More about Thursday, then dropping it soon  

kaspar1962 55M
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8/20/2005 8:55 am

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More about Thursday, then dropping it soon


I have spoke with several people about this situation and what might have happened. My old friend from home has a point. What situation could she have had that caused this scenario to happen? If she were not interested in sex, don't bring it up and all would have been well. (read previous post for details)I would have gone home, happy to spend the day having fun with a nice person. If she brought up sex and then changed her mind or got cold feet about it, OK say that and we can still spend the rest of the day together seeing the sights or if she is just not into hanging out, for whatever reason, say that or make some sort of excuse and I leave. Even the classic "a friend is sick" or "work called" would be fine, it is a signal that things are not working out and you leave. Having me get a hotel room at her suggestion and then dropping out of sight without any reason or word is the where the problem is: cut me loose before getting the room and all is well, but after I get one is why this makes no sense. All her actions and words are about being into this and then all of a sudden she's gone. But the way she handles it means I am going to call, leave messages and come over form the hotel to see what is going on. If you want me to go away, make up something that guarantees that I go away clean and don't do these things. Since her room mate may be into drugs, I am concerned that something bad may have happen to her, so I keep trying to contact her. My friend suggested she may have a boyfriend or something and he may have been out of town and expected back Friday. If he came back early on Thursday, it may have shocked her and she did not think through her explanation to me.....I am thinking of naming her so others can be forewarned about her, not something I would usually do.

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