Fascination with MILF Phenomena  

in2it2502 66M/53F
85 posts
2/17/2005 11:57 am

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Fascination with MILF Phenomena


I am really fascinated with the seemingly large group of young men seeking MILFS. I actually found a large Group (over 700) with the focus of their searches on MILFS!. What do you believe is the stimulus for these men. I appreciate comments from both male and female members.

I have been approached by many younger men over the past two years and I'm very curious why these men prefer older women to the woman their own age?

rm_stephenc1966 50M
34 posts
2/17/2005 12:12 pm

I'm not so young anymore, but I can say that I have always found women in their 40's/early 50's very attractive. I'm not sure why -- I think they have a certain elegance younger women are often missing, and perhaps a kind of self-confidence and comfort with who they are.


hotpapiNo1 40M

2/17/2005 12:27 pm

To answer your question about why young man approach older women.
From what I have heard and my personal expirience, older women tend to know how to really work it (experience) and on top of that older women (from 30 and up) tend to have this unsatifying hunger for sex (most are at their peak sexually).


godeep99x 48M

2/17/2005 12:33 pm

"I have been approached by many younger men over the past two years and I'm very curious why these men prefer older women to the woman their own age?"

After taking a peek at your profile, you shouldn't have to ask. I can say this much about the whole thing:

1. Women (generally speaking) take better care of themselves now as say 20 some years ago. We're about the same age & I can remember when women thought "4-0" was "O-VER". Not today. Women are more involved with fitness, careful with their diet, and take advantage of modern medicine. As a man, CO-Q10 (good for women as well) was really unknown until the last 5-10 years. There was a woman in my Pilate class a while back that was 50........& didn't look over 30-35. Some women don't think I'm 36?

2. A TON less drama as well. Women tend to be more set/secure in their ways once they hit 30. Young ladies tend not to be due to so many outside influences. The 20-somes may not have the total balance of someone 30 plus. FWIW (if you're a wrestling fan), Stone Cold Steve Austin's ex-wives have one thing in common. All were 5-10 years older than he was.

3. Look at women like Raquel Welch, Pam Greer, Diane Sawyer, and ladies of the like are over 50. Teri Hatcher, Sandra Bullock & Angela Bassett are in their 40's.

Maybe that's only a start.


tigermoonxxx 52M

2/17/2005 1:11 pm

I must say, I've always been surrounded by older women and have come to appreciate them for both their brains as well as their beauty. I guess it's just the positive reinforcements I've had from older women throughout my life that that makes them so appealing.


rm_stephenc1966 50M
34 posts
2/17/2005 1:31 pm

Well...I don't know about other 20-somethings, but I was. I don't know that I'm a good representation of the average male. But I also found when I was that age that there were 40-something women who liked younger men. I had a near-rendezvous with my boss when I was 19. She had rented a hotel room in a beautiful hotel where we would meet...but she got into a car accident on the way and her husband was called to the hospital and found all the things she had packed and we almost got caught...that scared me off a little, so I never did see her again...


sunshine02469 48M/46F

2/17/2005 2:25 pm

Well, let me start by saying ..you are probably right ...partially... about younger men just wanting to dip their wick! I am greg the male of this couple..btw..I would have to think that a part of the intrigue of an older woman is for one thing..they are less likely to want anything more from a younger man than a good hard fuck...please excuse my bluntness...I also have to think that anything that is naughty is hot to pretty much everyone..and what is naughtier than fucking someone that could be your mother's friend or possibly your friends mother?I also think that there is something sexy about making a woman squeal like she is having the time of her life when her life has had a few experiences ...if you can impress her then you have done something .Anyway I think the little boy in us all wants to please an older woman ...naturally! Face it , experience counts and if at 50 you still want to fuck then you must like to fuck !What more can you ask for than a not only willing partner, but an eager partner with lots of experience at being the dirty little slut every man seems to want?Please excuse me if I seem a little nasty...I'm a naughty boy...any ideas about what I deserve? wink wink...


nezlam 38M

2/17/2005 3:44 pm

Because older women don't play games. They know what they want and go for it


godeep99x 48M

2/17/2005 6:52 pm

" I believe they just look for a place to dip their wick!"

I guess that's not a bad thing either.


rm_stephenc1966 50M
34 posts
2/17/2005 7:24 pm

I may have had a dalliance with the edge, but I don't think I lived there! I had to teach a class tonight but I was thinking about the MILF topic on the drive to and from class...and some of the women I used to be infatuated with. I was kind of bookish when I was young (still am, I guess) and I also thought older women were more interesting. They had more interesting things to say. The other posts are true, too, I think. The games and emotions and other nonsense of being 18 years old was never appealing. Dinner, wine, talking about books or music and then real self-indulgent passion...what could be better than that?


KaKaKaKn 55M

2/17/2005 9:48 pm

For me, the appeal seems to surround the idea of the multiple roles that milf's have and have had. I always see them as having to be serious and responsible in much of their lives -- usually have jobs, children, maintaining a house, grocery shopping etc. etc.

The idea that these women would let their guard down and show a playful side of their lives where they enjoy being sensual . . . is something that the imagination can find plenty to fantasize about. Then being able to live out that type of fantasy is, or course, a dream/fantasy come true.

Of course this is all usually stimulated by some type of conscious or subconscious items of attraction that these women are exuding that stirs something within. Sometimes it's just the way they look in their jeans, a dress, the way they are wearing their hair, the color of their eyes, a combination of several things etc. etc.

You, for example, exude beauty, sexiness, grace, sensuousness, fun, playfulness, willingness . . .

Although I'm not "young", I've never been married, so I think some of these fantasy remain with me. Of course, I think more in terms of making a connection first, enjoying some playful flirtation and humorous conversation that is simply a subverting pursuit of my attraction.

Just another perspective . . .


Elysium7 52M/44F

2/21/2005 8:24 pm

Thank god there's still hope for this old mama! That kid who mows our lawn is starting to look really hot.


edlosi50 63M/60F  
2 posts
3/1/2005 4:02 pm

hello in2it, we think that the young men love women who are able to enjoy sex pure without any games around. best wishes from germany! josef who love to see how his love with other men.


KaKaKaKn 55M

3/2/2005 3:53 am

In2it . . . you have basically defined a "toy boy" with your response . . . it's physical without any strings attached. The women I enjoy physical expression with are friends as well, but it is understood by both sides that it won't go beyond that. Anyhow, that's what I think . . . you can define it whatever way you like . . . just nice to know there are desirable milf's like yourself allowing for mutual enjoyment!


Moshumuncher 55M

3/10/2005 11:54 am

Hey in2it...Nice new pic...they just keep getting better....just like the over 40 women...just keep getting better


henryandjune 45M/46F

3/10/2005 12:56 pm

Great question..........
I always had that fascination when I was younger and still find an older woman alluring. I think it stems from maturity or a crave to have ones maturity accepted by someone older. When I was twenty one I felt I was and adult, but with more than a decade having passed since then, I now realise how young I was then. I think the shoe works well on the other foot as well, I think plenty of older women like younger men.
Another thing about an older women that a younger guy is going to find attractive is her ability too say it like it is so everyone knows where they stand.
Thanks for the question and giving me an opportunity to give my opinion.
Henry


_CoffeeNoCream_ 52F

3/12/2005 6:10 pm

Ok...seems like there is a market for me to discover
*waves @ in2it*


XXXARTRA 49M
3 posts
3/13/2005 12:46 am

Hey in2it, I have offtened looked at you pics and just sat here wishing I was your husband or just closer, so I could spend time with yall. I am 37 and my ex-girlfriend was 41 and just looking at her drove me crazy (sexually) for some reason. Just to let you know yall could have been sisters! I have always loved older women for some reason. The only thing I can think back on is that they know what they want. Thinking back, the women I knew when I was younger, they all liked to go "clubbing". Older women (I think) like to spend time with there companion/mate and the guys like the attention. A MILF, is married and most people dont think of a "mom" going out clubbing. Think see them as stay at home woman and with that in mind alot of guys do see it as someplace to "stick thier wick" like you said earlier.

By the way if you are ever near memphis area, let me know. If not to join me then at least let me watch.


rm_endowed23 34M
3 posts
3/21/2005 7:27 pm

MILFS have better bodies...and act all serious.
I would enjoy cracking one.


rm_ssto 43M

3/23/2005 7:18 am

in2it2502,
Younger guys like you for a few reasons - the most obvious is that you are hott as hell! But just as strong I think is that your personality as it comes accross in your pictures is that you are happy and confident. A young guy knows he will not be treated poorly by you because you are a happy confident person and have no need to bring others down. Most my sexual relationships have been with women older than me and have been very satisfying both emotionally and in the bedroom. The last girl I had in my bed was a cute 21 blonde and we ended up calling it done before the deed was done. She was so immature in her bedroom behavior with all kinds of hot/cold and choreographed routines it was ridiculous. To her sex was about control and drama and it was a total turn off for me. I definetely like my partners to be relaxed, emotionally mature, confident, and willing to experiment.


rm_ssto 43M

3/23/2005 7:20 am

in2it2502,
And one more thing - I am starting to get a little salt to go with my pepper . Hope you had fun in Destin & looking forward to pics of your adventures!


rm_older52 69M

3/23/2005 6:51 pm

As an older gent, now 57, who has enjoyed older women since I was 18, it's a real treat to still enjoy them, and now we even enjoy the same music. Older women are more thoughtful, caring, appreciative and create a lot less drama. Just for the record, my oldest was 78 and she didn't look a day over 78 and we had a wonderful time enjoying each other. I was 52 at the time.


rm_happyhour108 49M

3/24/2005 2:51 pm

Hey IN2, I re3ad your blog a few days agoand started wondering(as a man who appreiciates older women as well as yoiunger) I think there's on thing no one hase touched on(no pun intended), Esspecially on this site(not that I'm an expert on swinger sites, as this is my fist one, and without success). From reading through the profiles, if you look, all the younger women are looking for phsically attractive men; whereas, the older women are looking for men who are comfortable with themselves. When I see women comparing their desires to particular celebrities, I must admit, what a turn off; and we're the shallow ones. Older (or mature if you will) women are much more adept to the company of a variety of people. Unlike the college girl who just want you to BE her last boyfriend. I'll stop there, I think I've made my point. Plus time to leave work--And I Don't mind that. A fine day to all who reads this. CIOA


LTCRET 75M

3/25/2005 11:02 am

Just to express my viwe. I too had a thing for older women They tought me how to make love I knew I did not know how to be a dood lover so in my late teens and till I was in my late 20 I always tried to see older ladies In my 30's and beyond age has little to do with who I find attrectice. I am seeing a 73 yo lady and a 23 yo lady. Both have a lot to offer me. Bottom line Have sex whit who trunes you on
George


Mark091951 65M
1 post
3/26/2005 3:58 am

Well it seems you have plumbed the well of experience. Let me give a perspective from the gold. As a young boy I would accompany my father whose business delivered supplies to brothels in our area. Many of the "girls" thought I was cute. It was always the older ones who would sneak me aside a give me a freebie...probably a welcome relief from the old farts who who patronized the house. To say that my chances of a normal sex-life were ruined is an understatement. I quickly learned more ways to satisfy women then any of my friends who only wanted to getit up, get it in and get it off.

Now I am the "Old Fart". While young stuff still becons, it is always the "old established firms" that get my attention!


twillie304 61M

3/26/2005 2:06 pm

Sorry for this dumb question, but what does MILF stand for?


opusatplay 56M
837 posts
3/26/2005 2:44 pm

As I was once married to a woman 19 yrs my senior, it is ok to say that the feelings and desires are the same that you have for your man. There is that real attraction with no reguard for age. Without looking at your profile and just this picture it's no wonder that younger men approach you....you got it all!


rm_lshsg 51M
2 posts
3/28/2005 12:01 am

First off, the woman has to be attractive no matter what her age. There are several reasons why older women are a better option (I'm speaking in generalities and will stipulate that there are plenty of exceptions). Older women have a better grip on life and they simply ARE sexy without trying to be sexy. Trying to be sexy is a self-eliminating task (kind of like trying to be cool, that is, if your trying then you're not cool). Many younger women where I live are completely self-absorbed and have no clue how to keep a man's interest intellectually. Older women have figured-out that men really do not care which bracelet looks better with that necklace, whether her shoes make her head look too big or whether that belt buckle make her arms look too long (Geez!). The conversation is typically on a higher level. Older women seem to have a more fun/recreational attitude toward sex and they are more open to exploring. They enjoy sex for its own sake. A lot of younger women seem too caught-up in the mystique of sex. Also, older women do have a je nais se quois about them. The bottom line is that I really don't care about age, but older women do have the advantage when it comes to life and bedroom experience. I just contacted a woman off of AdultFriendFinder tonight who is older and I can't wait to meet her.


out4rpleasure 44M/41F

3/28/2005 10:44 am

I don't have an answer to your question but I have allways ever since I could jack-off as a boy have been facinated by older women I have only been with one that was 9 years older than me when I was 15 but I still love to worship there beutiful bodies the way they carry themselves they also seem to love the smiles they get from younger men I have made a few blush checking them out in their cars on the way to work if I had the chance to have fun with one again of corse would be a couple thing now but would be a privlage to be tought again.I have seen some really good looking early 60 year olds I would have never guessed would have been a day past 40.


hotone48430 61M  
2 posts
3/30/2005 6:24 am

I think the sexiest women are generally over 40, (and always have.) Mrs. Robinson in The Graduate started me on my attraction --- I was 18 when it came out. I saw it not long ago and I laughed at how much things stay the same. I really would enjoy meeting an older lady now but they seem to be harder to find now that I'm 55. I would still like to go out with even older women!
Over 40 women know what sex is; they know they have not had the variety they would have had they known then what they know now; and they appreciate attentions that as younger women they took for granted. There is so much more the over 40 has to offer besides a mature body (and those are beautiful)!


rm_dad6140 55M
9 posts
4/21/2005 8:19 am

20 years ago I had a thing with a woman older than my mom. My mom did not approve but oh well. This woman an I really enjoyed ourselves for a long time but in the end I was just her toy. I recently came into contact with her and she is interested in picking up were we left off. I'm not but at the same time would like to see what its like 20 years later.


onelifethislife 63M/63F

4/22/2005 5:21 am

jeza...my wife , a remarkeable fit looking 52 .. ooozes sexuality, and is constantly suprised by the attention she receives from younger men around the 30 s...we tend to look for likeminded couples, of which there are few here, but so mnay younger /singleton males who can be very insistant in their desire to ' meet' up. last year we did infact meet and 'click' with a 30 year old, indeed he checked all our boxes despite having no partner , it was immediate chemistry of body and mind.His visits ( on average about once every sixweeks ) are always looked forward to we feel he is very special....What does he get from our relationship./ Love and respect and great sex......
Barry


onelifethislife 63M/63F

4/22/2005 2:10 pm

jeza...lol.. great question...as u r d expect... i enjoy other men finding my wife attractive, she is a sexy woman and why shouldnt they, as to how i feel if /when they fuck, ? Aroused, very; i can enjoy both (all ) genders and do get involved. My pleasure is rooted in my wifes enjoyment ( pun intended ). But we do need a lot of chemistry, gotta want to , and its a great feeling when it all comes together. Our friend is very respectful and charming , i like to see my partner , my soulmate acting " soppy " with and about another male who i am also attracted to. He has shown me another side of her has increased my enjoyment and love of her, and i feel her for me.. howdo you feel if/ when your husband has great sex with another woman infront of you, i presume somewhat here , i have only recently come across you blogg and dont know .


newguy12071941a 105M

1/1/2006 2:51 pm

Hey, just thought I would add my two cents here. Personally, I've enjoyed older women for a couple of reasons...

First off, I'm not looking for a permanent partner at this point. This being said, guys like myself are much less likely be be "trapped" by an unplanned (or planned against his wishes) pregnancy when being involved with an older woman.

Also, because of the age difference, the expectations of the relationship are a complete paradigm shift from that of one where the ages are closer.


rm_plsure_seekr 50M
1 post
2/4/2006 8:33 pm

My attraction to you isn't based on your age. It's based on your beauty and style. Put those two things together and you have an erotic mixture. Perhaps style is derived from life experience and that can be connected to age.


Lee0156 56M
1 post
2/6/2006 3:32 pm

I am 46 now, but when I was 20 or so I got into a group of four 'older women'. 37-42 they were....ohhhh, to be so old. ;^) For me, at that time, it was like I bagged a big catch. Good sex, good friends and all, but it was a game. I really feel bad about it now........;^P ohhh yea. I was bad, but we all enjoyed it, especially one evening when two of them stayed a bit longer and we 'played'. Everyone had fun and I think they saw me as a 'catch' also. I guess it was a sex game for them as well. Hummmmm........


79tallguy 38M

5/14/2006 10:20 am

as younger man, i like older women because, we know no games just sex, they know what they like and it always kinky. younger females dont know thier limits yet, anal sex, facial shots etc.... i love all women but older women have no sexaul limits.


checkingit2004 58M/62F
15 posts
5/15/2006 4:08 am

Mostly because you're older they think you're more desperate. Even tho' your picture shows you to be really gorgeous. That just shows the impersonal nature of their search.

Which underscores how desperate and pathetic they are. i caution you to stay away.


AussiePerthCpl 48M/43F

5/15/2006 4:55 am

I do like mature women, with intelligence as well as a sexy body. Just more in tune with what they want.

And with a body like yours - WOW!


rm_sohochap 67M
3 posts
5/22/2006 10:48 am

Jee In2it, you realy seem to have struck a chord with your question. I must tell you that my first sexual experiences with women in their 50s (two, one in Sweden, one in the UK) when I was in my twenties are still memorable. Both were utterly uninhibited, and ready to try anything, both had sex because they enjoyed it, not because it was a duty, or at least a trade-off. Give me an older woman any day. The only problem now that I am older myself is that too many older women are looking for young flesh. Unwisely in my view, because I certainly know more today about how to please a woman (and have the patience to practice it) than when I was in my twenties.

Maybe as interesting a question is why so many older women do want the young man's quick wick-dipping, and not the older man's care and attention.


rm_sohochap 67M
3 posts
5/25/2006 10:50 am

Well, In2it, you’re as smart and articulate as you are beautiful and sexy. I guess the days when women of a certain age accused men of a certain age of only being interested in twenty-somethings fell before “if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em.” LOL. I am surprised by your experience that older men become emotionally attached too easily. In my case that was the fault of my youth, which I have learned to overcome. On the other hand, as the years progress, it gets harder to find women who enjoy sex for the sake of sex, which is, I suppose, why so many guys over the age of 50 start exploring their bisexual side. But that’s surely the subject of another question.


rm_planedave 53M

8/12/2006 9:19 am

I think it's the "experience" factor... an older woman has sexual experience and can offer things a younger woman can't. The whole "Teacher - Pupil" Dynamic... plus now maybe it's become more of a "status" thing


Rocksolid27 67M/67F
3 posts
8/14/2006 12:08 pm

First of all, every man wants to dip his wick and that's the role we play. Women want to have the option to decide as well.

So beyond the most basic drivers for sex, why do men like MILFs?

I enjoy women of all ages, but I'm 56 now. I love the looks of a 25 year old woman, but sometimes feel like I have to put cotton in my ears to block out the conversation because there's just a lot of distance between us in the experience department.

I think the most beautiful age of a woman is within her 35-55 range and it is totally dependent on how much pride she has in herself. It doesn't matter in the least whether she's a 'Mother" or not.

I don't ask that question and have to know before my dick starts to rise. That isn't a prerequisite to me.

But maturity brings with it the experience of confidence and class. Younger women can try to exude class, but it comes across as slutty. I'm not into openly slutty until we get to the bedroom, and then I'm actually more interested in no holds barred raw sex and lots of variety.

I love your profile. My compliments to your husband for being able to capture your imagination and trust; and to you for keeping up the magic.

And yes, you are a MILF to me, whether you are a Mother or not.

I think there is also something to be said about the mature factor of sex not being a rushed event.

Believe me, I like heat. But I like heat followed by a little nap and then renewed passion.

You speak of wet panties. I speak of elevated heartbeats and anticipation; followed by slow, urgent, and repetitive copulation. In fact, I can't remember ever having a "quicky" with a mature woman. Women, in my opinion, actually aren't "women" until they've calmed down enough to know what the hell is going on in the first place.

And the reason you feel that most men just want to dip their wicks is because you've been dealing with the flash of fire rather than the sizzle of maturity.

We're a long way from you, but you are intriguing to answer.

But then again, there are times, that all I want to do is just fuck, if you know what I mean.


LOOKING4NSAPLAY 40M
2 posts
8/14/2006 10:23 pm

Hello in2it,

Being one of the younger men who has tried to get you repond to me, I'd love to give you my point of view. MOST not ALL are just trying to dip thier wicks as you put it. Everyone has thier own agenda so its hard to know why each of these younger men finds the need to be with a MILF.

This is how I look at it. To me I could care less if you were 25 or 50, if you are a mature, attractive, person who knows what they want I wouldn't hesitate to investigate the idea of meeting this woman. First of all the female figure is just a beautiful thing, the soft curves, the delicateness, the glow that a woman has just makes her appealing. Next is the attitude of an older woman, she is more intune with her body, has more self confidence, and usually tends to know more of what she desires.

Like I said before everyone has thier own reasons for doing what they do, I can only vouch for myself. Milf or no Milf I like to have great experiences with great people be it sexual or not. Thats my goal in life. To Live Life.

Bye the way yes I would consider you a MILF. You have one of the most alluring profiles here on AdultFriendFinder


Mich3335 60M
5 posts
9/13/2006 2:46 pm

Hi P,

It is the psychological connection to the Oedepial complex. Most or at least many men have a latent sexual connection to their mothers, not necessarily in a sense of sexual intercourse, but in an all knowing, all gratifying female being. Younger men grown-up with the belief or yen that they will be nurtured by an older female & thus fulfill this fantasy without actually breaking the incest barrier. I, myself though I have had a very active bachelorhood in my 20's & early 30's now find after divorce (20 yr marriage) that I find sex so much different with women in their 40's & 50's. Obviously they are more knowledgeable, but also more open & less afraid of giving of themselves. I could expand on this if you are interested......
Rick


joyfinder777 55M
5 posts
9/26/2006 6:04 am

Just came across your profile and blog.....Oh my!!!! To me, a true MILF needs to exude class. Thre are many women on here who are mothers, but are not MILF's. MILF's have a confidence that is demonstrated by the way they carry themselves and the way they handle themselves in any situation. Yes, they are, very often, physically attractive. The attraction, though, goes much deeper. In looking at your pictures, you show confidence, a strength. It shows in your eyes.

A true MILF needs to be more than just a body. She needs to have a brain, too. That is SOOO sexy. Too many people (not just women) have well developed bodies, but poorly developed brains. There needs to be grey matter to complete the truly sexy individual. In2it, you ARE a MILF. Enjoy. JT


rm_TRYMOREUS 60M/51F
25 posts
10/6/2006 9:34 am

My dear I have had a more experiences with young man. They just need a lessons, or new experiences.Why not? Let we be nice and very christian prepared to share. Hugs Dana.


rm_TRYMOREUS 60M/51F
25 posts
10/6/2006 9:38 am

WOW... body like Yours is more than SEXYYY.


rm_TRYMOREUS 60M/51F
25 posts
10/6/2006 9:46 am

Dear in2it Milf is a part of limited sex life???? We know that usuall cpls (still in love) have a agreement what they be done.


Mich3335 60M
5 posts
12/15/2006 5:19 pm

There are a number of reasons why 'younger' males are 'seemingly' attracted to 'older' women. First & foremost is the Oedipus influence which 99.9% of those males don't realize 7 some who have no idea of the psychological tendancy. I too was attracted when in my teens & 20's, but guess what I still am even though I have never dated or married a woman my age or older. That said, one of the respondents hit on another reason which is the consciousness of many people (male & female) over 40 and the motivation to stay healthy. Then again another poster responded that many "just want a place to dip their wick' & to that extent they are of course being disingenuous as to their attraction. Nevertheless, you remian one of the sexiest woman on the site at any age!
Rick3335


armleg2 61M

2/28/2007 3:49 pm

i think that younger men enjoy the role playing of older women as mothers aunts friends mother and so on
i know that when i was 16 i had a hot time with a friends mother she was not bad looking but she knew what to do she didn't care about love or committment just sex
so i think that younger guys just like the ide of doing older women for the thought of like i said friends moms thier moms or aunts


rm_foxyman694 60M
12 posts
3/5/2007 8:47 pm

well first its the challenge of a sexy mature women to get her attention and experience i think and to satisfy her is a gift so there is my analogy john


rm_foxyman694 60M
12 posts
8/16/2007 9:03 pm

well first its the heated experienced women that knows the ropes and exspects the drill second the entrigue third the manicured spotless milf that is delicious responsive and classy like you your a1 johnny


boytoy_013 40M

10/2/2007 1:48 am

I love women that are older. Personally, I couldn’t even begin to tell you were it stems from. All I know is that I’m am very attracted to mature women, and I embrace it. Why should their be an explanation for our sexual impulses? Doesn't "Figuring out why?" take away from letting our selves enjoy being human, especially those with enough sexual energy to light up a city. I’ve had few encounters with older women and the experiences were thrilling. I do have to admit, they have their game on, more so then younger ladies. Mature women are elegant, classy, great conversationalists, independent, and just down right sexy. What can I say I’m a “MILF Lover” and proud of it


SCORPIO731973 43M
95 posts
10/27/2007 9:33 pm

Older women have a confidience and sensuality about them.Men know an older woman has more sexual experience and can give them greater pleasure with less inhibitions.Younger women can be reserved and unwilling to experiment in bed.Plus,there is the myth that women do not hit their peek sexually until they are over 40.Young guys must assume they are always horny and willing to screw any young stud in arms length,like in some bad porno.


Kimgirl24 34F

11/8/2007 5:11 am

What do you think about young women for milfs in2it2502. I my case her it is..older..attentive..no bull shit..experienced..appreciative..need I say more


SECChamps2004 49M
19 posts
11/25/2007 1:41 pm

Theres a lot less drama with MILFs


alwayswanting65 50M/63F
1 post
12/7/2007 11:37 am

Well for my 2 cents I was taught by an older lady when I was blank(better not say online LO and there has never been a girl my age or younger that could show me anything. I am now married to an older woman and would not trade her for 2 younger girls in any shape or form. Older women just know how to do everything right. I think these men that leave their wives for younger women made a huge mistake. I can say that from experince. They should of paid more attention to them and they would not of wanted a younger girl.


UpStanding2008 66M
572 posts
1/6/2008 8:40 am

As BEAUTIFUL and SEXY as you are LADY you will attract in some way every thing that breathes .


Sara4thesharing 47M/45F
3 posts
1/6/2008 9:29 pm

We want to contact you but can't, expand your limit to 100 miles... Please Sara & Steve


PupilIraqiAgony 44M
1 post
1/8/2008 12:30 pm

I can't say exactly why, but I would guess experience is the main reason. Every 20 year guy old wants a 40 year old woman. Just like every 40 year old guy wants a 20 year old woman. I guess the grass is just always greener on the other side.


RUwearingpanties 37M

1/18/2008 4:29 pm

Let me begin by stating that this is a terrific topic! I must say that I am highly attracted to the mature woman for their charisma, sex appeal, wit and intelligence. The allure comes from many facets and I simply adore every ounce of it.

I have had a few experiences and quite honestly still crave more. My first experience was nearly six years ago (I 22yo...she 39yo). It was incredible and after dozens of "encounters"...we eventually lost touch. It was as if she was in it for the same reason as I. That reason, hypothetically, was for the sensation and exchange of orgasm. She had a hysterectomy performed a year or so before we met and I had (and still have) a never-ending cum supply. Thats my best and most primal answer!

Oh and by the way...YOU ARE SUPER SEXY!! please take a look at my profile and contact me if interested at all. I am craving some MILF!


rm_Shayan1970 46M

3/11/2008 6:03 pm

Experience! You honestly cannot compare love making ability of an older sexy woman to a younger girl that is just begining to learn that orgasms feel good. No strings attached. Most older woman do not want a long term relationship especially if they have been in one for many years and now are divorced. I know personally that the best sex I ever had at the age of 22 was with a 35 year old woman.


rm_Shayan1970 46M

3/11/2008 6:03 pm

Experience! You honestly cannot compare love making ability of an older sexy woman to a younger girl that is just beginning to learn that orgasms feel good. No strings attached. Most older woman do not want a long term relationship especially if they have been in one for many years and now are divorced. I know personally that the best sex I ever had at the age of 22 was with a 35 year old woman.


Jester7974 42M

5/1/2008 5:35 am

Older women tend to be more experienced and know exactly what they want when it comes to sex. I have been with a couple women at least 20 yrs my senior and found the experience to absolutely awesome. They know what they want and know how to please you as well!!


rm_fruit01loop 55M
4 posts
5/10/2008 7:48 pm

hi all i agree with the guys on here elagantes is the thing well iv seen some weman in there 60's i wouldent pass up,im 46 and love sex and cant get enough im single any lady takers,sory had to plug,tks


rm_dave_in_vt 48M

7/1/2008 11:26 am

With age comes experience. Experience brings talent and a total lack of fear and uncertainty in bed. MILF'S Rock! Wish I had one right now!


xrezat 37M

7/2/2008 5:52 pm

Wow....all the right answers are above and you're definitely a milf!


AsianAmerCplROK 63M/63F

3/8/2009 12:20 am

It is the experience an older woman has


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