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Sexual attraction is a very personal and individualized thing. What turns you on in one person may very well turn you off in the next. For me, it's also very instinctual. I can look at someone's pic and be turned on (phew, I'm still drooling over those lips!) but some little thing in their profile or responses turns me off and vice versa, the profile might get me going but some tiny thing in a pic turns me off. That's just the way it is. It's not a negative reflection on you, nor, contrary to popular belief, is it a negative reflection on me.
And therein lies the issue. I am thirtydamnnine years old (more a state of mind than a number) I know what doesn't work for me. Trust me, I know. I can tell by looking at your pic, I can tell by looking at your profile. I know. You're not going to convince me otherwise. Really, you're not. The only thing you're going to convince me to do is put you on block. Take that energy you were going to put into typing up that message telling me I'm probably fat and ugly anyway (not to mention the racist slurs) and put it into looking for someone who is turned on by you.
Come on....disrespect is hardly a turn on....unless you're into that kind of thing. I'm not.