why are so many people interested how a person looks  

justforus1971 45M/45F
11 posts
7/26/2005 11:26 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

why are so many people interested how a person looks

when I look at a profile I look for location first then I read the profile if the profile fits what I am looking for then I reply. Outward apperances dont really mean that much to me but I feel there are some in this group that think all of us woman have to be a perfect size 8 to make a good friend or lover.
I am a big woman with a kind and honest heart and sometimes I feel that no one replies to my emails because I am a big woman. If this is not true then let me know. I am trying to loose weight but it is not as easy as it sounds and it takes time.

paladin762 41M
2 posts
7/27/2005 12:36 am

Unfortunately we live in a day and age and a country, where packaging sells the product. One must judge their self worth by what others think of them, and that is wrong. it is not what others think of you it is how you hold you’re self against the materialistic views. In the end they will fade!!!! You will always have to look at your self. And that is the person you must answer to. Not TV or the anorexic models, wearing cloths that even the average woman couldn’t wear because they them selves would rip thru the seams and double stitching running home and saying I am to fat. You are your own judge for better or worse not to be judged by a society that lives in a fantasy land of false identity

Good luck


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