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In Love
Posted:Jun 10, 2017 12:34 pm
Last Updated:Jan 18, 2018 11:47 am
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So what can i say ..... I am in Love with a great gal. What started off as just a casual meet up lead to us connecting and having great chemistry together. The best part was that she did not hold back ..... she told me all that was on her mind and she went straight to the point that she liked me. Ever since then i have been happy to be by her side. Who knows what crazy things we'll do next (if we come back to AdultFriendFinder or not) but i'll go ahead and say that we have been having lots of fun on our own. Last i want to say that no matter who you have encounters with just remember to be yourself and just maybe the person that you'll be meeting will be the next best thing
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Fakes? Flakes? ... or something else?
Posted:Jun 18, 2016 4:00 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2019 10:52 am
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This blog is something that i should have written about long ago ..... but after seeing a certain profile I am now urged to write this.

So, i guess it's common that there are some fake profiles on this site and that there are also others who could be flakes as well. But either way the ones that i've gotten messages from or got an IM message from have gotten my attention when they sent me a message, but that's just about as far as the exchange goes. And as of right now i'm still very questionable of one gal who will randomly email message me and won't respond for a month or two ..... but i'll wait it out and see what her next move is. Also her messages are the first 4 screenshots i've attached.

I've attached a few screen shots of some emails that i've gotten from others where i've received their message and of course i'll respond back. And a few of those are the ones that don't respond back. It really sucks when i get so excited to see another female email me and say something that will catch my attention, but who knows what their intention is when they do sent that message to me .... did they send the message to the wrong person .... did they just flake out .... or is it a fake profile the someone is pretending to be that person in the picture of the profile.

Then there are those who send me an IM message. And i sometimes wonder if they send the IM to the wrong person or if it's just AdultFriendFinder's IM not working well like it usually does. Either way, i have come across a handful of others that i call my chit chat buddies since they will message me on IM when i'm on or that they like chatting with me when i message them. But i'd say there has be two cases where i was chatting with another that we were gonna meet in a public location. Just a note that they did not have a profile pic and it was just a random persons that i met off the IM. So a time a place we set for a meet up in public ..... and i arrived on time at the correct location. I never got to meet that person which made me wonder if they flaked or if that person was not who they say they were.

But the one case that takes the whole cake is the one that really gave me high hopes of really meeting in person. And this is one person i know for sure that is real and nothing fake about her. But it started when i got a few notifications that she liked a few pics and liked a few of my videos. Then the really sign that she was interested in me was when she flirted with me .... and of course i had to send an email message to her. I've attached that message to the pics which should the the last pic. So we became AdultFriendFinder friends and we chatted a lot on the IM. I really thought things were going really well with her because of who much she keep liking my stuff and how much we chatted on the IM. Then we were planning on a meet up, so we had planned on a day ..... but she had to cancel due to work. Then came the day that i sent her an IM message ..... and it felt like any other day that i've chatted with her. We chatted a few and then bam .... never heard back from her again. And that's when i noticed as well that i was blocked ..... and i know this now because i am unable to send iM messages to her as well as email message. Also I am unable to view her profile. What sucks is that I felt like things were going great, that we were getting along and getting to know each other ..... I really had high hopes that we were gonna finally meet.

For those first few months i really bothered me that i was blocked from her. i feel like i had done something wrong to have made her block me from every contacting her. But now days i have gotten over that ..... and surprisingly i have seen a couples profile where she is now with someone. That's when i knew that i had to write this ..... and it's funny that i am still AdultFriendFinder friends with her. So as of today i am gonna unfriend her profile and finally move on.

Who knows what i'll run into in the coming months .... but from it i've learned to be more aware of giving too much trust to others and to not get too excited with it as well. That's up until i've actually met them. But in the mean time i'll hang around and try to find more friends who i can chat with .... play with ... meet with .... or all thee above









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Nerdy?
Posted:Jul 7, 2015 11:51 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 8:1 am
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What makes a person nerdy ..... am i nerdy .... maybe i just do nerdy things

Let's see, i know that i am good with mathematics and physics. Integrals, derivative, expectation value, polarization, time dilation ..... oops, nerding out a bit. Hell, i even do private math/physics tutor on the side just to keep my mind current with topics in basic mathematics all the way up to differential equations .... or even keeping up to date with topics like Newton's 3rd law all the way up to E&M (electromagnetism). It's funny knowing how everything makes more sense when you understand the physics behind it .... for example, i use basic kinematics to explain certain parkour movements.

Also i am still a gamer ..... weather it's video games or boardgames. Recently i had friends introduce me to a boardgames call Nunchkins, as well as another boardgames called Red Dragon Inn (drink up). But at heart I still am skilled with the controller. Whether it's an earlier system such as the NES or maybe a new system like the PS4/XboxOne ..... it's so addicting to pick up the controller and start mashing away on the buttons. Oh yeah, Rock Band 3's Pro Guitar is the most awesome controller i've every gotten my hands on ..... my favorite song to play with the Pro Guitar on R.B.3 is Slipknot's "Before I forget".

But now days I am really addicted to the PC game League of Legends (I main ADC). I have my friends to thank for getting me addicted to LoL, and it's funny that League is the first PC game that i have ever ever played. Hell i even got so addicted to League that i even cosplayed as a character from that game (Blood Moon Shen). Even at this past Phoenix ComiCon 2015 my Blood Moon Shen impressed a fellow leaguer that she game me a nice LoL keychain.

I'll even include that i enjoy a few anime shows/movies ...... but my favorite animes have to be Samurai Champloo and Cowboy Bebop. I guess i was not much a good reader, so I guess my favorite way to be distracted by something that's fantasy is anime. By the way, anime porn is funny as hell (how the hell can anyone find anime porn sexy). Also if anyone wants to watch decent anime show .... Attack On Titans is one to get into (can't wait to see if the action movie will be with it).

So who knows if i'm nerdy or not ...... i'll let you be the judge of that. Or maybe i did not include enough nerdiness in this blog. I think that's enough that i can talk about (that's on my mind).



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Parkour
Posted:May 26, 2015 12:39 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2015 5:41 am
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It's gonna be 5 year coming this August that i've been training in the ways of Parkour ..... and if you don't know what that is, then YouTube will be the best place to see Parkour in action

Before I started doing Parkour I always loved to run, since i did some cross country running in high school. But soon I started to realized that running was getting way to boring. Then one day I saw a shoe commercial (I forgot which brand shoe it was) where there were a few guys doing certain movements that I had never seen before. I was very inspired, but i had no idea what i had just seen. Then soon after I watch the 007 movie Casino Royal where the first chase scene involved the Parkour/Free Runner athlete Sebatien Foucan doing some actual Parkour movement. And i remember one part in the chase scene where Sebastien did one hell of a Kong Vault. So i started looking into Sebatien Foucan to see what it was that he did in the movie ... and that's how i found bout about Parkour.

So soon after i started YouTubing to see what i could do to try and learn Parkour on my own, and boy did i find a handful of tutorials on so many Parkour movements. Soon after i tried to manipulate the movements .... and was i learn each movement at a very very slow pace.

Then soon after i finally found a Parkour group that was very very close to where i lived, so i decided to join in on their fun and see what they had to offer. And was that the best decision that i had ever made, because I started learning new movements that i saw on the videos and wow was it such a great feeling to pull off those movements. And ever since then I have progressed so much more with Parkour.

To this day I am still learning new movements and gaining more knowledge about what my body is capable of. It's crazy that what i thought i could not do .... i can now do. And right now one of my favorite movements that i like doing is the dive rolls.

The whole world is a big playground, and even though we are growing up we still can have fun with what we have. So every now and then i'll venture out to parts of the city to try and look for new training spots to train at. Eventually training at the same location can get a little tiring and plain. Not only that it's great to have a good imagination to play with what environment that I see at hand .... and even better to train with other people who will probably see other ways of playing with the environment at hand as well.

So let me end by just saying that anything is possible ..... and when you train hard you will learn that you can push your body past limits that you thought you never had. Hell, i'm still surprising myself of what new things that i try to do .... and succeed at doing them. Till then I'm gonna keep training hard and work with what I have and with each environment i encounter with.





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Phoenix ComiCon 2015 coming soon
Posted:Apr 20, 2015 1:43 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2015 3:38 pm
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So I've attended the last two Phoenix ComiCons where I actually did Cosplaying. In the year 2013 my friend convinced me to go to Phoenix ComiCon ..... but along the way I got interested in cosplaying as well. 3 weeks before Phoenix ComiCon 2013 my 4 of my friends all decided to dress up as characters from the game League Of Legends ...... but it was already too late for me to try and cosplay as any of the characters from the game since i did just start playing it.

For 2013 I was trying to go with a Yoshamitsu type looking costume, and i was so proud of myself for doing it due to the fact that i just thought of the costume a week or week and a half away from the the date of the Con. What i did was I used a cardboard fiberglass material that would take on the Samurai armor that i was making. I'd say that there were 20 to 25 different pieces to the armor, but the most time consuming part was drilling holes on certain locations of the pieces so that i would be able to tie the the whole thing together with string. Funny thing about the stringing it all together is that I started string it all on the way to the Con when we were on the light rail. We got to the con and i still spend about and hour string it all together, and finally i was done. And that was my first ever cosplay outfit for any con.

Then came 2014, and this time i was gonna cosplay as a League of Legends character ..... the character is Blood Moon Shen. I wanted to cosplay this character due to the fact that his mask looks fucking sweet. And that's where the most difficult part of the costume was at ....... actually it was more of the horns that was difficult. What sucked about this was that i did not finish the mask until the last day of the con, but i still got people recognizing what character i was. the clothing part was not too difficult, but i do want to come back and retouch the closing part as well for this year's ConiCon

Now it's 2015, and i am so excited to try and get some new costumes to wear to this year's Phoenix ComiCon ......... and i sure do hope I finish it on time since i did work on my last two costumes at the last minute
But all i have to say is that cosplaying is quite a fun activity to do, and to actually bring to life a character that you really like at this con ..... hell you just might run into someone that could be cosplaying as your favorite character from a game or a movie or comic book

So i really encourage everyone to at least try and do someone fun for each of the Phoenix ComiCons ....... hell, you just might get addicted to it
I'll keep everyone posted about what my costume(s) will be this year ....... till then i'll see you next time.

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The swinger's club
Posted:Feb 19, 2015 4:10 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2016 12:57 am
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To start off the story i'd say that my first experience to the sexual lifestyle was just going to cam sites and just fooling around ...... and from doing that i kind of got past my shyness of getting a bit sexual. Then i felt that camming was just not enough, so i decided to looking into what else i could do for sexual fun ....... and that's when i found out that there were two swinger's club in the valley (Phoenix)

So I go and read reviews and find where each club is located at, but i was still very shy to go to the club. Instead i would just drive by each location and wonder "What is going on in there?". So after a few months of just driving by and staring at the club i finally worked up the courage and stopped by Club Encounters. I chose this one first because I felt more hidden in it's location.

As i start walking towards the door I got so nervous that I was kind of shaking just a little bit, but I still committed to enter the club. So i enter the club and I sit down just still surprised that i just entered a swinger's club, and at this moment I just felt like a lost wonder where i am at. Either this was a Friday or a Saturday night (since those are the usual days that it's busy) because there was quite a lot of people and couples there, and i had no idea what i am suppose to do. Too much was running through my head that i did not notice that there was the stairs that lead to the private rooms.

So i go upstairs and that's when I was kind of shocked to find that there were people having sex in some of the private rooms they had there. The one that really caught my attention was the orgy room. I'd say that there was at least 8 or maybe even 12 people having sex in the orgy room, and I watched some of the action through the window looking into the room. So i watch for a few minutes and decided to head back downstair since more people started crowding to watch the orgy room as well. So i got downstairs and sat right next to the pool table and watch a few different people play pool.

Since this was my first time I still was very shy and did not know what i was even doing at a swinger's club ...... and then the next two people come up to play pool and one of them was Ms S (i'll call her Ms S for now) and they played two game of pool. Then Ms S noticed me and asked if i wanted to play a game of pool, so i told her that i'll play as well as telling her that i was very bad at pool. So Ms S agreed to only play with one hand, so we played one round and I lost and then Ms S asked if i wanted to go play in a room ........ i hesitated for a moment due to my shyness, but i really thought hard and realized that this was leading towards some fun. So finally i got pasted my shyness and agreed to play with Ms S ....... and was it the best decision i made.

Of course me and Ms S had fun which made my first swinger's club experience feel very welcome ...... but i'm also glad that i met Ms S that night because she really noticed that i was shy and before we got to fooling around she talked to me and got me very very comfortable with her. Now that i think about it, i don't know if i would have broken out of my shyness without Ms S help.

Then there's Club Discretions ....... I finally decided to visit this the other club where the first thing i see is people outside smoking and chit chatting. My nervousness is not as bad as this time around that i don't have those small shakes like i had the first time i want to the other club ..... but i was still nervous being here as well, not know what to expect. But just like being at any other place i kept my distance and just sat there wonder what the hell i was even doing there. I know that it was a swinger's club, but I still have manners and don't just engage towards anyone there ...... I kind of just go with the flow of things. But the best part I liked was when i went outside to get a fresh breath of air.

Outside i felt more comfortable because this is where most of the other people were interacting in conversations with each other. So i got to interact with the others by joining in some of their conversations ....... and there are times that the conversations was so interacting that i almost forget that I am at a swinger's club. Once I've gotten to talk and get to know the other people at the club I felt way more comfortable going back inside and enjoying myself.

I already wrote a blog about "Sunday School Girl" ...... she was one of my favorite encounters at Club Discretions. But most of the time I like just going to the swinger's club just to hang out ........ there will be times that i have no other plans that I just want to go to either club and just chill there. sure there will be a few times that i'll have an encounter with others, again i like to go with the flow of things. But one of the best things that i've done to break out of my shyness is getting on the dance floor ...... if it wasn't for a certain person at Discretions for her DJ assistants i would not have gotten the courage to get on the dance floor. If you're ever at Club Discretions and you see someone doing some form of dancing ...... that just might be me out there.

I want to end by saying that I totally respect everyone's privacy and that I usually don't walk up to people and start engaging in conversation ....... when i'm at the club i usually engage in conversation outside. I guess there is a small bit of shyness in me that keeps me from walking up to a female or couple to start engaging in small talk, but all i know is the clubs have helped me get a glimpse of what the sexual swinging lifestyle is like, as well as not being so damn shy and nervous. Now i have enough confidence to sit back and watch people have sex or even go up to a female and complement them on their beauty. Gosh i sure hope this blog is not too crazy to ready or boring, but glad to have tell why i go to the swinger's club. Enough write ...... now i can go to bed
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Nervousness
Posted:Feb 2, 2015 11:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 8:1 am
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I don't know how many guys admit this ...... but i still get nervous when i meet and have fun with others. I still find myself new to all this stuff on AdultFriendFinder, but I am still learning as i go.

The one thing that i do like is to actually meet someone just for a meet and greet ........ I find it fun to actually just meet some one and just get to know them. It's so comforting to actually see if there is a connection between me and the person that i meet up with, and it's even more fulfilling when the other person is very interesting in me. Then i feel more confident and less nervous to spend time with whoever i meet, and i actually perform better.

I'll also say that i perform very very badly when i am nervous ....... and i hate myself when i do perform badly with a partner. And what i mean when i say performing badly, i mean not being able to last long enough

So this is just a warning to the next person that decides meet up with me and go straight to the action ...... there is a very very high probability that i'll perform bad due to my nervousness. I would really like to meet with up first and build up my confidence so that if things do lead to sexual action then i'll be less NERVOUS
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Sunday School Girl
Posted:Dec 20, 2014 11:54 am
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2019 10:53 am
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Just to let you know I'm not the best at writing stuff, so I apologize in advance of how sloppy my writing skills are when trying to read this. Enjoy ....

Just about a year ago i got to meet up with a girl who got the nickname "Sunday School Girl" (I'd prefer not to mention her real name just yet). But it all started when I was suppose to meet up with someone else (I'll call her Pink for now) in the Phoenix area (By the way, I'm in the Tempe area) & I thought to myself "I'll just spend sometime at club discretions while i wait for a reply from Pink" ......... So i go to the club on a Friday night were the night could either be a slow night or maybe a busy night, but when i get there it looked a bit slow. Once i got to the club i saw SundaySchoolGirl outside & from my point of view it looked to me that she was with two other guys (they were sitting right next to her) and so i go inside and see if much is happening ...... & it was quite dead.

As usual I start chatting with the workers at the club trying to find a way to kill the time & wait for a reply from Pink ....... & it is around this time that i see SundaySchoolGirl & the other two guys come inside and start playing pool. Of course I take a few peeks at her & see that she is very attractive ........ & I start saying to myself "Those two guys are very lucky to have a gal like that" (remember, I'm thinking to myself that one of the guys is her boyfriend or maybe even the hubby). So to keep from staring at her a lot I decide to head to the dance floor to put in some, let's call it, dance practice ......... so i go to the D.J. and request a song that would have a steady beat to "dance" to and sit at a table near the dance floor. So as i am waiting for the song that the D.J. was gonna play next ....... SundaySchoolGirl come to the table i'm at & start talking with me.

At this point I am very nervous and even more surprised that she came up to me ........ & I come to found out that this is her first time at the club. So we talk more and i come to find out that she is quite freaky little one, and she asked if she wanted to go into either rooms that the club has ....... & without hesitating I agree to her request. While we are in the room I tell her why i was at the club that night & she now knows that i was waiting for a reply from Pink, and i never did hear back from Pink that night ........ but instead I got to meet SundaySchoolGirl. Of course we have some fun in the room & i guess i made a good impression on her because she went to the club the next weekend & was asking about me ........ So i go the following weekend and she was there as well. And that was the start of our FWB

Now to explain the nickname SundaySchoolGirl, she always came dressed in an outfit that looked as if she was dressed to go to Sunday school ....... actually, now that i think about it, she never did dress in any sexy outfit when she went to the club. You could say that she looked so innocent wearing her outfits, but once you get to know her she is such a sex crazed gal (not that i see nothing wrong with that).

The last time I had fun with SundaySchoolGirl was new years eve, but within a few weeks later she told me that she was gonna give dating another try ......... so that ended our FWB. Now skip to 11 (almost 12) months later, Dec. 19th 2014, I go out to the club and come to find out from the workers there that SundaySchoolGirl visited the club about a month ago. Her latest dating experience did not go too well (were she is now single) & because of that she decide to have some fun at the club ....... & while she was there she was asking and talking about me. The workers there thought that we were still FWB because of the way she was talking about me, but I told them that i had not seen her since new years eve. This is why i am now writing a blog about her ........ she is quite a unique person who is very smart, truthful, speaks her mind, and very fun and very beautiful . At this moment i am waiting for a responds from SundaySchoolGirl (Hopefully she still has the same phone number) because I'm not gonna lie, i do miss hanging out with her, & hearing what the others said at the club she seems to miss hanging out me or probably having fun with me.
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