Grrrr MEN!!!!!  

jessie2107 47F
51 posts
8/28/2005 10:30 am

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Grrrr MEN!!!!!

To my friend Cryztal, thanks for making me see and feel and be strong again!

Why do men have to father women? Why do they insist on treating us like children? Are we so *immature and unintelligent* that men have become the superior race, in their minds, and feel the need to control us? When a man has been proven to be wrong, why does he find it impossible to say *I'm sorry*.
Ladies, I don't know about you but I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I refuse to be pushed around and bullied any longer. I am more than that and I will NOT be treated that way any longer! I am just as good (if not better) than men. I am smart! I am STRONG. I am RELIABLE. I am LOVEAVBLE. And most of all, I am WORTH SOMETHING!
So, to all you men out there, if you think you are going to boss me and bully me, push me where i shouldn't be pushed and treat me as a doormat, you have another think comming. I am a woman. A very special person. Whether you think so or not and I don't give a damn what you think. I am worth IT!

rm_SweetCadet 29
31 posts
8/28/2005 10:46 am

I HEAR YA GIRL!!!!!......LOL....i just beat their ass if they start acting like that lol.

wannaplay826 36M
16 posts
8/28/2005 10:47 am

Uhh, not all men are like that. It think thats called chauvinist, sometimes used in the sentence 'misogynistic, chauvinist pig'.

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
8/28/2005 10:57 am

Sorry for your experience but not all men bully or dominate women. Try not to generalize based on a limited sample. You need to date a more evolved group of males.

rm_jacexprime2 39M
67 posts
8/28/2005 11:12 am

Don't let the assholes get you down. Some guys are just like that. It's unavoidable, for some stupid reason. I blame society, upbringing, media influence, and everything else that contributes to the majority of guys being domineering asshats. Upbringing probably being one of the major factors. It sucks. Just be yourself, and if guys don't like it, tough shit for them, right? Just watch out that you don't develop a superiority complex, because that will make things worse. I had that problem for a while, towards men. I think I still do, in a way, but I can put it in perspective, and realize that I'm really not BETTER than anyone else, I'm just a better person in how I treat other people. *shrug* Not sure if that made sense or if it helped or if you're going to throw rocks at my head, but I just thought I'd throw that out there. Like I said, don't let the jerks get you down. There ARE nicer guys out there, they just like to hide a lot.

rm_Impinside 48M

8/28/2005 11:20 am

Good for you! Unfortunately there are way to many jerks out there giving the male of the species a bad name. Not all of us consider ourselves superior. In fact, there are some, no matter how rare, who think women are truly amazing creations. Let's face it, women have to be amazing, they bear children, rear children, try to hold down a job and be a mom, and so much more. They are versatile, intelligent, caring, strong, and sexy. It truly sucks that so many males out there cannot handle the facts. Hope you find one of the rare and god kind out there.

Cryztal 54F
416 posts
8/28/2005 11:34 am

Hear Hear Jessie!!! WTG! It's about time all us woman stood up for what we know is right.

Cryztal xx

MillsShipsGayly 51M

8/28/2005 12:25 pm

Helen Reddy wrote a song about this 30 years ago I think....

bigcatfishing 47M
1 post
8/28/2005 12:58 pm

im glad ur standing up foryorself kills me see so many pretty women out there being treated like a pile of dog crap..and they put up with it thats something ill never understand.

midnightlover007 48M
26 posts
8/28/2005 1:03 pm


madkitten 53F
291 posts
8/28/2005 1:07 pm

Round of applause. You are very WORTH IT, we all are.

MisterPriapus 56M
6980 posts
8/28/2005 1:18 pm

OK, with the caveat of the last line on your post still ringing in my ears, I'll try to keep this uncharacteristically short.

I won't bother going into evolutionary and societal standards of male behavior, the Nature and Nurture aspects of our (Men's) programming- it's all out there for those interested enough to look it up. Suffice to say, we are hardwired to some extent to be territorial and protective of that "territory."

The problem is that many women like to be babied, at least occasionally, men are encouraged to engage in, for lack of a better term, "Daddying" behavior. I know that this was something I had to learn during a string of relationships where that was expected of me to varying degrees.

I find that to be awkward: I prefer to treat people, regardless of gender, as I want to be treated, which is as a competent adult (Whether I actually am is another issue...). As I'll play most requests, I'd go along with it, figuring the rewards outweighed the minor discomfort.

So there you have it- you may have been sabotaged by members of your own gender. On the other hand, there are an awful lot of assholes out there...


Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



vtone_108 52M

8/28/2005 1:54 pm

To all the Ladies out there: Stand your "Woman". Guard your heard. It's worth it! At the end its all giving and receiving.

spinmedown 49M
3626 posts
8/28/2005 2:44 pm

I understand the attitude. I really do. My exgirlfriend had the same attitde times ten. That is why she insisted on getting the transmission in her car fixed by a shop in Douglasville even though she lives in Athens (6 hour round trip to pick it up when ready, and I won't say how much the towing bill was- Thanks for the postcard from Hawaii if your reading this Jimmy Joe. I'm glad we could help you and the familly have some fun.) Then she insisted on telling her boss what she 'really' thought about her job in her evaluation. This is after her boss told her she was doing a great job, and they loved her. This might not be so bad (Done it a time or two myself.), but she had just closed a house three blocks from where she 'used to' work. These are just the highlights of the many things I tried to counsel her against to no avail. Many futile and frustating hours were wasted. All avenues of reason were exhausted. I finally burned out after two years of it, and that is why I ended it. I guess sometimes we really are trying to be a pain in your ass, and sometimes we really are just trying to save it. You all seem very smart. Good luck figuring out which one we are trying to do.

Most people are other people... FUCKING CHARACTER LIMIT!!! ~Oscar Wilde

sinenomine572 64M
11 posts
8/29/2005 4:25 pm

JESS --- you are solid gold and there are very few indeed who could hold a candle to you. Your detractors (whoever they are, for you sadly don't name them) are a bunch of crap. You are a most remarkable, admirable and lovely Friend. AND WE NEED YOU !!!

eroticwildthing1 49F

8/30/2005 6:06 am

high fives to ya jessie , for to long men have dominated women and made us feel like we belong in the dog house ,that we are the weaker sex insignificant . headz up guys *sisters are doing it for themselves we stand on our own to feet* women have been liberated freedom of speech is ourz ,caveman era is gone extinct with the dinosaurs... we are not ur door mats or punching bags we have self worth, we are priceless and idividually is ours we have a voice n will be heard . egotistical men who like to bully and intimidate get thiers in the end * i firmly beleive in the saying what goes around comes around *.. hugzz to jessie whom i love n value as a friend keep ur head high hun !!!! you are a *bright shinning star *

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