And you are emailing me, why?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!  

jungandhorney 42F
98 posts
7/7/2005 6:55 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

And you are emailing me, why?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!

Quoted directly from my profile:

"Please, NO married men!!!!!! And please do not email me to argue with me about this!!! I have no problems with casual sex without meaning but I am unable to fuck a married man. Blame professional and personal ethics, if you like. I just do not want the burden of knowing that my horniness caused heartbreak to another woman."

Yet, amazingly enough, married men email me. I am unsure if it is because they have failed to read my profile or if they somehow think that I am going to make an exception just for them because they are just so studly. This very much irritates me.

My profile also makes mention of that I am involved in the field of psychology. That would indicate in itself that I am bound to a code of ethics. Also, being in that field of study, I am more inclined to help you solve your marital problems than engage in casual sex with you. Also, just by engaging in an extramarital affair speaks volumes about your lack of ethics. This creates a big clash in personalities all in itself. I am not perfect, by any means, but I do stick to my morals pretty well.

If the problem is that you are not reading my profile, then that is no better. How do you know if you want to hook up with someone if you do not read their profile? How do you know what they are looking for? And what they are NOT looking for? Call me "picky." if you like but I am not going to sleep with every man who sends me an email. I want to make sure my potential playmate is a good match for me and that I am not in for any surprises. Would be kind of a shock if I showed up for our play date and he had some whips and chains laid out for me.......

What is worse is when the married man emails me, acknowledges that I have stated no married men and then argues with me about it. They always try to paint themselves as the victim in a bad marriage and expect me to feel sorry for them. I suppose they think that I will sleep with them out of pity. Never works. By painting their wife as a villain, they essentially have excused themselves from any personal responsibility and maintain that they are not accountable for any part of the failing marriage. I do not buy into this bullshit. It took two to get married, make it work, and make it go to hell. It is much more admirable when someone takes responsibility for what is all or partly their own damn part.

So all you married men, please, do not email me. I do not want to discuss sex, ethics, or take part in a pity party with you. Work with your wife to better you marriage, get a divorce, or just find another playmate who can overlook your marital status further complicating an already damaged marriage.

Of course all of this does not apply if in fact the wife and husband have agreed and are both willing participants in an open marriage. If the wife knows you are playing around and she is happy you are doing so, then this post does not apply to you.

I suppose I should end this post with an email I received not so long ago......

"Hello Beautiful! I am writing after seeing your profile which I enjoyed greatly. This weekend I am going to be in Gilmer, Texas. Being near you I would love to have someone to spend some time with. The reason I am in Gilmer is I am to be married on Sat. and want to experience the touch of someone that enjoys oral sex as much as I do for my new life will have none of that. She does not like it! Giving or receiving. Just a thought. I can be reached at [email address] or [phone number]. Hope you have a day as beautiful as you.


...........he didn't get a response from me either.........

Be good. Or, at least be legal.


PillsburyCodeBoy 60M

7/8/2005 7:09 am

LOL! It's hard to know what's the worst part of this guy's email. Assuming you'd drop everything and jump at the chance to spend his wedding weekend with him? The swipes at his wife-to-be? The cornball closing line? Getting married in Gilmer?

TeamsCocoaBated 51M
23 posts
7/25/2005 10:24 pm

And I thought I got all the nuts...can say I've receive email quite that stupid. Vince

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