Why is it so hard..........?  

josepaulo 53M
19 posts
11/6/2005 2:52 pm

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4/19/2009 11:10 am

Why is it so hard..........?

I just can't figure this one out. I am an attractive, very well off single guy and I cant'get arrested on this site. I have met 2 women here in the last 2 years but thats it. Are all women on here just selling web sites? I would love to hear from anyone here on this.

LIBlonde97 40F
1028 posts
11/6/2005 9:46 pm

No, some of us are actually real... we're in the minority however

I myself have given up one meeting anyone who's even remotely good for me on this site.. but it's a good place for blogging.

Good luck with yours if you decide to move past the initial requisite "Why aren't there any real women on AdultFriendFinder?" complaint...


josepaulo 53M
24 posts
11/7/2005 5:02 pm

Thanks for the response. I'm glad someone out there is real. Sorry your not looking. Nice to hear from you

rm_lickmepretty 51F
851 posts
11/18/2005 6:32 pm

Hi, welcome to blog!

Are you aware there is a new group created for bloggers and their readership to meet and frolic in the chat room? (A place for serious discussion as well)

A group where interesting blog posts will be “spot-lighted” along with the links of how to get there. A place where new kids on the block can actually get seen as well as the predominant “hierarchy”.

A place where ideas can flow--from suggested blog topics, to writing "critiques", to directions on how to better use the elements of color, photos, and font style/size to make your blog more eye appealing; as well as instructions on how to better use linking to other posts.

Being that this is an adult site, we will also have a group post running where writers and their followers can indicate where they're from so maybe you might actually be able to meet some folk "local" to you.

Flirtatious banter is encouraged--crude obscene assaults will not be tolerated and are subject to deletion.

So...Stop in and have a little fun over your cup o' joe!

Here is a link to the group Blog Cafe, look forward to meeting you there!

josepaulo 53M
24 posts
11/19/2005 12:03 pm

thanks Lickme i'll take a look

lookbutdonttouc9 38F

11/20/2005 6:17 am

Yes I agree there are some nut jobs out in cyber land but rest assured Iam a real person with real pictures and thoughts stay in touch

josepaulo 53M
24 posts
11/20/2005 3:13 pm

thanks for the reply touch...I sent you an email but i didnt hear back from you yet........

RavishingRed1062 54F

11/23/2005 9:51 pm

Well... count me as one of the real ones... BUT,I don't think I fit your requirements... but that doesn't mean we can't be friends

{=} Ravishing

josepaulo 53M
24 posts
1/5/2006 3:47 pm

hey Kat thanks for the email and the blog.......we should talk a bit.......eamil or phone just let me know

rm_Bunsovfun 53F
2 posts
1/21/2006 3:10 pm

Iam as real as they get,, i sent you several ims ,, you sent not available..

i guess iam now what you seek..


fixeruppergirl 48F

2/7/2006 4:12 am

Really, think about it, it's "Passions.com". We are all looking for that "discreet relationship". It's just a haven for the sex industry. I guess you just have to weed out all that crap. I have met some really fun people on here, exactly what I was looking for. Anyhow, good luck on your search and happy travels .

hotgirl4fun2006 52F

10/8/2006 11:58 am

First I would say I'm very surprised that you have only met two women on this website. Naturally you are handsome but above this, you have outstanding qualities. I've not met anyone in person from this site as of yet but certainly would do this if I felt the person to be safe and have things in common with me. I find that a lot are simply wishing to swap pictures, meet and have a one night stand. So it's can be difficult for both genders. Unfortunately it is true, most on here are superficial and not overly serious about meeting. I am not one of those. I am considering visiting the NY / NY area soon and if I do? Boy are you in trouble!

luckyladytoo 62F

11/26/2006 6:17 pm

I am very very real! I have met several, no many men on here and they are all very real! It is possible that you aren't really looking for what you say? Real women can read between the lines and your lines may speak volumes.
I contacted you as you were on your way to Hong Kong...you have returned and ....? So sweets...you should use your talents not only at work but also for your pleasure!
Good luck.

yourbaby66 51F

2/2/2008 2:37 pm

I seem to have the same trouble... I gets lots of replies but when it comes down to a date...not too many can accommodate ... I am available and would be interested in chatting and MEETING.
ciao for now,
p.s. it would be nice if you had a face picture

imalwaysready247 51F  
13 posts
2/17/2008 1:32 am

Many people use this as an outlet where they can pretend to be all the things they are NOT, but some of us are very real and enjoy meeting the great people who are here to have fun!

shadwick2000 45F

4/26/2008 6:14 pm

There are many 'real' girls looking to meet a man like you...but are you really wanting to meet them? I am as real as they come, and have never backed out of a meet. I am also very honest..if I dont feel a connection or attraction I wont waste your time...Life is for fun..keep searching, you will find it...xxx

lonelyheart965 52F
3 posts
11/1/2008 12:32 pm


I couldnĀ“t resist to tell you that I'm a Portuguese, real woman. Besides I have already met many men (Portuguese) from these site, so they are also real. Let me tell you that I have also made many real friendships but in fact the major part of men here just want to have a one night stand, no strings. It's a pity, because I would like to meet someone for more than just sex. Companionship, care, attention, well all those things that everybody needs to be happy.
So if you had any doubts, now you know that there are many real people here.



melike2sucku 50F
117 posts
4/4/2009 12:25 am

As real as they come here!

To love is to risk not being loved in return

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