Is there something wrong with me?  

jtplaya182 30M
4 posts
10/8/2005 7:09 pm

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Is there something wrong with me?


okay, all my friends im looking for some advice mainly here. I have this issue when im in the bedroom with someone where i dont have this "amazing " experiance that all of my friends are having/had. My partner's have always seemed to enjoy it but i've never had really that great of an experiance. Is there something wrong with me? It's not that i dont enjoy it I just cant seem to have that earth-shattering experiance. Any tips from the ladies that might help here would be greatly appreciated. Maybe I'm just doing something wrong and dont know it? Thanks for you input in advance.

Armywif4Armywif 37F

10/8/2005 10:45 pm

It doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with you J.T. It sounds like you are inexperienced in the art of lovemaking. Have you talked to your partner about what he/she wants from sex? For that matter, do you know what you really want? (Besides the obvious... of course) Most of the "earth-shattering" experiences that I have had were that way because I knew what I wanted and was able to explain it to the man I was with, and show him how to do it correctly if needed. I think that you have nothing to worry about, sex is an art. Just like any artform, it takes practice to get it right. I suggest you experiment with different types and positions until you find what's right for you.


jtplaya182 30M
2 posts
10/10/2005 12:48 pm

Thanks for you input. Army, I havent talked to my partner about what she wants but its a good idea. It's not that i dont enjoy sex its just that I havent had an amazing experiance. Maybe the women I have been with just didnt click for me? Not that i didnt find them physically attractive but it seemed like all of my partners didnt know how i liked to do it. (for that matter i dont even know what i like bc of lack of experiance with things like different positions or the type of women i was with). I'm not gay if thats what people are thinking. (not trying to a homophobe here) but i like women and have no interest in guys. A lot of my friends kept telling me that i might be gay but I know thats not the case. I think a lot of the problem is that a lot of the women i have been with just havent clicked well for me. I dont know but anyone else that would like to respond feel free! im open to all sorts of ideas/advice. Thanks!


jtplaya182 30M
2 posts
10/10/2005 12:51 pm

oh and by the way... ill get my pic up on here as soon as i get my digi cam fixed! for some reason AdultFriendFinder took my last one down. Thanks!


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