Would you stay or go?  

junglefevaluva 49F
8 posts
3/10/2006 12:52 am

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10/19/2006 5:30 pm

Would you stay or go?

Let's say that you have been in a relationship for many years and you love your partner very much. All areas of the relationship are good....EXCEPT for one area...your sexlife! The sex has stopped and you are in your prime and you still want and need it.....what do you do?
Stay and buy lots of batteries for your toys
Stay and find a secret lover to keep you satisfied

slickdick269 47M
1 post
3/10/2006 12:49 pm

so whats up....me need to talk...lol

rm_DXampl 41M

3/10/2006 7:15 pm

You need to address the reason for the lack of sex, not just the lack of sex. Is it medical or just a new phase. Is the loving that you are missing out on going to someone else. These are the questions that you need answered before you can even begin to ready yourself to leave.

pipefitter133 46M
1 post
3/13/2006 11:25 am

whats up girl, that shit is really fucken with you, i told you i would be there for when ever and what ever you need. i told you dont't leave just replace the area of you relationship thats missing(replace it with me..lol) and you and yours will be fine. be patience with him.. in the mean time go get yours(have some fun).... pipefitter133....

rm_Man_at_Play 58M

4/1/2006 12:40 am

Got to agree with DXamp...

You need to find out why...
Sex is like food. You just don't stop wanting it one day. We're humans: A lot or a little, we like it too much to stop wanting it.

Speaking from experience: I thought my wife was no longer interested in having sex. I thought, after two kids and twenty plus years of me, I was kicked to the curb. If I was lucky, if I'd get it once a month. Then I figured it out, it wasn't sex: It was sex with me. I found out she was stepping out on me for five years before I figured it out. On this site, no less. Still trying to deal with it.

Like I said you just don't stop liking food: It just might be the taste in the types of food you eat changes.

I would say find out, confront the situation and deal with it as you need to in order to keep your sanity.

Bigg_Oh 46M

7/25/2006 1:37 am

Well like in my situation, after so many years it really not an option to leave. There our other lives involved and the are depending on us to at least have the appearance of stability. So I join AdultFriendFinder in hopes of finding people in simalar situations.

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