i dont do it purposely  

ingenue29 41F
31 posts
6/19/2005 11:58 am

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6/22/2006 10:22 pm

i dont do it purposely

i have tried to make plans with a few. i have to cancelled on just about everybody.
i have a hectic schedule. i am married with a 2 year old son. they always come first.for those that do not have kids you will soon learn about the time you have and dont have..btw yes he is in the terrible two stage.
they will have a set schedule on all your boring nights home and the night you make plans is the night they dont want to sleep or feel well.
also when family calls i will cancell a date with an internet pal to help them.
i have learned not to really make plans but to say i will try and i make no promises.
i am posting this so YOU will know it is NOT YOU IT IS ME.
so many of you have heard this and think i am bullshitting.
im not!
i am not upset at the ones who have walked b/c that just helps me to know who really wants a friend and who wants a one night stand. BTW read another post of mine ..dear diary.....this is me. like me or leave me .i care as long as you care.
lisa**


rm_Smile_My_Way 59M
1519 posts
6/19/2005 5:52 pm

I know what you mean, it's hard to keep a promise with a family. And if both parties involve have famlies, it's even harder. Some people understand some don't. I do.


NeedNSumFun75 41M

6/20/2005 6:48 pm

Familia always comes first with me. I know how hard it is to set something up and have to cancel. Sometimes it's frustrating, but I think everyone can agree it can be worth it if you just have patience. Besides, what's the fun in not having a little anticipation...............right?


ingenue29 41F

6/23/2005 7:45 pm

smile and need please keep in touch.

lisa**


BROC817 44M

6/27/2005 9:42 am

YOU PROBLY SHOULD JOIN A GROUP IF YOU ALL READY HAVENT ......IM PATIENT SO CUM TALK WITH ME ON MY GROUP ....ITS CALLED ....CLEVELAND AREA LADIES ONLY.......


BROC817 44M

6/30/2005 12:39 am

ingenue29 hello and how are you??? thanks for your comments...im sure we will find whatwe are looking for...yeah and my profile sucked real bad so i up dated it...im new to all this...i also joined a new group called "looking for a relationship" maybe you can join in...


NeedNSumFun75 41M

7/2/2005 12:05 am

Lisa.....Keepin in touch is what it is all about. This way we can really get to know what the other is about. You know likes/dislikes. I hope we can meet sometime and just enjoy eachother's company. Whenever the timing is right. Bye hun.


BROC817 44M

7/14/2005 10:50 pm

hello baby girl its been awhile since i said hi....standard members get lil e-mail out......i run a new group and its doing good....
"looking for a relationship" i would love for you to join me there so we can finally chat together since we are so close......and that is 89 in madison.........so please join the group if only so we can talk a lil bit........thank you


naked4ucum4me 52M
18 posts
7/17/2005 11:24 pm

Just wanted to say hi and sorry to see you havent updated your blog in awhile. Guess to much going on in life which is quite understandable. TTYL


jerrythetoyman 52M

2/3/2006 7:10 am

good morning lisa, you can find me on line here or chatting usually in the mornings between 8:30 and 10:00. so many times i have looked for you and can never seem to find us online at same time. i'd like to swap emails at least with you. for 8 months now, i've been hoping to get a chance to meet you. i remember in the summer you gave me a cell phone number which i no longer have, spoke with you once for a second, you said it wasn't a good time, to call back. i tried calling back a few days later and the phone was no longer in service. oh well....., hope you have a good weekend, look for me monday morning, or leave me a message here, try to code in an email address. hope to hear from you soon, jerry.


ingenue29 41F

2/14/2006 1:55 pm

well here i am ..i am real slow with these blogs and such...i usually check emails and thats it..anyways if ya spelled our_ secrets backwards and added ameri tech dot net. i also have yeah who~ temptress29ingenue ttysoon


tech4food 53M

2/16/2006 2:06 pm

Well, everyone had to put family first. Good luck


BROC817 44M

2/23/2006 3:04 am

buttercup28292 BUTTERCUPS MEET AND GREET / BIRTHDAY BASH !!!

ok it will be held feb. 24th at the BLIND PIG on west 6th street in clevelands warehouse district !!! you guest of honor will be there around 9 pm....

OK IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS THEN THIS IS THE TIME TO ASK THEM !!!

Another great MEET AND GREAT for the members of the groups Looking For Friendships AND Akron Friends !!!


ingenue29 41F

2/25/2006 1:53 pm

i m getting a lil better about checking these altho i did miss the 24th ..... sorry i missed it. hope to hear about the next one.


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