What do women really want??? Nice guy or the asshole?  

hyperscott228 32M
43 posts
6/21/2006 7:40 am

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What do women really want??? Nice guy or the asshole?

Six years ago I left my highschool and vowed to not be walked on. I was one of thoes kids who got picked on all the time in highschool, was always single, life pretty much sucked. When I moved, I said no more, and started standing up for myself, which adventually led to me picking on others and walking on them. Life was good, I was getting some from a few fuck buddies, then had a few girlfriends, but I had a revelation last year. Some guy called me a real asshole, and I stopped to think about it, and I was. So i stopped being an asshole, and started being the nice guy. I chose my moral integrity over pride. Since that day, I havnt gotten laid once. Mostly because of bad timming( monthly timings of fuck buddies), school, and trainning. But it still stands, Since I started being Mr. Nice guy, I`ve gotten nothing, and its really hard to be the nice guy, and not the asshole. I`ve herd it in the past that woman want a strong caring compasionate man, which is a load of crap, cause it seems that all women want is the guy that walks all over everyone. Women of AdultFriendFinder, I ask you this, what exactly do women want from a guy, i know this sight isnt the best spot to ask, cause some women here just want sex from men, which is cool with me so long as thats what they say their looking for, but in general, what do the fairer sex want?

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bipolybabe 55F

6/21/2006 8:25 am

I like 'em both. I've been attracted to real assholes, and I usually end up getting my feelings hurt even when all I thought I wanted was a good fuck. Assholes apparently can't fuck the same woman twice, and it's about the third or fourth time that it starts to get good for me.

I have now acquired Live-In Penis (LIP) who is a really nice guy, and I, ulp, love him.

Now, that doesn't mean I'm choosing monogamy. Neither is he. We're experimenting with living "poly" or polyamorously, which I'm writing about in my blog.

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TnWitchyWoman 56F
6852 posts
6/21/2006 8:49 am

Wellll...honestly, both. The love of my life was a "nice guy". He was ALWAYS there if I needed anything, and usually there if I wanted something too. But he had an edge to him. I'd seen it many times but it was never used against *me*. He owned several businesses. One of them was a landscaping/lawn service. I'd see him do things like over charging some business that was doing well...and then he'd turn around and have his crew mow the elderly guys lawn down the street for free because he was not able to pay much on a fixed income. So I guess he was an asshole to the business, but a nice guy to the elderly gentleman but he was the same guy just doing what he thought was right. I don't want some guy I can walk all over...no one does. But I want someone that will stand with me toe to toe. Tell me when I'm right...and when I'm wrong. Help me when I need it, and kick my ass when it needs it too. Hawk could make a baby smile or make you feel safe walking down the darkest alley. So it's a good mix of nice guy and asshole that will get my attention. I just don't want the asshole being used against me unless it's really warranted.

MarcySullivan 52F  
3598 posts
6/23/2006 10:10 am

    Quoting _worth_a_slurp_:
    They want the nice guy up the asshole, lol, just had to,lol
lol worth!!! Good one!!

I for myself prefer nice guys. The kind that have respect for others.


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Abby1112 37F  
3962 posts
4/21/2011 8:22 pm

It appears that neither sex knows what the hell they want cause us "nice girls" are having just as hard time as you "nice guys" lol.

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