Tempus Fugit  

kaffryn 45F
47 posts
9/5/2005 12:19 pm

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10/13/2006 1:47 am

Tempus Fugit

Well, I hit 34 this week - older and definitely wiser !!

Someone asked me this week if I'd ever been close to getting married - as if I was some kind of freak because I haven't and then when I said I didn't have kids either they were even more shocked !!

Someone else advised me to take the 'tit' pics off my profile as he has got to know me and says I'm giving the wrong impression of myself - that I'm more than a pair of tits.

He also said I need to stop looking for any form of 'normal' relationship on here - I didn't think I was but kind of feel that he may be right.

So do I seperate AdultFriendFinder from any thought of finding a 121 relationship, or do I just stop using the site at all???

rm_one4all65 51M
3 posts
9/6/2005 12:21 pm

I think a lot of people on here have been throurgh the same kind of thing at the end of the day if the spark is there and you both want more then why not? you can not rule anything out GOD you can meet the love of your life anywhere! in the supermarket or at the petrol pump so why not on here? aslong as you are happy?? you seem to me to Know your own mind [anyway i for one like your pics so dont take them off]GOODLUCK WHAT EVER YOU DO AT THE END OF THE THE DAY ITS UP TO YOU!

pauls337 50M
11 posts
9/8/2005 7:10 pm

I have been on here a few days and can't make my mind up about it. To properly communicate I think you have to look into someones eyes. You have to see their reactions. There is no spontanaity (how the heck is that spelt?!)it is all considered responses, not very natural.I dont see how you can do anything other than chat on here. For it to be useful you have to meet up. And....there is nothing wrong with a great pair of knockers. you should leave them right where they are ! Good luck x

Move2YourBeat 59M

9/11/2005 5:31 pm

I saw your pic a few minutes ago and came straight to your blog. Why? Because your tits look absolutely fantastic and I am no different to any other red blooded man in wanting to know a lot more about how to meet you.
My point is that in order to find any sort of relationship, 121, permanant, casual or whatever else it may be you're looking for, you first have to make an impression and attract potential mates. If you have a feature that stands out from the crowd then what would be the point in hiding it. Most men (the exceptions being a few shallow idiots) know that any woman will be more than just a pair of tits, and the right guy(s) for you will have a liking for voluptuous women. Until you find "the one" and decide to be totally monogomous you should probably keep on with this site. It may help you in your search, and until then you will still be able to meet with a large variety of other men if you want to.

casado8 43M
52 posts
9/16/2005 2:27 pm

Adoro grande seios, os seus são enormes e lindos

boytoy115780 70M
37 posts
9/17/2005 10:38 am

hey just hang in there and enjoy what and who you are

boytoy115780 70M
37 posts
9/17/2005 10:40 am

hey you can check by network out if you want ok

boytoy115780 70M
37 posts
9/17/2005 10:41 am

hey happy belated birthday to you and many happy mor to you

rm_uppish 40M
9 posts
9/19/2005 11:06 am

hmmmm..............keep the tits!!!

Bignslippry 56M

9/22/2005 12:47 pm

Hi Kaffryn,

You have the best boobs on the site and should definitely be in a magazine. If you've got it, flaunt it....he might start telling you how to dress next.......


shagmesilly73 43M
1 post
9/24/2005 7:02 am

well i think there a lovely pair very nice wud like to see more

koalkillah 32M

9/24/2005 7:09 am

i dout it, but nice tities, im gonna admit sumthin, all men r pigs, even i am

whittylad 46M

10/4/2005 10:51 pm

Hiya k,

I know i'm in the same boat as you but a bit older! I decided a long time ago that I didn't the HUGE responsibility of kids and had the snip to avoid accidents. I also don't need an expensive day and a bit of paper to commit to somebody either. Call me selfish if you will, but I'm honest enough to admit I like my life as it is...

P.S. Of course I noticed those lovely chest puppies right after the 5 star compatibility rating, but I still wouldn't send a message unless the profile actually meant something either!

studup2005 53M

10/23/2005 2:34 pm

Time does indeed fly, but the best thing you can do, is enjoy the best moments to the full, learn from the bad times & just do what makes you feel good...
Belated Birthday wishes & in my opinion women get more beautiful & more interesting as they mature...( most men just like to play with bigger toys!lol)
By the way you look fabulous in your pics.
studup2005 xxx

rm_Extrasex68 49M
13 posts
10/24/2005 9:53 am

I didn't see your 'tit' pics but I very much like the stocking one you have now. It is sexy and suggestive without being obvious. It also hints there is more depth and hidden pleasures. A darker side maybe.

What's a normal relationship anyway? One person's normal is another person's 'weird'. Who wants a 'normal' relationship anyway? It sounds too ordinary, clinical, measured or even reserved. What about passion and desire and to hell with the consequences? I don't mean taking extreme risks but I'm sure you're not going to let someone else suggest how you should run your life.

Using the site in the hope of finding a satisfactory 121 relationship is no worse or no less likely to be less successful than hoping you bump into the right person at work or in a bar. Just accept that there will be failures as well as successes.

rm_Extrasex68 49M
13 posts
10/24/2005 10:03 am

Sorry, too many less'in that sentence. Meant no less likely to be successful!

Why should not getting married be so bad? It's a choice not some sort of affliction. There are plenty of married people who would think that you are wise not to have jumped into the marriage pool just for the sake of it or because others make you feel you should do to be 'normal'.

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