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Blogs > itzchic824 > The Voices Inside

Random Observations  

itzchic824 37F
1215 posts
5/16/2015 4:37 pm

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8/8/2015 10:10 am
Random Observations

#1 - It's probably a good thing I get the most from actual penetration since oral does almost nothing for me except by the very rare guy who does something somehow. Plus even though guys say they love giving oral, most really don't. I'm ok as long as he can last awhile.

#2 - I've realized I crave the intimacy of sex just as much as the actual pleasure I get from sex. Without that closeness of knowing the guy (vs a stranger) it really isn't worth it. I need the intimacy. Which can happen with good friends.

#3 - Interesting how as I get older my must haves in partners have stretched and blew apart.
*When I was younger he absolutely had to be older than me and while I still prefer that I do find myself entertaining the notions of guys up to 3 years younger than me. Age doesn't equal experience, I'm a prime example. I don't really have much since my sex life has been next to nothing.
* He absolutely had to be at least 2 inches taller than me and again I prefer that but now I give guys my height a chance.
*I am still waffling with trying a taken guy whereas before I was completely against it.

#4 - People take cumming/orgasms for granted. Most people don't have much problems with it, especially guys, but me who has never had one and probably never will it's quite frustrating and sad. I am a pretty sexual person with the right guy but it seems I'm not meant to get the full experience of sex.

#5 - Most guys (people) don't want to put the effort into fwb, even when they say that's what they want. If I could drive I would gladly travel probably up to 4 hours away for a good fwb. Obviously it would only be once a month if he was more than 2 hours away, but I wouldn't mind. But I also love road<b> trips. </font></b>But guys just say I'm too far, even like an hour and a half away is too far.
They also don't like to talk much. Um hello, friends? Yeah they talk. Oh yeah and they hang out too before doing the horizontal mambo. I know, you're all gasping right? :\

Well that's all I got for today ladies and gents. Just some random observations that's been tumbling in my head.
I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!
travellerabc123 54M
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3989 posts
5/17/2015 1:41 pm

 I'm not sure how random they were, but I think it is good that you are being honest about yourself and what you are looking for and willing to accept.
Embrace the suck


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