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Sitting here looking pages of online people, sending winks, writing some, with little to no response. Is it because I am male?
I believe in honesty first and fore-most. I am attatched to a girl, that is also bi-sexual. We have an open relationship that allows us to be free sexually. And we have our boundries relating to the ammount of freedom.
11/28/2005 7:01 am
At the risk of providing an unpopular response and being very controversial... I think there are a lot of factors working against you with regard to meeting people:
1) You are a guy (this is a no brainer)
2) Demographics; I'm not sure where in AZ you live, but it does not sound like it is a bustling metropolitian area. Therefore, there are fewer people available to you.
3) Demographics again - Your sexual proclivities are very liberal, the area where you live is not.
4) In spite of the BS that you often read on this site, some people have hang-ups with gay men, bi-men, and TV/TS activities.
Here's an idea: Get a second e-mail address and a second AdultFriendFinder name. Use one name (e.g. Smurf) for the more liberal activities. Use the second name to advertise more "mainstream" activities. In doing so, the women who want a bi-sexual fling will see just that, a bi-sexual man. The people who want things more experimental will see just that, a very experimental "cutting edge" man.
"Mr. Bambi" (formerly AtomicKisss)