Ever thought about cheating?  

imLadyBambi 58M/50F
1308 posts
5/8/2006 9:36 am

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5/14/2006 12:35 am

Ever thought about cheating?

Have you ever thought about or wanted to cheat on your lover(past or present)?

I was wondering:

If you have thought about it, do you think you could ever act on these thoughts given the right set of circumstances?

If so, would you(did you) ever tell your partner?

If you have never thought about it, was it because you are that faithful or is it because you have been badly hurt in the past?

Thanks for your input...Lady Bambi
Thought about it
Hell, I've already done that! What's next?

Spiritswilling 63M

5/8/2006 10:20 am

Yes, I've thought about it, and still am very seriously. Thats why I'm on this site. It's not a question of wanting variety either. When the wife tells you sex is just "distasteful" to her, (we've not had a very active sex life anyway) well, what do you do? Divorce over not getting any? That sounds a little extreme being we get along otherwise. Get some on the side? It's a no win situation.

lightswitch1963 68M/53F

5/8/2006 10:34 am

A past marriage, she was first so i followed suit. Not the answer too patching up a marriage...Now with Mrs lightswitch...Never cross my mind.. Gruge fucks never work..Yes I did tell the first wife, I guess so I could bost that if she could do it I COULD too, or it was a way to say les split..I guess we should have been on swapfinder.. NOT!!!!!!! WOULD NOT HAVE MEET MRS L 10YRS AND GOING STRONG........

lightswitch1963 68M/53F

5/8/2006 12:08 pm

Have cheated on everyone I have ever been with............exept Mr.L. Thought never crossed my mind. Honestly, the one I cheated on everyone with (same guy every time) came to see me after me and Mr. L met, I told him to hit the road, wasn't gonna fuck this one up. Love is a powerful thing.

rm_KirkVW44m 54M
688 posts
5/8/2006 4:45 pm

I have and i didn't feel guilty about it as it was love based. But i'm still with my lovely wife of nearly 19 years and i would never tell her because some people cant see or understand openly as to why. Its not about sex its about love and sharing with more then one.. Bottom line.... You could be married for 20 or 30 year and easily fall in love with another person but the choice you have to make at that point is to accept it or lie to yourself.. There is nothing wrong with falling in love with somebody in my eyes.

waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

5/8/2006 11:43 pm

oops I read the poll wrong, I did cheat on a past bf......it was a revenge fuck. But with my husband I have not or not even thought about it, there's no need to because we're both very open about it.

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
5/9/2006 1:11 pm

I don't think about cheating. But I do think about being with other men - with my lover present or knowing about it - that's not cheating right???


Musicmanforevr 78M
34 posts
5/9/2006 9:12 pm

If you're a true swinger and in to serious swinging, the idea of cheating is totally eliminated. You don't have to cheat if you're already screwing anybody and everybody that you want to....and with your partner/spouse's approval...because they are doing it too. The entire idea of cheating is totally absurd to me. It's absolutely unecessary.....and childish.

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