Treated like a Whore..  

julie4daddy34 45F
844 posts
2/6/2006 6:35 pm

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Treated like a Whore..


You know..for years I've missed out on alot of things sexually that I didnt really know existed. From the time I lost my virginity until recent I always thought that sex consisted of: doing the nasty, getting up, getting dressed and
eaving. Basically being treated like a whore only there isnt any money on the nightstand. I never realized that a man (who actually cares) should hold a woman before, during and afterwards. I experienced just that feeling as of recent and initially my reaction was to push the affection away. Instead of doing my usual 'fuck and flight' I let him hold me, and found that I liked it. It felt kinda weird since I never had a man do that..but it was a good kind of weird. I was just wondering if there are any other women out there missing out like me, or am I the only woman on the face of this earth that's been treated like a whore?

timberwolf6972 44M

2/6/2006 8:34 pm

That is so sad


rm_joshnyadeep 65M
100 posts
2/7/2006 1:26 pm

julie, darling what great loss you have undergone! yes ,there are honest open men in this world that would love nothing more than just to hold you close.
look at yourself as a desert,in this case lets say a beautifully decorated cake. 80% cake and 20% icing the 80% is the core, the real you. the 20%is the sex,warmth and sharing of yourself. now really young lady there are men that just want the 20% (by the millions) and there are men that want the 80% (1/2 a million) of the cake. and now the real shocker there are men (such as i)who want settle for any thing less than 100%. we`re here really! i for one look at a first date as the possable start of the forever after fairytale.you guessed it! i have a softer side and like myself that way,wine,soft lights,good movie,cuddling under a blanket together with your arms wrapper around that some one,is where a lasting memory begins. so smile ,bring on the cake!and perhaps we`ll share the icing together, not once,not twice,but forever! 20% is fun quick and easy to forget.80% provides comfort,friendship and companionship,but add the two together and you`ve got the start if n new forver after fairytale!
hugs,
don


julie4daddy34 45F
599 posts
2/8/2006 5:32 pm

Thank you so much joshnyadeep. Your words are so kind, but so true. I'm finding out as I go along that I am indeed entitled to better treatment. Maybe one day I'll find romance.


likethembig71 45F

2/12/2006 9:51 pm

julie....i totally understand u.....but i will admit i have done it in return to men...what comes around goes around i guess and sometimes u don't mean to hurt them u just do....so i guess what i'm saying is don't take it to heart with all men that don't hold u could be other reasons why they don't.....by the way my name is julie as well LOL....


rm_solystis 70M
167 posts
3/3/2006 2:03 am

Julie

Sorry u missed it but now that you found it you will be getting better at it i am sure


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