Ok, so here's the thing...  

justneedone4sex 54M
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12/2/2005 3:12 am

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3/9/2006 6:24 am

Ok, so here's the thing...

I have been on and off this site since my last post (mostly off) and I've taken that time to think. I really care for the woman in my life and when we have sex (it doesn't happen often enough for me) it's good. My issue is her weight and I guess it's been an issue for a while, but I wouldn't admit it. I think her lack of desire my also stem from her weight problem. Now don't get me wrong, she's pretty, funny and very smart but is in no rush to lose any weight. I know this is a sensitive subject for her as well as many others, and the source of several heated discussions between us, so I'm reluctant to bring it up again. What should I do? How can I gently request her participation without offending her? What kind of motivation should I use? HELP!!!

If she and I are gonna make this work (since I can't get any action here) I need some new suggestions. Anything you share will be appreciated...

starlight_runner 39F

12/2/2005 4:29 am

Joint activities which let you exercise under the guise of spending quality time together.works everytime

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