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inky1969 47M
10 posts
4/11/2006 5:18 pm

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4/21/2006 5:51 pm

Hello and welcome

OK, so I'm new to AdultFriendFinder and new to blogging.

I'll open with a very brief run down of why I'm here and, no doubt, end up rambling and waffling as time goes on.

So here goes with the brief rundown:
I'm 36, married, two kids. Love my wife to bits and have for the full 19+ years we've been together. BUT, you guessed it, the spark has gone from our love life to the point of virtual non-existence.

I'm here, first of all, to talk to others and already have the double edged relief of knowing I'm not the only one. This just from scanning a few bios, forums and blogs around here. No doubt as I settle in I'll talk to more people in the same situation.

I need to see if I really do want to look elsewhere and reckoned this was as good a place as any to start and probably a damn site safer than the Bigg Market on a Saturday night!

So, in short, a voyage of self discovery. For now, at least. As time and opportunity arise, I'l lexpand on the topics above (and more, I'm sure). For now, au revoir.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
4/11/2006 6:09 pm


tucsonletsplay 58M

4/11/2006 6:09 pm

Why am I here? This is what I ask myself every time I log on to AdultFriendFinder. I guess I'm looking for the fun and excitment that I used to have with my wife until a few years ago. Sometime it's like the flame has gone out completely. Maybe I'm looking to advice, or maybe some new adventure. Eitherway it helps pass the time when things are slow around here, and maybe I'll just realize how good I really do have it at home. Who knows.


onlyfive 68M

4/11/2006 6:41 pm

Welcome to cyber heaven.....or hell. The last 5 years of my marriage were without sex for me. Not sure about her. The last 3 years the entire relationship steadily went to hell. So we split. I'm happy; she's not.

We tried counseling but too late and not enough. My shrink helped me, hers didn't help her. My scenario might not be yours but there is hope.

Get both of your asses into counseling as soon as possible. Let the pros do their job if you want to save your marriage. There are things you can do together that will help; cheating is done alone and will not help.

If it's not going to work out, best to find out as soon as you can so you can get on with your lives. Good luck.

rm_1SweetBitch 55F
8575 posts
4/11/2006 6:42 pm

Welcome to blogland, enjoy your stay here

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

saddletrampsk 54F

4/11/2006 6:43 pm

your situation is so similar to mine..welcome to blogland and feel free to drop over to my blog for a beer..

rm_mb51122 39M/38F

4/11/2006 7:05 pm

Hey try this why not do this together would you want your partner looking without you probably not hey if you need that spark back try swinging but after 19+ years why ruin love by having an affair With life its hard at times to keep the fire going without a few drops of gasoline and maybe some stiff hard pieces of wood. Maybe not just for you but your partner as well give it a chance you wont regret it

inky1969 47M
5 posts
4/13/2006 3:54 pm

Thanks all for your warm welcomes.

mizzkitka: That's why I'm here. To discover new things.
tucsonletsplay: I've already learned I'm not the only one. As I said originally, a bittersweet pill.
onlyfive: I'm hoping like hell you are wrong
1sweetbitch: If I had legs like that, I'd not leave the house
mb51122: Erm, no. This may sound selfish but this is MY voyage of discovery.
lioness860: Insanity, I have already! Growth is another story.

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