Desperation is not pretty  

jst4fun915 34F
420 posts
3/26/2006 9:36 pm

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4/15/2006 7:16 pm

Desperation is not pretty

You know why men have so much trouble pulling ass sometimes? Because they are acting all desperate and pathetic. We pick up on that, be it in a bar, or on AdultFriendFinder, and it's so not appealing. Here's my free bit of advice, boys... play a little hard to get. Don't walk around practically humping air while trying to get some chick. Guys with game don't do that, and that's why they get laid so easily. Be laid back, it works better... we can smell desperation a mile away.

Jeepidiot 42M

3/26/2006 10:14 pm

Yeah I tried the hard to get thing. I was told I was unreceptive or pushed away. Can't win for losing.

Shelly_Marie 43F

3/26/2006 10:30 pm

yeah women would feel more comfortable around them if they just relaxed and could talk about normal things other than sex first and give it enough time and then get into the sex talk and all after that point...let her know you are interested without making her think you are going to pressure her and all.

jst4fun915 34F

3/27/2006 10:44 am

The thing is, you need to balance it out... not too desperate, not too aloof. Guys seems to struggle with that balance. The guys I've been most attracted too were friendly, but not overbearing, and didn't act like they were going to die if they didn't get to hump my leg right there on the spot. Being a little hard to figure out can drive a woman nuts, in a good way... but being too unreceptive will make her give up. Let us chase after you for once!

Jeepidiot 42M

3/27/2006 2:21 pm

So humping legs is a bad thing? Dammit I'll never get this right.

strokerace650 38M

4/15/2006 5:23 pm

Humping legs?????????dambit now thats some funny shit!!!!!! I get plenty of puss for what free time that i have. Hell the mind game crap just turns me off about as bad as a game of golf. I just lose my attention span to a gal that is always trying to grade my charactor on a short conversation basis. I figure if she does that then she is just to plain shallow for my view of life.

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