Old boyfriends  

kacky0850 40F   
4309 posts
5/15/2006 1:16 pm

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10/9/2006 2:10 pm

Old boyfriends

Having nothing to do I was reading names through my cell phone. Nah... I don't want to call her. OOps, I was supposed to call him a week ago. OOhh, my ex bf. I wonder what he is up to.

Dialing the phone I wait for an answer. Simple conversation. We keep up with each other here and there. But the big question is "What are you doing tonight?" He answers."Oh nothing wanna come over?" Bulls eye. Finally got plans.

I get dressed and head over to his house. By the end of the night, I'm tied up, ass is slapped, and fucked every which way but sideways....no I take that back...we did fuck sideways.

My question is, I am a picky person and I don't fuck around. I haven't had sex since I last had him as a boyfriend and I miss it, A LOT!!!! Was it okay to fuck an ex even if I wasn't going to be in a relationship with him????
Why can't I find a man that can be as kinky as I am that wants a long term relationship? That is truely the question that has been haunting me.

Xcentric2006 37F

5/15/2006 2:42 pm

Did it FEEL right? if so, you have your answer. sometimes we just have to give into our urges. you did so with someone that you knew and have been with before, therefore you can trust not to hurt you. smart. much better than a random.

as far as finding a LTR with a kinky guy- i am in the same boat. i *think* i might have found someone, through this site actually, but- i'm kinda oldfashioned in the sense that i think that there is that special someone out there for everyone. we just need to find em is all. good luck!

rm_Shortdogg65 51M
672 posts
5/15/2006 3:00 pm

You just haven't looked in the right place yet. Shortdogg

spacecadet561 59M

5/15/2006 3:17 pm

As long as you parted on good terms, and neither of you was cheating on anyone, and you had a good time, I see nothing wrong. It almost sounds like you wish you hadn't broken up with him. How is he outside of bed? Are we talking husband material, or just "boy toy" material?


hopefull20069 47M

5/18/2006 11:39 am

if you boyh know the score, your safe with him. till mr right comes allong. keep looking till you find the right one, he'll make it worth your wait. good luck, and have fun....x...

spiderbeetle21 33M
52 posts
8/14/2006 3:21 am

I'm sure you get this kind of response a lot, but I think I am the kind of guy you are looking for. I am looking for a relationship and I think I could get pretty kinky if with the right person.

I would really like to meet you sometime and see what happens. If nothing else, I'm always up for making a new friend.

attentive2u58 58M
251 posts
10/5/2006 12:21 pm

Hopeful and Spacecadet are correct.

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