fear...  

jewel_of_janus 48F
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7/25/2006 12:28 pm

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7/25/2006 12:37 pm

fear...


though i enjoy fear play (ever have an experience with a violet wand when you've never seen or felt the affects of its beautiful arches? fear is only one of the many emotions you will feel...lol)
i don't believe living each day in fear of loosing what is precious to you counts...
i would love to see couples that are on here contact me... i would love to know, out of those couples how many on one side or the other, are doing this for their partner solely, not because they are in need of another partner, but because they want to please the one they are with... or because they are afraid that if they don't they will lose the partner in the end...
now, i ask this, not because i haven't swapped out partners before (because i have), not because i haven't had a threesome (because i have)... but purely out of curiousity... Human nature is amazing to me... our needs, our desires, our wants... what happens when what we thought we needed rips us apart? or what happens when we get what we needed, and find that we truly like it, is it enough or do we want more? is it a matter of self worth? or the opposite?
the psychological community has their own views and trust me, i've never seen them the way they do... most think i'm crazy because i don't fit the "mold"... i have a Master... i just find it fascinating to see how our individualistic minds work...
jewel
ps... it would be interesting to see how many couples are swinging vanilla vs D/s...
it would be interesting to see the age range...
it would be interesting to see who is the needing partner and who is the partner that is supporting the need... if both partners are in need... or is it that both partners enjoy adding for their own pleasures together...
call me the residential psychological geek... i'm good with it...

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