First date off this site.  

janmecir 53M
133 posts
9/14/2005 6:43 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

First date off this site.

Well….the cat’s waiting…but getting restless…..

I moved real fast tonight: a first contact leading to a first call leading to a first date ‒ tomorrow; a meet by the sea, at a beach hut cafĂ©, on the English Riveria. All within the space of about an hour.

It was an easy hook up, but nothing is going to be going on. I don’t expect much more than a nice chat between 2 sensible adults. I’d like it to be light and flirty, an erotic play on possibilities…..but somehow….I doubt it. We’ll see anyway….I might be beautifully surprised…….

This is my 1st date since joining this site 2 weeks ago; in the first days I was messaging local women who might be ringable and meetable ‒ but the response was slow. Ok, I get it: it’s cus there’s 20 men for every woman… the women are busy, inundated….can afford to be picky…an initial message means nothing much…..and maybe I don’t know what I’m pitching at here…..don’t quite understand the rules of engagement.

So in this 2nd week I start reading the blogs….20, 30 ‒ and suddenly this site opens up for me, becomes something warmer and wider, deeper and darker….more private, more personal….more intimate ….alive with Soul-Sex……

And I think these blogs are probably the reason I had to come on this site….so that I could see my imagination reflected in the minds of others……

I’m looking forward to my 1st date off this site. She’s bringing her floppy eared springer spaniel. I’ve got a feeling we’ll probably be drinking jasmine tea……



babelicious655 51F
2 posts
10/1/2005 5:04 pm

oh golly was this hope transferred into the bad date story that follows? Doesnt matter really though - have to have hope and bounce back. without it we are all lost...


janmecir 53M
158 posts
10/4/2005 7:44 am

babelicious: i'm not lost....just wish you'd get your act together and phone me.....oh well....onward and upward.....


babelicious655 51F
2 posts
10/4/2005 4:51 pm

I doubt that you are lost - if you have hope no one ever is. As for phoning you - it is not about getting my act together - it is about having a decent enough time to do it but I can tell patience is not one of your virtues....except when it comes to this blog lark!


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