Here's the first two problems...  

kandigrl_99_28 45F
15 posts
5/1/2005 10:04 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Here's the first two problems...

Most of my problem is deciding who I am sexually. What I want and is it okay to desire such things...after getting over that hurdle..I must give myself a title, bi, bi-curious, lesbian. You know why? because everyone ask for this title! CAN'T I JUST LOVE WOMEN and not need a title well apparently not.

So anyway, then there's my next problem..with this desire for a woman sexually...how do I get a woman in my bed without outing myself? Hummm, I know I'll try the internet. After much looking and searching, many different sites, many phone conversations and meetings, I found her, my first. It was very nice. It took 3 years! Now, I'm searching for my next sexual experience with a woman....and I hope it doesn't take 3 friggin' more years! Anyone out there can relate to this nonsense? If so, I'd love to hear from you.


freetime648 52F

5/2/2005 8:20 am

Kandi, be patient! I used to wonder what to catergorize myself as also. I came up with a simple answer! I am ME!!! If I want a woman I will look for her. If she wants me...it happens! You cannot do anything more than that! If I want a guy...he is there also! Either way, men or women...I am me!!! Hope this helps!


xx FREETIME648 xx


elle_gant1 45F
78 posts
5/7/2005 11:59 am

Kandi, when you figure out the answer to the second problem, please clue me in


kandigrl_99_28 45F

5/8/2005 2:20 pm

Thanks freetime and elle_gant, I will let you know and I've tried allinternet avenues and nothing seems to work. See my most recent post.


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