Another frustration  

johninco 61M
7 posts
12/12/2005 3:09 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Another frustration


Maybe it's just my generation, but I always reply to e-mails sent to me on AdultFriendFinder. It isn't always positive, but I try to be kind, and, positive or negative, I do reply in a timely manner. (Positive example: "Here's my phone number, xxx-xxx-xxxx; I'll see you tonight!" Negative: "While I truly think you're hot, I'm not into whips and chains, but thank you for the offer. Get back to me when you want a gentleman.")

See? It's courteous, and nobody gets their feelings hurt. Not replying, on the other hand, says "You're not worth 10 seconds of my oh-so-valuable time." Nobody here is such a hotshot that they should feel entitled to disregard the humanity of another.

It's just a pet peeve-- but if you take the time to read this, and I e-mail you, PLEASE REPLY.

freetime648 52F

12/12/2005 4:02 pm

Alot of my e-mails come in other languages and I cannot read them so I delete them. It is stated in my profile that I only accept english messages....so, why do they push the ticket??? WHo knows! I agree, I too respond in a timely manner and even if I am not interested...I reply that I am not nicely! Good luck to you!


xx FREETIME648 xx


amb_lily 40F

12/12/2005 4:43 pm

I sometimes don't reply. If what they are seeking is so obviously not what I want. For example if a married man contacts me, when I have right in my profile ...not seeking married men. Or when I get the "can I lick your pussy" emails, I don't bother. I figure if they had taken the time to read my profile, they wouldn't have wasted their time writing.

Also...as a standard member I can only reply to a few emails a day. So...you might get a response from me in oh....3 months or so after you send the email since thats all AdultFriendFinder allows unless you've paid the extra for me to contact you. But thats a subject up for debate all on its own. However, if the email is polite and kind, I make sure to send a reply

Good luck!


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