What I found out will scare you!!!!!  

jd29992z 54M
1308 posts
7/5/2006 8:18 pm

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8/20/2006 7:17 pm

What I found out will scare you!!!!!

Take a look at that picture would you feel comfortable if this man was allowed to watch your kid? That’s funny my EX is very comfortable this is her boy friend! Here is the story of the past few days and what I have learned.

This is the lay out Barb’s home is on the East side of the street on the corner. Directly across form her house across the street is a duplex where the state houses mentally challenged people next to the duplex to the North is a church. Directly behind the church is where my cousin lives. That was my base where I parked the rental mini van.

I started my surveillance at about 21:00 or 9 PM and continued to watch the house until 05:00 in the morning there was activity until 04:00. I spent two days on my belly crawling underneath Evergreen trees with low ground touching branches.

After the second night I saw enough I could not neither confirm or deny and drug activity for the local law enforcement but I have my suspicions. After talking to the Sheriff he told me that I could take the children who were staying at me parents house for the holiday with their cousins.

So I took the children and started my way back to Florida. After talking to three lawyers ho al told me that I would be the one going to jail I turned around with a VERY heavy heart and took them back to my parents house and came back home.

I may have lost this battle but the war is just starting and I did find out some important information so EVERYONE READ AND UNDERSTAND THIS!

Lets say Charles Manson gets paroled today and your EX, or even your husband or wife invites him into their home or even your home (if their name is on the deed) there is legally NOTHING you can do about it! Until after he hurts, or kills someone. In the eyes of the court you cannot predigest someone because of their past. Their past dose not prove that they will do anything wrong in the present or future.

So in other words the courts give ALL the benefit of the doubt to the criminal and none to the safety of the children! It’s like this if you were standing on the sidewalk and your child was just off the curb in the street and a bus was heading right for them the courts are holding your hand behind your back not letting you help telling you, “Well the bus could stop, it could swerve in the last second, or it could miss them entirely. There is nothing you can do until after the bus runs over your child.” Hmmm a little too late don’t you think?

When I got home I call the EX and talked to her and she denies that he is living there and he is just a friend that stops by every once in a while. She dose not know I was there at all and I did not confront her with it because I want to keep the surveillance option open for the future. I am hoping that I can see drug activity and get both of them arrested. That is my only way to get my kids and even then the courts my give the kids back to her.

Dads have no rights in this world in the eyes of the courts we are only walking ATM machines for our EX’s. I have NEVER felt so powerless in my life I have to sit back and wait for something bad to happen before I can do anything and then the kids may be scared for life or dead. How did we get to this as a society? Why can’t the courts use common sense to make a judgment and not a blanket and give the kids aromatically to the mother. Yes I can petition the courts that would take months even years and then it would be too late.

I am researching every thing I can do looking for any loop hole I will not give up it is an up hill battle but I love those two little girls more then LIFE itself. The pain I felt when I was on my belly in the pine needles was a joy. The pain I feel in my heart right now is intense.

My heart is heavy but my will is strong pray for my kids to what ever God you believe in there has to be a way. Read on these are the notes I kept for one day while I watched them.

1810 White car in front of house looks like a small import could not get number. Drive around town wait for dark.

1820 Car still there drive around tow wait for dark

1909 White car gone.

2000 Dark blue newer small pick up truck with snap on cover on bed. Looks like a GM model not sure no number yet. Older man out side talking on cell phone blue bandana and long white beard. Waite for dark parked in Scott’s alley.

2125 White blazer pulls up two men mid 20s. work around trees to get a look.

2130 No plate on blazer can not see plate on pick up/ 2 other guys ust be from blur truck all in mid 20s average build all around 6’ tall. Older man not seen must hav left.

2230 drive by house try to get number people out side could not get plate number.

2300 blue truck 16-2099.two men leave in truck.

2305 guy takes off on bike.

2307 Barb and two guys inside house one guy white and blue base ball cap white shirt with blue stripes blue shorts. mid 20’s tall clean shaven.

2327 Barb and one man white shirt leave in Barb’s car travel south..

2335 returned two men get out whit shirt and man in yellow shirt with white stripes down the sleves could not get a good look at face notice that both the garage door and the house door in the garage is locked. Never seen that unless we went out for the day not for a few minuets.

2400 two guys on porch talking on cell phones.

0012 Barb cooking with white shirt watching both talking.

0125 Barb hugging and kissing man in yellow shirt positive ID as Gene Johnson

0130 Still kissing and grouping.

0205 Gene outside on porch talking on cell phone.

0220 Gene sitting in chair on porch.

0230 Gene still on porch Barb washing dishes.

0245 Gene and white shirt outside Gene sits in chair white shirt paces back and forth.

0259 Gene and white shirt sitting on porch,

0300 Same as above.

0320 Same as above.

0335 Same as above.

0335 Call sheriff’s office with update.

0347 Same as above.

0352 Both men go inside via the garage door.

0400 Gene opens garage door checks battery charger on Blazer closes door and turns off light.

NOTE There is some sort of electronic device on the kitchen counter could be a police scanner tried to verify all night not 100% sure

0422 No activity in house or outside.

Oh by the way the guy in the white shirt is his son also a known user and dealer.

jd29992z 54M
3888 posts
7/5/2006 8:37 pm

BTW he is out on bail pending trial for possession of methanphedamins with intent to distribute

mycin62 54F

7/6/2006 2:29 am

OMG, this is soooooooo FUCKED up!!!

Good luck in your search for evidence and your search in a way to get those kids out of there!!!

I'll be praying for you

jd29992z replies on 7/7/2006 5:53 pm:
It is going to be an up hill battle but i am ready to fight I don't care about me it is all a labor of love thanks for your supportLater JD

champagnechaser 41F
1639 posts
7/6/2006 5:15 am

It's an incredibly tough situation, i feel for ya.
Good luck

jd29992z replies on 7/7/2006 6:03 pm:
Thanks girl it is tough but I am tougher I will fight the good fight and I will win I have faith in me right now it looks really bad. Thanks for the support I will see you in Aug. I need a few days for me you can give me a hug then if you like hehehe later girl Jim

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
7/6/2006 7:06 am

Hopefully, he will end up in jail and that will solve part of the problem. Absent being in the house you'll not likely get confirmation on the drugs. Is there any law against your making surprise visits. Parent do that with day care - they make spot checks. Can you just drive out, knock on the door and walk on in when they answer the door and then call the cops if you see drugs being used or out at all? Maybe the police would be willing to be present for that??? Can you hire a private detective to film activity, take pictures, etc.? I don't know what to suggest. The laws really are crazy and I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You're in my thoughts sweetie. Big hugs and kisses to you. Whisper...

jd29992z replies on 7/7/2006 6:08 pm:
The laws are crazy it is like hmmm sould we give the kids to the dad he has a great job an nice guy loves his kids hmmmmm no lests give the kids to the meth heads. It is out of control. I am thinking about a PI and I can't go in the house my name is not on the deed anymore. This is the most frustrated I have ever been in my life. Right now the kids are safe with my brother and sister in law but that would last forever. then child welfare I will fight to the end thanks for your support. Later JD

rm_goddess1946 105F
13518 posts
7/6/2006 11:16 am

I am so sorry that you and your family has to go through this
right now and yet I'm confident that you will remain RIGHT ON
TOP OF WHAT YOU HAVE TO BE ON TOP OF to take care of what needs
to be taken care of...first and formost, your children!

and now.. I got a question for ya!
I'm thinking about making the pic on this post my new profile pic... what do you think? ? ?

[post 415405]

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

jd29992z replies on 7/6/2006 11:55 am:
Thanks for making me laugh hun I think if you put that on your profile not too many goony guys would be bothering you anymore. Thanks for your support the kids are with my brother now while I get ready to go to work I am gettng ready to see an lawyer right now and start the ball rolling. Later JD


7/6/2006 6:33 pm

wow.. I'm so sorry to hear this.. I Have been in this situation and its sooo tuff..
I'm also worried about your safty as well.. these are drug dealers ! Please be careful.. I would also contact the children and family assc. they would love to see the pic's and know that you have contacted police.. it can help build up a case.. plus.. talk to the teachers.. talk to everyone.. most of all your your ex.. make frequent calls to remind her your still around.. let her know your talking... ok Ill stop typing

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jd29992z replies on 7/7/2006 7:03 pm:
Oh Mrs Muff I am an old Marine and I am heavily armed and there is nothing more I would love then for that meth head asshole to try anything with me problem would be solved like any bully when you push back they run but he would not be able to run far. My brother and sister in law have the kids now when she asks for them back that is when Child protection comes in. Well all this meth and the guy just started a few months ago after school was out. The local law enforcement know all about it I have been working with them too. Thank you for being concerned there are so many cool people here that really care thank you so much it means a lot to me later girl JD

mm0206 68F
7767 posts
7/6/2006 8:56 pm

I know it is expensive ... but you need a private investigator...what you are seeing needs to be documented by a 3rd party.
I would contact CPS and make them aware of what kind of people your children are being exposed to...
take care ...

jd29992z replies on 7/7/2006 7:11 pm:
I am thinking about a PI just to go there for a few hours at the right time and day to log everything that is going on too. And my brother and his wife have the kids now when she asks for them back that is when we send in the child protection people. I am hoping that she is so messed up that I can buy her out. Sad when you think about it a mother selling her children for a few dollars even if it is $50,000 still just a few dollars to me it is only money I do get paid well but money is not what drives me shhhhhh don't tell that to my boss! Thank you for your concern I will win I am in the right and I do love those little kids sooooo much thank you later JD.

Steel_Legs 58M/F

7/7/2006 11:45 pm

JD - This might be the longest comment in the history of your blog. PLEASE MAKE THE TIME TO READ IT AND GIVE IT REAL CONSIDERATION!

Your children are in peril. You know this and I'm sure every fiber of your being wants to wake up that Marine inside you, then kick ass and take names. And that's exactly the action I recommend you take.

Meth dealers are not notoriously bright people. In fact, they are plain dumb. Dumber than a mud fence. Dumber than a bag of hammers. Dumber than a - you get the point.

Follow the dirtbag for a few days and learn where he goes and when. Select a location where you can confront him in a relatively secluded area. Or, pick an area with a lot of people, (Wall Mart parking lot, multi-plex, etc.). If you act with extreme force and surprise, you can force him into his vehicle in no time flat. Is it likely he is going to scream for help?

Once in the car, use the method of information extraction with which you are most proficient and go to work. He will have drugs, paraphernalia, unexplainable cash, or all of them in the car with him. This is not a guess, it's a fact. Like I said, meth dealers are really, cosmically stupid. Plus they are paranoid and just know that everyone is out to steel their stash, so they must keep it with them at all times.

Once you have the evidence, drive to the largest local news channel's broadcasting offices. When you get there, call the station from your cell phone and inform them of the "story" that is unfolding in their parking lot. Set up an impromptu press conference. Tell your story, and show the evidence. The "evidence" will obviously never hold up in court, but that is not important. Let the reporters know that you understand and agree that what you have done is very illegal and that you will surrender, peacefully to law enforcement, upon completion of your press conference.

Be calm in your demeanor and righteously passionate in your cause, which is completely about the safety of your children. Have pictures of your children with you for the press, they will paste the pictures into their broadcasts, showing your children's innocence and vulnerability.

Something else, don't forget this; you will need to disable this piece of human garbage, before you arrive at the news station. Two reasons, first - you cannot afford to be struggling with him during your press conference, (that could make you look bad), second - you need to make sure that in case of the worst possible scenario, the police arrest you, let him go and he decides to take it out on your children. You will rest easier for the 1-3 days you spend in jail (oh yea, you're going to go to jail when this is over) knowing that dipshit is physically unable to harm your kids. Also, you need to arrange for protection for your kids until this blows over. Bet you have Marice buddies who would gladly help out.

As for the method employed to disable the rat bastard, I would recommend a heavy dose of sedative, either before or after you break both of his legs, above and below the knee. Later at the news conference, to the all important cameras, he will appear unconscious, but unhurt. By the time he can tell anyone that you broke his legs, your story will be national news and the public will be amazed that you didn't just kill him. He will find no sympathy aside from the loony left and their mouthpiece, the ACLU.

This course of action is not without risks. You will no doubt be arrested, but you will never, ever - be tried. The scumbag might have the resources necessary to go after you in civil court, and with the way the law is today, you might just lose. Compare the financial pain of that loss with the very idea of the harm to, (or god forbid loss of) one or both of your children. Are you seeing the big picture now? JD - go do what needs to be done, and Godspeed!


lustcurious42 56F

7/8/2006 10:23 pm

I wish I could say something to help and I'm not sure what advice to offer. There are attorneys that can act fast and are somewhat reasonable. I used one here to get third party custody of my nieces when my sister was on meth. Make some calls........my thoughts are with you. Regardless, I agree with calling CPS and ask for resources for yourself, ok?

jd29992z replies on 7/9/2006 7:07 am:
Thank you for writing. When you ot custody of your nieces how did you prove that the mom was on meth? That is where I am at now if I can prove it. And I will call CPS when the kids are back in her house they are with my brother. Thanks everyone is so cool here I will start to write more stories soon I need to it is good therapy for my brain. Later girl JD

HBowt2 58F

7/9/2006 12:10 pm

take care of you in this...if something happens to you who will watch out for your girls...

jd29992z replies on 7/13/2006 10:03 pm:
I am an old Marine he is an old crack head nothing to worry about. I do have the kids now and I am ready for anything. I did tell the X over 39 hours ago and she has not called to talk to the kids yet. So sad don't you think? I love them and will be there for them I am a DAD and very proud of it. Hope they come here I am ready!!!!! later girl JD

clitalicious67 49F

7/9/2006 6:16 pm

Babe I wish you all the luck in the world...the court system, in my opinion, is not set up to protect children like it should...hugs


jd29992z replies on 7/13/2006 10:28 pm:
The kids should come first. I do have the kids now but it would not take much for her to get them back but I talked to her about 30 hours ago and she said she would call back to talk to the kids hmmmm no call yet. Thanks for the hug I needed that JD

newtothis702207 55F

7/9/2006 7:31 pm

I have no possible words of advise or comfort -- other than I and many others here are praying for and with you JD. Godspeed!


jd29992z replies on 7/13/2006 10:33 pm:
Thanks I have my kids now for at least the time being. I talked to her about 30 hours ago and she said she would call back to talk to the kids and still no call she can have her dope I will have the kids they are real love and I will keep up the fight thanks girl JD

__Huntress__ 55M/57F

8/16/2006 3:35 am

I work in family law and specialize in custody and protection from abuse matters, I would love to know how you made out with this ... I can't tell you how disturbing this is to me ...


jd29992z replies on 8/16/2006 10:14 am:
Yes it is very disturbing. I will let you know how it plays out. What the child welfare lady told me first get them out of there then worry about the reast later. Thanks girl JD

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