Since when does STRAIGHT mean anything other than STRAIGHT??  

jst4fun915 34F
420 posts
4/15/2006 1:08 pm

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4/18/2006 12:03 am

Since when does STRAIGHT mean anything other than STRAIGHT??


I don't understand those people on here who are bi/bi-curious/gay and solicit straight members. I know quite a few guys who have been solicited by bi or gay men here, when they clearly state they are straight in their profile. Likewise, even though I clearly state that I am STRAIGHT, and really am not interested in chicks at all, I get the occasional female asking me to hook up. Listen, I don't care what ANYONE does in their bedroom, and have no problem with homosexuality, but just as a homosexual would not want a straight person to try and "change" them, they shouldn't try to "change" a hetero. It's just rude!! Now, if you're out in the club, and get hit on by the member of the same sex (or opposite, depending on your preference), take it in stride as you would any other unwanted advance. People can misread signals, whatever...
BUT when it says clearly what one's preference is, RESPECT THAT!!!

meerkittykat 42F

4/15/2006 1:42 pm

Yup...same as I don't understand males who constantly bombard me (and other women who make it clear they are only seeking women on here) with emails and invites when it clearly says I am not seeking men. So trust and believe it runs both ways.

Stupidity knows no sexual preference. It's not gonna change, so you'll want to learn to just ignore it.


CaboWaboVHnut 56M
637 posts
4/15/2006 2:05 pm

Momma always saiud.....Forrest....Stupid is as stupid does !!! People will choose to ignore whatever they want to, not much you can do about it, but it can get very frustrating. Peace, Cabo !!!

P.S. Very nice picture by the way !!!


waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

4/15/2006 2:14 pm

we get emails like that all the time. Either they don't read the entire profile or they just hope they might get lucky. I just delete them most of the time.


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
4/15/2006 2:18 pm


many of the standard M's don't have the privilege of reading profiles.... that probably is part of it....

(it's not that I don't agree with you!)


TLCdeprived 45F
1 post
4/15/2006 2:19 pm

Well... I am female and have been with many more women than men but I am looking for a man on this site and never would consider approaching a female EVER that didn't make the first move towards homosexuality. Everyone is aware that ignorance is everywhere. You should dismiss it as easily as you would out in a club and forget it. People just aren't very intelligent.


rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
4/15/2006 2:55 pm

Who really cares? Just say no and don't worry about it....


jst4fun915 34F

4/15/2006 5:17 pm

I guess I came off wrong, I'm not saying it pisses me off, or I get worked up about it, just wondering what the deal is. I politely decline, as do the guys I know, and take it in stride, but it never ceases to amaze me!! Of course, the internet give people special courage... it's just a fact of life.


rm_Tanis0525 49M

4/16/2006 1:54 am

I take it as a compliment that someone finds me attractive if they send me an email that I didn't initiate, but it is very rare for me to get any emails from other people on here that I haven't emailed first. Mostly just get a few check out my profile and move on.


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