Are American being "short changed" by their lover?  

rm_karlovymost 72M
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2/9/2006 10:10 pm

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Are American being "short changed" by their lover?

I would have to YES, they, as a rule, the short end of the stick. (No pun intended.) Of all the conversations I've had over my lifetime are consistent with that opinion. You hear phases such as "I nailed her last night." "I was in a hurry." "It was a quickie."

I am of the opinion that those events left a woman with a hollow, empty feeling. This sort of thing has given rise to bit American folklore that we have all heard. Bam, Bam, thank you mam!
I really don't think that American males are concerned about the satisfaction that the female received from the encounter. I feel that a successful sexual encounter requires that both parties receive equal satisfaction. First of all they both have to want it. And they should both be ready for it.

Sex is an physical activity and most activity requires some sort of warm up. When I work out at the gym, I spend about 10 minutes on the treadmill just warming up. In a sexual encounter this is simply called foreplay and I don't think most males think about it or care about about it. Actually foreplay heightens the desire of both parties. (This is a good thing.)

The male gets aboard and away he goes! I personally think that the male should have his partner have at least one orgasm before penetration. I think most of you figure out how to do that.

I feel most women are short changed by not having enough foreplay, giving them a glass that is half full and a hollow, empty filling.

That is my thoughts on the matter. What are your thoughts?


spoilmegood 59F

2/10/2006 6:48 pm

my thoughts are those men don't really enjoy sex, it is just a means to an end. Nor do they get much practice cuz who calls them back for an encore.

It has been my experence that men and women who love sex, love giving pleasure, in fact giving pleasure gets you more pleasure, heightens the whole act and just makes everything sliprey and very wet.

rm_karlovymost 72M
4 posts
2/10/2006 10:14 pm

I think that you and I feel much the same about a "warm up" session.
For two people to meld together as one in a good sexual encounter, they have to be "hot". It just can't be one sided.

And I thank you for your comment. My next posting will be about "How I like to treat a woman". I should get it posted early next week. I think you like it.


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