Two types of women......  

jdocfunguy 50M
38 posts
4/22/2006 9:17 am

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Two types of women......


I'm noticing that women come in two flavors; those that want to attract guys using the possibility of having sex in the near future and those that want to attract guys that can 'stimulate their mind' and then the body will follow. The second group is interesting in that they present this challenge as if it is a higher calling. As if guys are all just horny, and that by being horny, they are not capable of intelligent thoughts or conversation. I guess my question is this: Is it more noble to pursue the friends first, fuck later scenario than to fuck first and then become friends? Is the second case technically impossible?

rm_CuummDrop 48F
2591 posts
4/22/2006 9:38 am

Friends first... fuck later.. i always say.. that way,,, there's something to talk about,, after a good fuck..

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


digdug41 49M

4/22/2006 10:05 am

I have found that the ones doin all the fucking first dont write too many blogs and they are few and far between about their trysts then you have whati like the sensual women who are searching for a compatible fuck buddy but dont braodcast their adventures so yeah I feel ya good post

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jdocfunguy 50M

4/22/2006 8:17 pm

elle4u - I think actions speak louder than words, and concerning sex, physical expressions mean more than verbal ones. Am I too elementary or just not very trusting?

cd - good to hear from you. I guess your friends are all good conversationalist then???

virtualgirl and digdug41 - But what if I find both women with brains and women without brains attractive? Can I appeal to both groups?


clitalicious67 49F

4/23/2006 7:55 am

you know if he is just horny and you fuck first it is probably the first and the last...it becomes a conquest thing...

friends first...in my book...the sexual is always much more intense that way...


jdocfunguy 50M

4/23/2006 5:43 pm

clita - Yes, the conquest thing is an issue. Men are conditioned to be competitive and I guess it spills over into other areas. Never been very competitive and I think it's seen as a character flaw. As far as intensity, I assume that you expect that if it's higher it will result in reoccurring episodes. Many very intense encounters. I guess if you're friends, then the relationship should continue even if the flame cools.


rm_CuummDrop 48F
2591 posts
4/23/2006 9:01 pm

    Quoting jdocfunguy:
    clita - Yes, the conquest thing is an issue. Men are conditioned to be competitive and I guess it spills over into other areas. Never been very competitive and I think it's seen as a character flaw. As far as intensity, I assume that you expect that if it's higher it will result in reoccurring episodes. Many very intense encounters. I guess if you're friends, then the relationship should continue even if the flame cools.
"Then the relationship should continue even if the flame cools"... My exact sentiments!!! But then their that keyword... "Should"... not so many do Darreyl.. the Fuck n' Run syndrome... Just to let you know.. i ain't like that...

Now won't last forever, so use it wisely~c


jdocfunguy 50M

4/24/2006 12:18 am

cd - good catch. I debated should vs. will when I wrote it.


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