Sexy Coworkers  

indyfuncouple67 49M/45F
9 posts
5/31/2006 3:56 pm

Last Read:
6/5/2009 10:30 pm

Sexy Coworkers

I have coworkers that I would like to approach for fun, but do not know what to say or how to approach them. One is a gay female and the other is married, but she likes a different female coworker. I do not know if they have done anything yet. They are both unhappy in their marriages. We kid, but that is all they think it is. I did recently admit to the married one that I have been with women and that we swing. I also think it may be too risky until closer to when I am getting ready to quit(when I get in nursing school full time).

rm_curious9825 55M
26 posts
5/31/2006 4:41 pm

I say go for it (in a tasteful way of course)!

Mayday_Malone 47M
1 post
5/31/2006 4:44 pm

Just ask her is she would be interested in having a drink with you one night after work. You would definitely want to bring a subject of this nature up outside of the workplace. For one thing, you both would feel more comfortable after you loosened up with a drink. Plus, you never know how someone may react to such an offer. You may find yourself in the Human Resources office explaining why you have a sexual harrasment complaint filed against you. Just take things slow. You can usually tell by looking at a person's face and their gestures if they are attracted/interested in you. You never know, she may be wondering how to approach you.

rm_indypal006 54M
1 post
6/2/2006 10:25 am

Don't do it. (our opinion) Even if some fun comes of it in the short term, you never know how these people will feel about you in the future. The comment about finding yourself in HR is a wise one.

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

6/5/2006 9:40 pm

Ok, the way I figure it, you should be close to graduation. What happened?

Drop me a note on my blog so I'll know to return to yours.

Lady Bambi

indyfuncouple67 49M/45F
5 posts
6/6/2006 9:16 pm

I am not in the nursing program yet just doing pre reqs.

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

6/6/2006 11:40 pm

Dear Indy,

Mr. Bambi saw your picture - he says he would like to be the first one in your nursing program! But seriously, in my experience, getting involved - even on a casual basis - with a co-worker can create problems. Be careful!

Lady Bambi

PS. Thanks for visiting our blog.

indyfuncouple67 replies on 6/8/2006 12:55 am:
Lady Bambi, That is also my nic-bambi-and hubby is thumper. Our love handles for each other.

indyfuncouple67 49M/45F
5 posts
6/8/2006 12:56 am

Thanks,Mr BAmbi! Say ahh and u might get to meet a pussy! LOL!

rm_Plazur4U2 57M
6 posts
8/29/2011 1:51 am

Have you gotten into the nursing program yet? Taking classes at AU, BSU, or Ivy Tech? Like to chat some time. Look for Friendlyguy2008 on YIM.

Become a member to create a blog