good sex scenes  

iawriter64 52M
137 posts
12/30/2005 10:19 am

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4/6/2006 6:44 am

good sex scenes

I've been reading erotic stories on blogs quite a bit lately and have found so many good sex scenes described in great detail. I love that!
Sometimes I find that I can really get into the precise details of oral, etc, other times I can't. I think my major problem in writing is that I like the set up and anticipation to sex, and then sometimes lack the detail when it comes to writing the scene.
The best scenes seem to come from real experiences... which I seem to not be having lately

What motivates you to write a good sex scene- real experiences or fantasy?

sexyeyes375 47F

1/17/2006 9:41 pm

Almost all of my scenes are either real or come from real experience. There are maybe two or three that are fantasies, and most people can't tell which those are. My motivation is taking something or someone real and incorporating it into the scene.. and feeling it. I will write when the idea comes up.. (he he).. wherever that may be, so I have bits of erotica written all over.. in my purse, etc. I find the more sex I have, the less I write.. hmmm..

iawriter64 52M
312 posts
1/18/2006 8:05 am

sexyeyes and katey--Thanks for the feedback. I like the idea of writing when the idea comes up and not waiting and keeping the bits and pieces of erotica around until needed. I also find I have so little time to sit down and write-- I need to schedule time to do it in the midst of my busy day and work (which involves a lot of boring writing )

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