Expectations  

jaimeOOO69 52F
278 posts
5/12/2006 6:38 am

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Expectations

A few weekends ago I went out to dinner and then a walk with a male member of this site. It was ok, but I felt no attraction for this man, but I didn't know much about him. A week or so went by and I had heard nothing from him until a few days ago. He said if it wasn't so populated in the park he would have tried something. I told him nothing would have happened, I didn't know him well enough. He stated "gotcha".
Do most people expect sex on the first meeting?
I don't, that isn't all that I am looking for and it is stated clearly on my profile. I want more than a few minutes of sex, or as a friend phrased it "two pumps and a squirt".
Sure if I was just looking for sex, I can easily find it. I want more. Make some friends, maybe find a playmate and lover. I like the people in my life to mean something to me and for I to mean something to them. People deserve respect and caring.
Sometimes I think I expect too much.


digdug41 49M

5/12/2006 7:46 am

hey you are doin it right whatsa matter with people these days I look at it like this the money thatsome pay for the upgrades can get them the pleasure they so seek if you want a connection then you need to do that it aint all about the little head sayin go head man get that some fella's are bugged out, I dont see it.

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rm_PeanutJackie 35F
1286 posts
5/12/2006 5:10 pm

You definitely aren't expecting too much jaime. Sounds to me like this guy was the one expecting too much. Unfortunately, that seems to be the case for a lot of the men on this site.

"I am beautiful no matter what you say, words can't bring me down. So don't you bring me down today."


irishtongue71 51M

5/14/2006 7:55 pm

Jaime...that's a shame.....I just filled out a survey on another site a gal came up with and one of the questions WAS whether or not I would expect sex on the first date. My answer was essentially no. Sex is very dependent on the right chemistry and attraction. I would by no means assume on the first date that it would happen, nor the second, nor the third, but if I were to feel, and so did she that that chemistry was there it would be incredible.

IT


SinsualIntellect 52M
31 posts
5/18/2006 4:09 am

Agreed, he was expecting too much.

BTW, if this shows up as veedoll, it's actually Sinsual. I'm testing a theory.


runzwithknives 59F

5/20/2006 2:48 pm

Most of the men I've met here do expect sex on the first meeting. All but one in fact.
Yes I want more and people do mean something to me. And it's now why I'm not even bothering....Hugs to you.


boredatnight3 49M

5/23/2006 12:25 am

Well according to knives, I'm the only one that doesn't expect sex on our first meeting. Maybe being raised by a single mother gave me some values other men don't have.
For what its worth, I respect you for your choice. I would have second thoughts about getting into a serious relationship with someone that just wanted to jump into the sack right away. Don't get me wrong though if the chemistry was there, I wouldn't lose respect for that either. I do believe in love at first sight. It just hasn't happened to me yet.
I would be willing to try one of your deserts on the first date though!


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