On Third Party Intervention...  

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5/14/2006 1:40 pm

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On Third Party Intervention...


There is nothing worse than the whole idea of bringing someone into a relationship that has more or equal meaning than the person you are with. There is no such thing as, 'you have to understand he/she was there before you'. You would be telling your partner there is some kind of first come, first serve, philosophy involved in your life.
You are an important person because the partner you are with makes you feel important. Why spoil things for him/her or for yourself by even suggestion that there was someone who came to the dinner table when he/she wasn't around. Makes no sense.
If you want to be with someone else-go, just simply leave. Life is too short for head games and spite work.
In relationships, the partner is to be satisfied with the idea you were and are there forever as it was only a matter of time before you two met. There was never anyone else before him/her, at least, not in the mind of your partner.
Head games and mind games games can, and do, escalate into some form of 'one-up-manship'. Not healthy for the short or long term relationship. If necessary and given a choice between a lie and satisfying the needs of the heart-lie!

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