The "experience" of older women  

jomcarex 32M
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12/8/2005 9:47 pm

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The "experience" of older women

I'm confused about something else... what is this "older experienced" women that peopel are always talking about, as though ever woman below the age of 27 is a virgin or something that would try to give a handjob with her pinky in confusion. let's face it guys, it doesn't take a whole lot to be real hot in bed. it just takes evergy, a BIT of knowhow (geez a dick is the easiest thing to make happy in the world) and the ability to over embelish.
No, i don't think a woman who is 35 is anymore significantly experienced than a 25 year old unless the 25 year old came out of a convent, or was a quiet introvert that suddenly blossomed into a sexual predator at 35. Face it guys, its just the "prize" of getting a MILF. I doubt these women give you something younger ones can't.

put this one up there with the myth of younger guys and their inability to stimulate a womans mind.
ERK! *breathes into a paper bag*
I have to study now... 8grumble grumble*

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
12/8/2005 10:28 pm

ohhhhhhhhhhhh ye of little faith {=}

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

slidein2meplz 62F
1994 posts
12/8/2005 10:37 pm

As an older woman... 50 soon to be 51...I have had the great pleasure of having much, much younger men (20 years younger to be exact) and what they have told me, because I've asked, is that...

#1, we know our bodies better than the younger gals
#2 we don't call them every half an hour wanting to know what they are doing or what they are thinking..(and this is absolutely true...cuz we don't care)
#3 we aren't as demanding
#4 we are more experienced
#5 we are more genuine
#6 we have our stuff together better
#7 we understand stuff that the younger gals don't
#8 we are cut from a cloth that no longer exists
#9 we know how to make them feel good
#10 we are incredible

these are all things I've been told by the ones I've known...and the younger guys...they are the ones making initial contact...I personally haven't approached any on my own.

As far as a younger guy stimulating a womans mind... if she's an older woman...she doesn't care....

Seriously, though...I've been amazed at some of the guys I've been fortunate to know, they've been fantastic lovers...and when we've been'd never know there was an age difference that significant.

Let me know if any younger guys comment, I'd be interested in reading what they've had to say. Ok? Thanks... have a good one.. Slide.

~~~ Just me, poppin to say HI! ~~

jomcarex 32M

12/8/2005 11:12 pm

[goddess1946]: haha, little faith, indeed. I didn't say that older women were not experienced at all. If you lok back in my blog I did have quite the adventure with woman who was a 40 year old or so... i don't really know, she had one of those ageless looks. I just feel that a younger woman could easily be just as experienced. But I consider myself an open to argument individual, perhaps we can remove the generation gap for a couple of hours or so for a discussion? younger girl, me, older woman... threesome anyone? hahaha!

[slideinme2plz]: I think these are some interesting and highly valid points you bring up. I just have a slight trouble with points 4,5,8 and 10. 4,5 and 10 because they seem to beg the question without really explaining anything. I'm not discounting anything but it just seems like a very transient ephemeral description (haha I like big words).
#1 could certainly be true, but then again it leads me to wonder two things, how much more can someone know their bodies than someone else? I agree some people know how to move it, some don't, but it confounds me as to how this would eb related to age moreso than attitude and sexual drive.
#2 fair enough haha
#3 see comments to #2
#6 I imagine what you mean by this is that you're already established in life, career, money etc. and so there's no dramam and the such. yeah true true. But when we're talking about hooking up, i don't see how this should play a factor. Perhaps the point is not so much that older women have it together mroe, but that they can more easily segregate (there are those bigger words again) pleasure from personal things.
#7 yeah this I'll give to you hands down. Living through what life has to dish out for you certainly builds on a weathered skin we wear in a way others can usually see pretty well. but again the point comes up, if its a booty call... who cares?
#8 another truly valid point.

Thanks alot for your contribution to my pursuit for the higher truths! I'm thinking alot of these differences may also be associated with the fact that women apparently secually peak at 35... what this tells me I don't knwo but its fun to throw out statistics... i am a science student after all.

[agoigo] there can be no question about the nature of human uniqueness, my little snowflakes. As for taking someone beyond simple one layered happiness... hum! It truly does depend on how someone has evolved in life. I think tehre's no denying that the puppy love of youth is perhaps one of the most spectacular things in the universe.

Anywho that's my 2 cents on your 2 cents... so is that like... 8 cents?
jomcarrex out!

MrNuttz05 49M

12/11/2005 9:09 pm

My Brotha' give me an "experinced" woman any day of the week... And the reason is pure & simple... Mental stimulation... I have been fortunate enough recently to go into the teens with a sex partner & physically, it was great. My back will never be the same. Fuck all night, fuck while woofing down a whopper, fuck on the way to getting the whopper, hey, even fuck while paying for the whopper (1st time for everything, & hey, I did say teens, right?) But there was no mental stimulation at all... Where is the eroticism, the sensuality, the mental games that bring the huge orgasms... It's when mind meets body, the physical meets the mental... I adore it. So, if you ask me, you can have the tight bodied teen that can fuck all night off of whoppers, & I will take that married housewife with a little thickness to her from having 3 kids, all night long....

jomcarex 32M

12/11/2005 11:24 pm

What can I say... Spoken true, spoken wise...

wait... whoppers?!?

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