised by the arousing effect it had on my entire body. And then the passionate hardness of his strong mouth exploring and exciting me. That overwhelming feeling, wanting and needing your bodies to be physically closer, without the separation of clothes. But not yet ready to go to the ultimate level of pleasure yet. Back then, the kiss was the ultimate level of pleasure. That's when a "kiss was still a kiss".

Now, the art of kissing is often misplaced and thrown to the side in the hurry to reach orgasm. It becomes only a means to an end... something done in order to get to the finish line. It's a shame because often, if you prolong the climb to the pinnacle of pleasure, and spend time developing the passion, instead of hurrying the passion... the end result can be mind-blowing.

So the next time you feel yourself ripping your clothes off... think what you're missing.

pASSionwantd2 49M
1316 posts
1/29/2006 3:53 pm

You deserve a very long sensous french-kiss that start's on your lip's and end's on your Lipp's...Great Post!

jussweetlilolme 43F

1/29/2006 3:59 pm

AMEN to you sister! Kissing is the best form of foreplay EVER. Have you ever had a date where you told yourself prior to leaving that the goal was to only make out, no actual sex, just everything leading up to it! I guarentee you it will lead to the best sex you have ever had.

Kissing is not just for the lips either. Short sensual kisses on your body is enough to bring a partner to their knees, begging for more. They can be a way of communicating how you want to be played with for the evening as well. Slow and passionately, or fast and hard. You can teach a person about what you like all through the pressure of your lips on their body as well.
The kiss is more than "just a kiss" and I agree the art of using it for more than that is wayyyyy to often thrust aside in the search for a perfect orgasm...

Awesome post


__Huntress__ 55M/57F

1/29/2006 4:47 pm

I don't think I could have said this better myself ... and I absolutely agree with you ...

Back to the days when all you could do was kiss for hours ...


katrx 48F

1/29/2006 5:27 pm

Thanks sweets, I haven't tried that only make out approach to dating in quite a while. I think I just might give a try Thanks for your nice words! Kat

katrx 48F

1/29/2006 6:58 pm

You're soooooooooo right huny! I just want MORE! Thanks for viewing my blog, I'm honored

crazyscreennames 46M

3/13/2006 9:25 pm

You are so right katrx. A GREAT kiss is an amazing thing, ... and very hard to find I might add. When I find one, I like to just savor it. ...I can feel the emotion and intensity in my partners body. It entirely envelopes me. Way in the back of your mind, you just know that the sex will be amazing, but yet you don't rush to it. You have to cherish what you have at that moment! If only more people had an appreciation for the intensity and silent communication of a GREAT kiss. I guess it must be an aquired taste, and appreciation. On the other hand, I guess if it were more common, you probably wouldn't appreciate it as much. Good stuff lady! You have a wonderful mind!

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