what happened?  

kaspar1962 55M
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8/19/2005 12:46 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

what happened?


I spent the day in Hot Springs AR with a nice lady. We went all over town seeing the sights and had a great time. There was no expectation, on my part, concerning sex. From our emails and phone calls, I got the feeling it would not happen. But that was OK, spending the day having other fun is great too. So I went there. We had a wonderful time! Then she brought up sex. I was OK with that of course, but she has a room mate (female)and they are having troubles of various kinds so we agree to get a hotel room. We go to her place to get some things for her and her room mate is high and my friend is worried about the lady's child. Tells me to get the room and come back, she will call the ex and he will pick up his son. I had to stop and buy condoms, I was so sure there would be nothing going on, I did not bring any. OK, I get back and the ex won't be there for an hour, I wait in the heat, she goes in and out of the apartment and tells me it will be 3 hours before he gets the kid. She can't leave the child with his mother while she is high. Tells me to go to the hotel, she will call me when the dad gets there or by 6, which ever is first. I ask SEVERAL questions about whether or not she still wants to do this, she states she does. I am feeling leary of this and know that if I leave I will not hear or see her again that day. Just know it, can't explain it, just know. Getting to the point, she never calls. I call and speak to the room mate, leave several messages and go by there twice. Can't find her. Around 11 PM, I am feeling angry and depressed and it is getting worse by the minute. The room feels like a prison cell. If you are in a bad place, literally and/or figuratively, don't be there, go somewhere else. So I left town and came home. I felt better the more I drove and now that I am home, where people don't mistreat me, I am doing OK. Lots of questions: What happen? Is there a valid reason for her disappearance? She doesn't have a car, so getting away isn't easy. Was I played? For what reason? She was given many chances to opt out or cancel and she brought up the topic any way!!!! I sent her an email asking all of the above. What did she get out of it by playing me? The problem I have, other than spending $73 on a room for nothing, is that my memories of the fun we had are now tarnished by her later actions. I feel I wasted that time and money too.....I want those nice memories back and need an answer that makes sense.

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