"It's All About the He Said She said Bull Shit"  

iwantyou8088 37M
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9/5/2006 6:47 am

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9/5/2006 7:44 am

"It's All About the He Said She said Bull Shit"


Why don't women say what they mean. Talking to a woman is like reading poetry, I have to break down every sentence to figure out what she is really saying and what she really wants. I have discovered a few subtle and not so subtle differences. When I am asked how my day went I usually respond with something like "not too bad." If you ask a woman she runs down her entire day. The problems she may have had that day she does not want you to solve. You are to listen to her and respond with sympathy and understanding. Men see a problem and seek to fix it so it is no longer a problem. If we ask another man for help it is because the solution may be so complicated or simple that we may not be able to see the solutions ourselves. I am sorry I want to fix your problem. Understand that guys don't usually talk about problems unless we want help solving them. I have improved my listening skill witch is hard to master.

Breathelessbimbo 49F

9/5/2006 7:12 am

Please dont generalise all women with the ones you have known as we are not all like that.

I could say all men are wife beaters but i know better.

Some of us women are straight to the point & men dont actually like that either lots of the time. It makes them uncomfortable.

Im sure you didnt mean to tar us all with the same brush did you?

if you did i shall have to have words with you mister.


freetime648 52F

9/5/2006 7:15 am

You have yet to meet me....my motto is simple:

SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And honestly, that gets me into trouble sometimes!


xx FREETIME648 xx


crazygurl2xx 56F

9/5/2006 7:21 am

Some of us women are straight to the point & men dont actually like that either lots of the time. It makes them uncomfortable. -- hell yeah that happens ALOT but oh, well, i leave those people in the dust.i say what i mean and mean what i say.

but i understand what this guy is saying too about how men are. it's just the way they are. accept it. it's one of the charming simplicities of men.


iwantyou8088 37M

9/5/2006 7:44 am

Thank you for your comments. I will not be naive and say all women are like this. Generally this is how things go. There will always be the exception to the rule.


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