Our first mistake  

jazzed4it 43M/55F
7 posts
8/18/2005 8:24 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Our first mistake

Ut oh...well the spouse was going through all the different profiles last night. He found a pretty lady he wanted to e-mail. She answered today stating that Hey, I didn't wink at you, I am not in to Bi anything..so why did you write? Well let's see....you state clearly in your profile that you are looking for couples...duhhhh..sorry for the e-mail. whoops.

This is supposed to be a fun time for the spouse and me. We are a happy couple that has been together for a while and want to experience new and exciting things in and out of the bedroom. Fantasies are great...but I want to put them in to action.

stache33 61M
1 post
8/18/2005 10:26 am

SAD.............. maybe we can get together in the future. drink, dinner, beach and whatever!

Better luck in your next Email keep looking!!

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/19/2005 11:34 am

I remember the day I first joined this thing, years ago. Before blogs, before 9/11.. Ancient history? LOL! First off, I thought that if I put a nice profile and pictures out there, women and/or couples would write to me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's like saying a woman will hit on a man in a sausage fest bar when it's 2:00 am and there are 75 guys and 1 woman left.

Then, I thought, if I do some selective searching and find a woman that exactly matches me, i.e., what she is looking for and what I'm looking for are SO perfectly matched, that she'll write back. WRONG! Then I got depressed, thinking I wasted my money.

Moral of the story? Don't believe much you read here in profiles. Sure, some people (like me lol) are on the up and up. But most women on here are just fulfilling fantasies and getting attention and jerking folks around. Sorry gals, it's true.

Have a lot of patience. Write a lot of emails to a lot of people. Expect that most will not reply. When they do, don't expect to meet them. If you do, don't expect to hit it off. If you do, then you've done it!

Having said that (as my Brit friends say), it IS possible to meet wonderful, sexy, hot fun friends here. It just takes a lot of work.

Best of luck!

Like2LickNScrew 54M

8/20/2005 5:28 am

I've been on this site for a little over a year and I've found that many on the site or not what they say they are... I've had a chance to meet few people from the site that were really good people... I've also had several who say they would meet and not show up... So be patience... I feel that a lot of the profiles are misleading... People say one thing in their profile and if you chat with them its a different story...

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