Am I Doing Something Wrong?  

ilikeyoung1s 51F
13 posts
8/20/2006 12:24 pm

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1/21/2007 6:40 am

Am I Doing Something Wrong?


So, had it happen again..met a guy, hooked up, thought it went good...sounded and acted like it did, anyway. Then, I get the "I'll keep in touch" line. Got the feeling it didn't go well with him. Didn't get that feeling while it was happening. Are all the guys here looking for one time flings? All say they want friends with bennies. I'm not looking for a scheduled thing. And I wonder, could I be that bad? What could I be doing differently to get a guy to say, "yeah, I wanna hook up again"?

slowhandsonyou 53M

8/20/2006 6:24 pm

Make sure they understand the mechanics of the car and demonstrate a little commitment on keeping it running( understand you and your needs) before they drive the car (smack you between the sheets). If they put no time in on the front end,don't expect anything on the back end.
GoodLuck
slowhandsonyou


elmexicano_2k 46M

8/21/2006 9:21 am

No, the guy was just a player. It's hard to say what he felt to be honest. I still think he was playing you.

You're always going to have guys who are just trying to get laid and move on to the next challenge. How do you weed them out? That's tough because lots of guys will do/say whatever you want them to, just to get a piece of ass.

I would say your best bet is to look at their friends, read testimonials if they have them, maybe chat and email longer. First meet should be just a meet, no sex.

I'm sure there are other things you can do, but those are right off the top of my head.

Good luck and sorry about the a-hole. It happens unfortunately.

Butch: I'm American, honey. Our names don't mean shit.


Letsplayct222 49M
10 posts
9/14/2006 11:05 am

I want a hook up just for sex but it has to be fun not work......we have to click in and out of bed.....


studinct4u 53M
14 posts
9/19/2006 10:36 pm

likeyoung1s,
I read your blog, and I think all woman who looking for long term relationship they must date couple times before get laid. Most one timer (who looking for just one time sex) would be in hurry for sex and you gotta check that attitude.
You like youngers so most younger will meet you and then they might interested in having sex but as being young they are not stable yet. If you like longterm relation you need stable man and you know in what age person could be STABLE minded !
young age always in mood to try . . they change mood often. Yes they have good energy but they don't have steady mind.
I'm not sure you will agree with my opinion . . . but I think some what I'm right
. you can chat with me


rm_CaptHowdy567 38M
1 post
10/13/2006 11:09 am

If yo are looking for young guys thats cool but you need to find one that will be like "hi how ya doin, wanna go get a drink or go to a movie" that kinda thing and if you two hit it off and have a good time in and out of the bedroom and he says when can i see you again that just might be your keeper right thier.but don't take my word for it thats just how i would like to be treated. just like the golden rule says treat others like how you would want to be treated we are all human and we all have "needs" but some people like the guy you were just with sounds like his "needs" arn't that great.


chad11986 30M
1 post
10/19/2006 9:14 am

hey im 20 and am from norwich if you want to hang out sometime let me know and see how things go from there


studinct4u 53M
14 posts
10/20/2006 7:20 am

    Quoting studinct4u:
    likeyoung1s,
    I read your blog, and I think all woman who looking for long term relationship they must date couple times before get laid. Most one timer (who looking for just one time sex) would be in hurry for sex and you gotta check that attitude.
    You like youngers so most younger will meet you and then they might interested in having sex but as being young they are not stable yet. If you like longterm relation you need stable man and you know in what age person could be STABLE minded !
    young age always in mood to try . . they change mood often. Yes they have good energy but they don't have steady mind.
    I'm not sure you will agree with my opinion . . . but I think some what I'm right. you can chat with me
I'm at major messenger if you are creative Y! or A I M or H O T male, Any one iterested can IM me.


fireman12575 41M
17 posts
11/14/2006 10:35 am

<<<< looking to hook up...one time...
if its fun...then a regular hook up...(schedules permitting)


malewithbrains 42M
1896 posts
11/29/2006 12:24 am

Problem with youngins (male or female) is they do not understand how this marriage thing works. I don't know about your house, but at mine, late night phone calls no no, hang up if she answers no no no, call while you are drunk or high on something no no no no...

And they fail to understand our restrictions, before we can play the lawn needs to be mowed, laundry folded, plus we have a mortgage to pay. Once you meet and these unfold it is good bye time.

I have stopped even trying to date women under 30 or who have never been married. Maybe get over your "young" ones hobby and try to link up with same minded people ???


rm_Marine4U981 35M
3 posts
11/30/2006 5:23 pm

sorry to hear about all that. i'm looking for a friend with bennies. and i'm not just a one time user, i like to make sure we both get what we want. so if you wanna chat sometime.......


norwichguy06360 42M

1/20/2007 10:09 pm

I'm 32 and close by in Norwich. Maybe we could get together sometime for coffee, or whatever. Who knows where it could lead. Let me know if you'd be interested somehow.


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