Why Are So Many Men Wussies?  

joseph69er2 60M
18 posts
8/7/2006 7:06 am

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8/8/2006 5:40 am

Why Are So Many Men Wussies?



Hey fellas,
Why are so many of you guys wussies? I mean, you sound like you're begging for pussy and will do anything to get into some gals pants. Why not step back, evaluate why you're such a failure at dating and make some changes.

Look, Most of you get on a site like this tell the women your the best lay ever, your cock is the biggest, and you're the best pussy eater ever. Fact is, I doubt if many of you have ever taken the time to romance a woman; to treat her like a lady, and find out what HER needs and desires are. Hey, some of you guys can even last for two to three minutes.

So, you idea of a date is take her out, get her drunk, and screw her? Think again pal. If all you want is a one night stand, then that works. OK, but if you are looking for any second or third dates, you blew it. I'm not saying there aren't times when a quickie is all you are both looking for. What I'm saying is this, What's wrong with taking her on a date shopping, or going someplace SHE wants to go. Try asking her. Ladies, don't be shy about telling us what you want to do.

Advice for you ladies: If you're ad says all you want is sex and a hot time, you're probably a come on for another site. The guys really interested aren't buying it. I know I don't. Besides, why would I want my cock in your pussy. It might just rot off. Hey, be clean, D/D free and able to prove it, then we can talk. Act like a lady, EXPECT to be treated like a lady. If some guy responds to your ad with immediate offers to screw you're brains out, watch out- He's desperate. Joseph


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
8/7/2006 7:29 am

Joseph.....this post made me both laugh and nod my head in agreement! Good job!


AngelEyez4u2004 56F
1473 posts
8/7/2006 7:40 am

I've often wondered the same thing myself. I've also wondered why so many men on this site go after easy prey, women who might be less confident in themselves, so a guy will play her up, tell her what he knows she wants to hear, promises her the moon and the stars and all the bullcrap til he gains her total trust, then WHAM, he either disappears into thin cyberspace air, or does follow through with meeting her, screws her, then disappears. Guess my question is, if all ya want is to get laid, why waste so much time in creating a series of lies, or promises ya can never follow through with? Why not just say, hey all I want is a fuck and I want it from anyone who's willing to give it to me? Just imagine how many more fucks you'd get during the time you're wasting buttering ONE woman up, and same goes with the women out there who do the same type of thing.

I've been on this site for a bit more than 2 yrs, have met two men (both out of towners) after chatting with them for several months.....i'm not into one nighters, and I'm very upfront about it, both agreed its not what they wanted either. So instead of a one nighter, i got a few nighters I get a shit load of emails from local guys, out of towners, and hell even from different continents, proclaiming they can make my world rock.....guys and yes even some gals, need to learn to be a tad more creative when emailing on this site...try being original. Joseph I totally agree with you about guys asking the women what kind of date we'd like, or where we'd like to go...again, great post


TasteMeHuney 48M/54F
6 posts
8/7/2006 8:11 am

I have been told time and time again that this site is for sex and fun. If anyone is looking for a LTR they need to find a less sex driven sight, such as Alt.com is for BDSM lifestyle, FriendFinder for more of a relax, less sexual driven site. That AdultFriendFinder is about finding that perfect fuckbuddy (as if). I don't see it, I know what I seek and profiles with penis picture or mention of the abilities of that so called penis go unanswered. However, I do realize that sex is what drives many of us while others are looking for that monogomous, inlove relationship. Don't be fooled! Men want it as much as women but they figure "No expectations no disappointments" So lets go with the fuck theory in hopes of finding love. We women look for the love in hopes that it comes with great sex. We are just programmed differently I guess.


joseph69er2 replies on 8/7/2006 2:31 pm:
Huney,
Thanks for your feedback. You are right. Men and women are programmed differently. I just happen to think we men need to learn your program code in order to be more successful with you (women). Joseph

AngelEyez4u2004 56F
1473 posts
8/7/2006 10:02 am

    Quoting TasteMeHuney:
    I have been told time and time again that this site is for sex and fun. If anyone is looking for a LTR they need to find a less sex driven sight, such as Alt.com is for BDSM lifestyle, FriendFinder for more of a relax, less sexual driven site. That AdultFriendFinder is about finding that perfect fuckbuddy (as if). I don't see it, I know what I seek and profiles with penis picture or mention of the abilities of that so called penis go unanswered. However, I do realize that sex is what drives many of us while others are looking for that monogomous, inlove relationship. Don't be fooled! Men want it as much as women but they figure "No expectations no disappointments" So lets go with the fuck theory in hopes of finding love. We women look for the love in hopes that it comes with great sex. We are just programmed differently I guess.
Taste I agree, most women are programmed differently then men. Also like your comment 'no expectations, no disappointments". I state on my profile that im not here looking for anything, mainly just to chat.....99% of the people who read that, tell me they don't believe it...being honest doesn't pay on this site, sad but true. I don't expect to find what my life is missing from here, its all shits and giggles for me now. Sex can be found every day without having to be on this site, well at least for most it works that way, for some, this site just makes it easier and gives them a ton more to pick and choose from I would imagine.....


joseph69er2 60M

8/7/2006 2:02 pm

Thank you very much for your honest evaluation and feedback. If I come accross as cocky and arrogant to you guys out there, maybe it's because you're threatened by the truth. If the shoe fits, wear it. If it doesn't, great. Sadly though, what I said is true to 99 % of the guys on this site. 'till next time. Joseph


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